Nah. The one about "Money" is cow shit. Girls can say what they want. But I look at actions. I'm not saying every single woman is a gold digger but most women do care about the Money. And most of them have a price tag as well. Of course geographics can play a part. It's worse in some places than others. But overall for the most part I'm right. You take a guy who is great looking / non narcissistic / great in bed and he's rich vs that same guy who's broke. I don't even have to give you the answer. "Common Sense" tells you what the answer is. And if not then she's the dumbest bitch I've ever seen. And if he has rich parents then there is no difference. None whatsoever. It just translates into - "one day he will be rich".
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The women in that photogragh - she's rich. She went after riches. And she goes after rich guys as well. Cow shit...
I don't care about money or if he is ugly or good looking. What I only care about is if he has a good heart and is willing to put in the effort of the relationship.
its sad that many people dont believe us the few rational women. not even some women agree. its sad and mostly an issue of education in my opinion... .
Ok if the guy has money money and looks but if he is an ass and has negative intentions towards certain aspects in life, I can't accept that as he is then. I rather be with someone who can respect me and be open minded.
Really beautiful women rarely ignore they're really beautiful. They know it since elementary school because so many people told them. It reflects on their personality
Women who rarely get asked should not think it's because of their looks but rather think which reaction guys expect from them. If guys really only look at their 'assets'. Expected availability is a major factor, more than looks. At social level as well as sexual level. Who wants to be snobbed?
"If you do ask out a woman who is out of your league, you can be sure that most of the time, she will know perfectly well that she can do better (at least physically) than this guy asking her..." Q. E. D. Her *perceived* league as perceived by her and her court.
@Kirah. I think she's hot. Believe it or not average joe guys who are nice are intimidated and assume a gurl like her is out of their league. its a lot about looks and not personality as the reality tv show "dating in the dark" has proven.
Id say that this beautiful chic should be the one to approach guys. Not to hit on them but to make new guy friends. she WILL get a boyfriend. as a matter of fact, I would bet money that if she walked up to 10 random guys her age and asked them, "do you think im hot?" at least 8 would say yes.
@Apope16 Well, something wrong with the guys in my country then. Cuz I cannot tell how many times guys insulted me because of my look. And most of them are rude. Men in the West are not like that. @Kirah proly lives in the West so she's oblivious of WTF is wrong with the dudes in here. I'd definitely date a Western man; however their girls are pretty af and I think I'm no match for them. There's nothing for a guy more important than outer beauty when picking up girls, for both Western and Eastern men. If men cared about inner beauty I wouldn't be lonely...
I have dated a woman from Croatia. she says that a lot of eastern European guys are assholes. Many Muslim men insult women. I find that eastern European humor and personality to be a blunt and dominant. I dont know if you are from Turkey but id say come here to America. You gave guys throwing roses at your feet to go out with you. That includes me. Lol. We do things differently here. Then again 66% of the population is overweight.
@Apope16 WTF I like Eastern European guys. Turkey, some parts are ok like If you go to cities like İzmir, guys there are so nice. But in Ankara, my city, most of them are assholes. Also majority of the Americans voted for Trump. I'm a non-white bisexual commie Muslim, anti-Trumper. How about that?
1. I did not vote for Trump. I voted Bernie Sanders. 2. The majority of Americans DID NOT vote for Trump... but.. he did win the most states. 3. Bisexuality is pretty common in the usa as well. at least based on my exes.
You be you. Rock on! You will find that guy. Dont worry. It happens unexpectedly. He could be in line at the store tmrw. Thats what makes things fun. Enjoy the adventure! there's nothing wrong with you. As a guy I know most of us are assholes.
Also, as for the last point, when I was in middle school, a guy asked a pretty girl to the dance, and she said yes because he had the courage to ask her out in front of the other girls.
Women really don't care about looks that much. You seem to give importance to a guy's looks, which is not as important as personality and presentation of the guy
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Yeah, I know that don't. I'm not saying women care that much about looks, but that just means they have higher standards when it comes to personality and things like that. Beautiful women still have their pick among guys, my pakistani friend.
Saying money isn't important to women is like saying looks aren't important to guys. Even the lowest woman on the totem pole wants a guy with a job, aka not living in a cardboard box. Just because your female friends tell you money isn't important to them doesn't mean it's true.
Look at the world. The richest, most powerful men tend to be paired with the most beautiful women. The most beautiful women seek out the richest, most powerful men. These couplings don't just happen by accident.
How can you base this on all "beautiful" women whenever so many guys have different taste as to what they find beautiful? Overall I mean take a shot with the girls you like because it's not going to happen unless you do but this still basically feels like moving from one stereotype to another. However The other thing that is building on these misconceptions is the online dating world.
1, 3 and for, yup. Spot on. As for 4, other guys will respect you tough.
And as for 2. Yeah , not all women care that much for money, or as much as guys believe. But if you have money, you can get plenty of women. But they can be shallow and bitches..
Er yeah I don't care that "beautiful women have problems too!!111". No one actually cares, in fact.
