If the Nice Guys Could MAN UP a Little, I'd Date Them (Page 2)
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Please have a quick look at this and tell me if these two resonate with you at all. I wrote them a while ago, so this might help sort out your thoughts on the most basic, logical level:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a8369-what-women-really-want-cutting-trough-the-nice-guy-alpha-male
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a8361-cutting-through-the-nice-guy-alpha-male-confidence-bullshit
Until women get fed up with being knocked up without a man who will stay, enjoy being beaten, sexually and verbally abused and get tired of what kind of freak their friends think they should be with this will never end.
Turn off the TV. Power down your Internet device.
Grow up. Wake up.
What is this garbage? This makes absolutely no sense. What the hell do you mean by "man up?" I see so many double standards. This is all misandry against men whether or not you like to admit it. I'm not a nice guy, so I'm not biased by the way... Oh yeah, I'm asexual/aromantic so I wouldn't be interested in dating you. This garbage makes so proud that I don't have to deal with women who think like you.
A man can be a man and manly yet still be nice, in fact a real wonderful man is nice. Nice doesn't mean pushover or extremely shy it just means he is kind and not mean. You can have both, and females saying that you can not and trying to make nice men seem wimpy is wrong and does a disservice to kind people especially kind men. Thank you to the men who are nice and kind, no matter what some females say..,
There is a difference between a nice guy and a pushover girls seem to think the two are synonomous. They aren't, i know plenty of 'nice guys' who actually have a backbone and are indeed quite attractive to girls. Much like i know a few pushovers.
I used to be a pushover till i got a hard dose of reality at uni in the form of depression and since then i've gradually begun to improve myself in the sense of having a backbone
This^
I would agree with everything but one part.
"There are also times when I don't want this shy awkward lovemaking that so many "nice guys" think all girls love; there are times when I just want to be FUCKED"
It's perfectly fine, only you know what you want, but, has it ever occurred your mind that MAYBE it is me (general saying, not me as in I) the one who doesn't want to "just fuck you", that it may be I the one who prefer shy lovemaking over rude sex?
It is okay if you don't like it, but it doesn't mean that the other person is wrong in wanting that.
i disagree with everything you wrote because everyone has different personalities.
it cannot be that every nice guy is the same because everyone is different on they way they interact with people.
i know so many great fathers that treat their wives and children very well but they all have flaws in them like everyone.
everyone has their own preference.
I love how some women will admit that they want their boyfriend to call them out when they're acting "bitchy." But, the second they do, half of her friends start giving the guy dirty looks and accusing him of mistreating her.
That's one of the things I loved about my ex. When she said she wanted to be called out, she meant it - I'd call her out, we'd argue, then we'd kiss and makeup. Most girls that I've dated aren't like that.
Hahaha! I LOVE this take! I hear you on being able to get a lot of the "niceness" from your friends, so why do you need a man? I have the same sort of conversations with people who say I "should" want someone who's going to "challenge" me or who I can have deep intellectual conversations with and such. And I'm like, "you mean like EVERY SINGLE ONE of my friends and co-workers?" No freaking thanks! I mean, that's great and all and I wouldn't turn down a girl who had those qualities, but what I'm ACTUALLY looking for is good personality (integrity, loyalty, honesty, values, etc.), nice (kind, loving, etc.), hot, and fun! Anything else is window dressing!
All women have a slutty side and want to be fucked and disrespected every once in a while. This is nothing new 😂
I learned this a while back. Being a nice guy doesn't cut it. And being a good girl doesn't work for women either.
Good girls end up with bad boys
And nice guys end up with ugly girls
My god guys can bet bitter
Thing is that there is a difference between nice guy and wimp that a lot of guys don't get. Just because yourepassive does not mean you are nice.
Example. I ask a girl out. But I take precautions so she can feel safe. We go somewhere in her hometown, we meet publicly.
That's being nice. Staying at a distance drooling is being a wimp.
Op what you look for is a nice guy but you got stuck with weak spined men that think that that's being nice!
Stereotype, empty words, you have no idea about how " nice guys" think , just trying to make less of a man out of them and cuckolding them. #stfu
This has more to do with personality than just being a "nice guy" or a "bad guy". Everyone has nice and bad sides to them. When I hear "bad guy" I think of an abusive man that cheats on his so. I'm sure that isn't what you want and it seems like you don't know how to explain yourself. Telling men to "man up" is extremely sexist. Everyone is different. What doesn't please you may please others. Just move on. Stop labeling people into 2 categories. This isn't high school.
I have CPTSD after being with a borderline for 11 years.
Sometimes I act a bit bipolar because of it. Or more to the point women often annoy me and I point it out now as I could care less. Funny thing, women like me a lot more now.
So yes, women like guys who are f'd in the head and basically have multiple personalities.
The more I dislike the average woman, the more they like me. I maned up and said f these bi.. he's and they respect me for it.
The second you show any weakness they exploit it. Probably because a man shouldn't have weaknesses. Yay equality.
I wouldn't be so jaded if I had not gone through this all first hand. And this is what sticks with me most of all, there was a point when I was angry for weeks-I averaged three numbers per day from random women without asking. Being unhappy is a turn on, and for that I've lost respect for the average woman.
Well, men have always been men since the cavemen days but along came this feminist movement and tried to "pussify" men and this is what we got. So don't go crying because you want a guy like this because us women created this shit... now we have to deal with it.
I really appreciate a nice guy, and I too am into a "manly man" but nice guy doesn't = pussy. A man who treats me with respect and is "nice" meaning he is sweet to me, caring, affectionate, and doens't tell me to shut up... that's a true gentleman. If I'm being "bitchy" and my guy told me that, I don't see that as more of a man, but a turn off. If you are into jerks, then cool but they're no where near a being a "manly man," they're the exact opposite
All women are different, and you can only speak for yourself. Normally with a take like this i'd think the writer would give us men some tips on how to get a girl. However this take sounds more like tips for us on how to date you. And seeing as the chances are nihil that we would ever go on a date together, this take is quite superfluous.
It's always the "I can be anything" types of girls who want to toss men into two categories, the ones who'd rail against similar categorization with their dying breath. Remember, hon, guys are people, too.
Those dudes who are "here to watch"... I'm sure that's what you enjoy doing when your Honduran lawn boy comes over to plow your woman.
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