Why I Love Dating Men Who Spend Money on Me! (Page 2)
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Hmmm, you speak of him sending you things that cost money, if I was stressed, I wouldn't want flowers or a meal, I'd want his time (which is an investment from him, I get that) but it's less about some item I can hold and more about the connection and human comfort vs material comfort.
Gold digger over here. Do you still live in the 1950s?
IRL I think lots of guys will still do this or love doing this. Why is beyond me. I'd pay for myself on dates but love gifts as long as they dont hurt his finances.
And you should very similar to other anon girls posting featured mytakes on here! I like this one though.
We don't "love" doing this, trust me. We do this to help establish a relationship and increase our chances of getting laid.
"In conclusion, it's not about the (denomination). It's about the thought. If a man can't invest ($15) in you for a meal, or ($10) for flowers on a special occasion- don't waste your (time)."
"He lived at home with his parents, but always made (time) for me."
You contradict yourself a lot in here. I get it, it's nice from him to pay once in a while. Some people are just not compatible is my conclusion.
Not all women are like this. It bothers me when someone or a guy insist on paying for the date all the time. the first date and if he asks me out, sure, but the next time we go, Id insist splitting bill or just going somewhere not fancy when I can't afford. I hate favors, as I see, it. It makes me feels oppressed and obligated. no thanks.
This is why some people don't take women and this equality shit seriously. If you want equality you need to give it!
Okay, this is so weird, i am the breadwinner in my relationship, and my boyfriend DOES spend money on me, but the attention and the love he gives me is PRICELESS, no money can buy REAL LOVE...
There are some stuff more than just money, keep that in mind.
I think the picture for your mytake made a bad image on what you really mean.
I personaly wouldn't date a guy who would make me pay it turns me off. Now i dont mind splitting the bill i like to keep thing even. But if he offered to pay it would make me really happy and feel speacial and find him as a kind gentleman but id never pay for him unless it was on speacial occasions like his birthday or on holidays.
wanting to spend time with you isn't enough. damn lol.
I really hope not all women are like you.
At least Adam was willing to split with you instead of asking you to pay for the dates. You should at least be appreciate of that.
If your relationship was transnational, what was he getting in return?
Lastly, I thought equality meant something for women... including splitting the bill.
We are not. Her post is garbage. She will have a harsh reality check sooner or later.
So what exactly did YOU invest to the relationship?
I know it is absolutely nothing from the way you speak, I'm just giving you time to make something up.
Lmao
So your relationships are transactional. That means someone bought you. You are no different than a whore. With that attitude you will NEVER find a man who truly loves you.
I see a leathery, rich, jabba the hut in your future. I'm a generous person and some girls actually feel overwhelmed when a guy spend a lot of money on them
So then maybe you should consider that MAYBE!!! MAYBE!!! You're a gold digger.
I typically date women in their very early 20s. I always ask "Why do you like older men?" The number one answer is "They don't make me pay [for a date]."
but that makes me sick for sure
What do you respond lol?
@FaithfulGuardian
It isn't my fault that you are a loser and there are women who don't want to date losers.
oh look, insult. may i ask what makes you call me a loser? :)
@FaithfulGuardian
You wrote, "that makes me sick". That must mean you have some kind of problem.
I m saying the women that expect guys to pay for everything and take men for granted makes me sick. You got a little sensitive there?
@FaithfulGuardian
It isn't a problem for a guy to pay for everything if he is successful.
It sounds like what makes you sick is that you don't like the competition because you don't hold up so well against it.
Yes it is. Just because a man is successful or rich, doesn't mean that man has the obligation to spend money on someone as if the man owes the woman. What it looks like more is you prefer to pay women in order to get what you want. If that is the case, perhaps a brothel is where you should look :)
@FaithfulGuardian
If I really wanted to pay, and pay, and pay, I would get married.
you can afford a woman is one thing, but are you really sure you wanted to be tied down? men have more quotas then women do so what's the rush?
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going with the latter on this one, as she hasn't replied to anyone here at all
"Why I Love Dating Men Who Spend Money on Me!" Because you're a spoiled brat, didn't even have to read it.
Okay so I just read it and I stand by what I said. It doesn't sound like you put any more effort in than Adam. Romance is a two way street, so what did you invest in him? Your time? Because he did that too. FYI, I can't say that I support recklessly spending money on pointless junk but the Earth does not revolve around you and he isn't obligated to spend his money buying stuff for you. He invested his time in you, which is exactly what you did for him. If that isn't enough, maybe you should look in the mirror and ask if you're bringing enough to the table.
you are right to stay anonymous ^^ with that kind of mentality please... stay away from the good guys and go find a sugar daddy
If a woman is going to charge you then you might as well pay for an escort or call girl.