Guys: Here's What's You're Getting Wrong About Girls (Page 2)
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The key to understanding women is to realise that they are driven by narcissism and hypergamy.
All other behaviours can be traced back to those two motivations.
Women are barely simple. From all women I know, there is just one who is simple and yes I know more than 1 woman ;)
If you marry, if you wanna have children, if you believe in true love, you have to generalize women. If there isn't the perfect woman for you how should marriage last for eternity?
you say a lot of men are insecure huh most men don't have insecurities cause they don't hide behind their mistakes like most women do we can all point the finger on who's really in the wrong here but it ain't doing us any favors by saying who really is in the wrong
I agree with not idealizing women or putting them on a pedestal. If you think ones perfect, just ask one question. Are you perfect yourself?
I don't know if it's that I don't "get" women but I'm trying to figure myself out as I'm able to attract a lot of women initially but not in the long run and get told I'm funny and cute a lot. It makes me wonder what I'm doing on my end for it to always end up that way.
For the first one, i think many women would beg to differ. Many women wouldn't take a guy seriously unless they pay on a first date and spend on them
I paid for my boyfriend on our first date. I know other women who have done so as well. Maybe you're dating the wrong type of women?
I believe you but honestly, I don't know one single girl who thinks like that. Not one. None at all.
ask it here on gag where girls have the option of going annonymous and see
There's a major shift in how women see money and dating between early and late 20s. Not for all women. But most. Not that they want guys to spend more that they want them to be making a solid income.
Most women don't want to feel like you're going out of your way to spend on them. They want it to seem effortless.
All guys I know pay attention and listen to girls. Just paying attention doesn't mean it will work out if you both have fundamentally conflicting principles. But yeah everything else is good to keep in mind.
Not listening isn't always the case of not knowing women are mad. Especially when they don't tell you the real reason or give you the silent treatment. Sometimes girls need to be more vocal why they are mad or more willing to workout the problem.
I agree with this completely.
I also think some users on here really need to take note of what you've said.
Funny enough, this doesn't fix the issue of not being able to find a girl to date.
Such bullshit. Why would I want to listen to what women say? Most of what they say is bullshit and just drives me insane.
Lulzy. A common joke among my friends and I:
What did she say?
How would I know... A female was speaking, you think I was listening?
Looks, money and status is the key to a womans heart.
Trust me... us guys know what we see with our eyes.
I think the only good point here is don't idealize women
nice take.
explained in a (somewhat generalized and simplified way) the basis of a good and REALISTIC rl haha.
well done ;)
Yeah, i originally stopped doing the fancy date because i was going out with so many girls and it was getting pricey but you're right most times i find the shittier the date the more fun a girl has.
No point of wasting my time on reading this whole mytake, I just read the reasons. Why can't us guy can focus on ourselves without the possibility of having a girl?
Until laws are changed to menfair guys, I won't waste my time on a single stuck-up, nascisstic whore!
What do you do when some chick, who I loved, wanted me to beat the shit out of her better and harder than the other guy she's seeing? Pardon me if I just don't get the message...
never ever try to figure out a women just learn how to treat them
I agree with first one completely oh and some of us are very straight forward so if I'm mad, he will know why, no games over here
it's easy to understand what women want. Looks, money, status. That's it.
Saying that all women want is looks, money and status is like saying that all men want is looks, looks, and looks. It's easy to grumble about that being the case, especially if you're not someone who tends to get tons of attention from the opposite sex. But I bet you'd disagree if I argued that that's really all men care about.
@samhradh_leannan Yes I will argue with that because it's not all what men care about. Even though men are more visual they don't only care about looks. Maybe for a ONS or a hookup then yeah. I say women care about looks, money, and status because it's true. You see it all the time in the media and in person that the guy who draws most of the female attention has all 3 things I listed. Looks is subjective so anybody can find you attractive. It's just some people are better looking than others. I also find women placing personality well over looks to be way over exaggerated.
You've proven my point.
@samhradh_leannan how?
You're arguing that the stereotype that all men care about is finding a girl who looks like a Barbie doll isn't true. You see that in the media and social settings all the time too, but you say it's not true because you know that lots of guys end up with girls who have all sorts of appearances. Well, the same applies to the stereotype that all girls care about is money and status. Sure, you see that in the media, and sometimes in real life too. But all kinds of men end up happily in relationships, regardless of their wealth, status, or appearance. They're comparable stereotypes and neither is any truer than the other. But you think yours is true because you're a guy so that's the one you care about.
@samhradh_leannan I know there are guys with lower status that end up in relationships but those guys usually have much less options and takes them much longer to find someone who's attracted to them. I'll admit I have a biased view point because I'm a guy looking for a woman instead of the other way around but I'm just speaking from a general perspective.
I never listen when girls give advice to men about girls, sometimes I ask questions just to see what they say it's usually wrong
I listen. And make my own judgement on whether to adhere. I ALWAYS squash a girl when she says: "Don't judge.". I WILL judge. Live with it.
@skeptic002
It is usually wrong? Bhahaha... lol
You think guys give better advice on women? 😂
Ok ooo... ( '-')
@JoyGirl when it comes to getting women men give better advice then women, women are so confused about so much