Anybody who reads glamour magazine is just as uninformed as the guys spewing these "pieces of advice"
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Is this the part where you are insulting me, to try to turn me on, LOL! No, but seriously, I think guys are getting all offended and taking this list personally, but this is a list composed of bad dating advice presumably given by guys who don't know crap about how dating or women work. Why that would personally offend someone who has never done these things or given this advice, is beyond me. Intelligent people read dumb stuff all the time. That doesn't in anyway determine their intelligence. It's like politics... you have to know what the other side is thinking and feeling and doing to know and understand why it is you feel your side is the one that should do or say or believe the way you do.
The point that I am trying to make is... who cares? It's a magazine lol. The author of this article is probably some feminazi who showers with 3 cats and a gerbil
Moreover... if all this is advice is REALLY that bad... then why are women putting out easier than they ever have in the history of mankind?
What is this 1995? I don't think guys do any of this stuff anymore. Maybe the "put her down part" because there will always be jerks and the girls who fall for them. But the rest of this stuff is outdated.
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I'm not at all surprise you came across this list men allegedly give each in Glamour Magazine. LOL. Seriously? You need to get a better source for your "facts" because there are few facts in what you wrote here. I don't know any guys who would give or accept any of this advice. Sounds like it was written by a woman without any experience with what men actually do and say.
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Who said these were facts? LOL. Literally no one, not even the mag, but keep in mind two things. First, you've got to remember that just b/c you don't hear them or your friends have never said these things, doesn't mean others haven't heard them and second, these are the WORST pieces of advice probably given by terrible or clueless friends. If you have neither, then sure, this may seem crazy. For perspective, I just read a question 2 days ago on GaG about a guy wondering if a girl was out of his league, so clearly some guys are talking about it, and the three day wait thing, and "the game" thing are things that do exist.
So your response here starts out by saying these are not facts, and then you proceed to try to convince me they are. This is complete tabloid garbage. Total crap.
They might not be facts to you because you've never heard them, and as such, seen the proof, so to you they may seem all false, but thumbing through the comments, gasp, some men have heard them. How do you know the ocean water is sometimes blue if you're blind and can't see it? It's still a fact.
9. You know what's hot, watching a girl shut these fuckers down or telling their tales of such glorious denial. That, my dear, is having a brain. Knowing that you are the master over primitive instincts.
i think 7 is a pretty solid tip... if you´re a fat slob, then this shows that you don´t care a lot about your body or have health issues. so if you want a fit and healthy weight girlfriend, its not a bad idea to work that out first xD
I'd probably move on like "meh, I guess he's not interested." And then after he finally got around to message me, I'd think he's playing games or entertaining other women.
2 and 4 aren't a big deal, but I agree the rest are trash
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I love how dudes are trying to justify this advice. All these tips are complete bullshit. Just admit it guys, if you give this advice you're pretty stupid.
haha I've only heard the "wait three days to call her" one... :P
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Except for no 10, I have never heard this advice EVER!!! And for 10, I just don't care about clothes due to money. Once, I had some money, I got some better clothes. A wife's point of view is also very helpful.
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My two cents on the ones I agree with: 1. true, but hopefully, it's because he's is busy with life, just like the girl, and doesn't have time to call. Otherwaise making someone wait is just dumb. 2. correct 3. correct 4. true, but since everyone is a text head nowadays, I guess it's ok. 5. true, but not TOO many compliments. 6. VERY TRUE!!! Outside of school age, there is no such thing as leagues. Everyone is an adult, which is in the same league 7. true. why can't you work on both? 8. HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! you got that one!! 9. I heard of push pull, but 9 is not how it's done 10. true
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Anybody who reads glamour magazine is just as uninformed as the guys spewing these "pieces of advice"
Is this the part where you are insulting me, to try to turn me on, LOL! No, but seriously, I think guys are getting all offended and taking this list personally, but this is a list composed of bad dating advice presumably given by guys who don't know crap about how dating or women work. Why that would personally offend someone who has never done these things or given this advice, is beyond me. Intelligent people read dumb stuff all the time. That doesn't in anyway determine their intelligence. It's like politics... you have to know what the other side is thinking and feeling and doing to know and understand why it is you feel your side is the one that should do or say or believe the way you do.
The point that I am trying to make is... who cares? It's a magazine lol. The author of this article is probably some feminazi who showers with 3 cats and a gerbil
Moreover... if all this is advice is REALLY that bad... then why are women putting out easier than they ever have in the history of mankind?
And no lol I don't put down women to turn them on... well only in the bedroom =P
Lol you know how I know this isn't true because that's not what we tell each other. It's just what people like you think we do.
This article was most likely written by women for women I highly doubt there were any men involved in it at all.
What is this 1995? I don't think guys do any of this stuff anymore. Maybe the "put her down part" because there will always be jerks and the girls who fall for them. But the rest of this stuff is outdated.
I'm not at all surprise you came across this list men allegedly give each in Glamour Magazine. LOL. Seriously? You need to get a better source for your "facts" because there are few facts in what you wrote here. I don't know any guys who would give or accept any of this advice. Sounds like it was written by a woman without any experience with what men actually do and say.
Who said these were facts? LOL. Literally no one, not even the mag, but keep in mind two things. First, you've got to remember that just b/c you don't hear them or your friends have never said these things, doesn't mean others haven't heard them and second, these are the WORST pieces of advice probably given by terrible or clueless friends. If you have neither, then sure, this may seem crazy. For perspective, I just read a question 2 days ago on GaG about a guy wondering if a girl was out of his league, so clearly some guys are talking about it, and the three day wait thing, and "the game" thing are things that do exist.
So your response here starts out by saying these are not facts, and then you proceed to try to convince me they are. This is complete tabloid garbage. Total crap.
They might not be facts to you because you've never heard them, and as such, seen the proof, so to you they may seem all false, but thumbing through the comments, gasp, some men have heard them. How do you know the ocean water is sometimes blue if you're blind and can't see it? It's still a fact.
Some of these things definitely do happen even today... which is ridiculous.
That moment when you're a guy and you've never heard another guy give this kind of "advice".
I feel like most of these are dead on women just don't like hearing the blunt truth about what actually works on them
9. You know what's hot, watching a girl shut these fuckers down or telling their tales of such glorious denial. That, my dear, is having a brain. Knowing that you are the master over primitive instincts.
i think 7 is a pretty solid tip... if you´re a fat slob, then this shows that you don´t care a lot about your body or have health issues. so if you want a fit and healthy weight girlfriend, its not a bad idea to work that out first xD
I didn't know people actually waited like 3 days to text after a first date lol
I'd probably move on like "meh, I guess he's not interested." And then after he finally got around to message me, I'd think he's playing games or entertaining other women.
Some people play mind games. They act like if you text before 3 days after the date then you're needy which is bullshit.
@bloodmountain1990 I always text before the 3 days lol
this is the worst list of advice anyone could give it looks their aim is to make you fail whoever gives this advice dosent know anything about women
Believe me, among some of my guy friends i have heard all except 4 and 10
5 hours a week with a diet and you can get a better body than Ryan Reynolds, you aren't sacrificing anything important for it, so why not.
the correct title should be 10 bad pieces of advice women came up with for a article.
Sound like the Jock back to high school XD
They wanted to seems cool, powerful and manly.
2 and 4 aren't a big deal, but I agree the rest are trash
I love how dudes are trying to justify this advice. All these tips are complete bullshit. Just admit it guys, if you give this advice you're pretty stupid.
haha I've only heard the "wait three days to call her" one... :P
Except for no 10, I have never heard this advice EVER!!!
And for 10, I just don't care about clothes due to money.
Once, I had some money, I got some better clothes.
A wife's point of view is also very helpful.
My two cents on the ones I agree with:
1. true, but hopefully, it's because he's is busy with life, just like the girl, and doesn't have time to call. Otherwaise making someone wait is just dumb.
2. correct
3. correct
4. true, but since everyone is a text head nowadays, I guess it's ok.
5. true, but not TOO many compliments.
6. VERY TRUE!!! Outside of school age, there is no such thing as leagues. Everyone is an adult, which is in the same league
7. true. why can't you work on both?
8. HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! you got that one!!
9. I heard of push pull, but 9 is not how it's done
10. true
The sooner "the game" can go off and die, the better.