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Whoa, what in the fuck? Did you read a thing I said? Where do you see me saying anything about beautiful women having problems too? I don't see how a 23 year old's reading comprehension could be this poor. I suggest you get your hood rat ass back into high school and actually trying to finish it this time.
I think you are trying to make things more complicated with this my take. I don't know from where have you brought the first 2 things from. If you think this much , you can't be yourself and eventually get nervous around any woman.
There should be one a misconception about persistence. Like how realistic was that scene in the Notebook where Ryan Gosling was heckling her to go out with him until she said yes so that he wouldn't kill himself
I know some guys who have gotten women far more attractive than they are by just having the balls to go for it, and, if they DO get shot down, as often happens, they've forgetten about it 5 minutes later.
MOST women won't care if you're extremely rich or not.. they just want to make sure you're secure. that you'll be able to support the both of you, whether she has a job OR NOT
I never been the one to be Asked out. People say I'm pretty but I don't think so. I'm not that attractive. I get shy around guys cause I'm afraid of rejection.
If you think that the immense majority of gorgeous women don't care about dating a guy that has pretty good money, then I have many bridges to sell you.
Good luck finding a young gorgeous woman that is dating a minimum wage earner.
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Nah. The one about "Money" is cow shit. Girls can say what they want. But I look at actions. I'm not saying every single woman is a gold digger but most women do care about the Money. And most of them have a price tag as well. Of course geographics can play a part. It's worse in some places than others. But overall for the most part I'm right. You take a guy who is great looking / non narcissistic / great in bed and he's rich vs that same guy who's broke. I don't even have to give you the answer. "Common Sense" tells you what the answer is. And if not then she's the dumbest bitch I've ever seen. And if he has rich parents then there is no difference. None whatsoever. It just translates into - "one day he will be rich".
The women in that photogragh - she's rich. She went after riches. And she goes after rich guys as well. Cow shit...
So sad! I hope you find a nice girl one day who love you for you! ❤️️
@Poppykate That's your only reply. Don't get it confused. I'm happy. I only love my money and my rifle.
I don't care about money or if he is ugly or good looking. What I only care about is if he has a good heart and is willing to put in the effort of the relationship.
No you dont. I say that speaking for millions of nice guys out there friend zoned. Lol
Bull... shit. It's nice to see someone try and play the ''OMG its what's your heart that matters xx'' role. But no one believes this.
its sad that many people dont believe us the few rational women. not even some women agree. its sad and mostly an issue of education in my opinion... .
Ok if the guy has money money and looks but if he is an ass and has negative intentions towards certain aspects in life, I can't accept that as he is then. I rather be with someone who can respect me and be open minded.
Really beautiful women rarely ignore they're really beautiful. They know it since elementary school because so many people told them. It reflects on their personality
Women who rarely get asked should not think it's because of their looks but rather think which reaction guys expect from them. If guys really only look at their 'assets'.
Expected availability is a major factor, more than looks. At social level as well as sexual level.
Who wants to be snobbed?
"If you do ask out a woman who is out of your league, you can be sure that most of the time, she will know perfectly well that she can do better (at least physically) than this guy asking her..."
Q. E. D.
Her *perceived* league as perceived by her and her court.
I don't f**king care about money, I'd date a poor guy. But it matters If his heart is poor. Plus I'm ugly and no one asked me out...
you are fucking hot not ugly
@kostas25 Something wrong with the dudes here then...
Definitely!
"I don't f**king care about money, I'd date a poor guy."
Yes, that's what I'm saying. I meant that women don't care nearly as much about money as guys believe.
"Plus I'm ugly and no one asked me out..."
Welp. Go to Dr Phil with that
If you actually went and met guys, you could get one because you're pretty, not ugly.
By "met" I mean approach.
Lol. You are gorgeous! Id take you out for dinner. And i dont believe women who say they don't care about money. EVER.
@Apope16 Well, I really don't care ;)
If nobody asks you out, why don't you try asking out guys instead?
@Kirah I'm afraid of being rejected, even If I pay it all, also many of the girls around are so much more beautiful than me.
And why did one girl downvote lmao? Proly she's a gold digger and she's jealous of my that property...
@Turkish_Delight well, everyone is afraid of rejection. There's probably a few guys who are interested in you, but too afraid to speak up.
Even if other girls are more attractive, making the first move will make you stand out immediately.
@Kirah. I think she's hot. Believe it or not average joe guys who are nice are intimidated and assume a gurl like her is out of their league. its a lot about looks and not personality as the reality tv show "dating in the dark" has proven.
Id say that this beautiful chic should be the one to approach guys. Not to hit on them but to make new guy friends. she WILL get a boyfriend. as a matter of fact, I would bet money that if she walked up to 10 random guys her age and asked them, "do you think im hot?" at least 8 would say yes.
@Apope16 Well, something wrong with the guys in my country then. Cuz I cannot tell how many times guys insulted me because of my look. And most of them are rude. Men in the West are not like that. @Kirah proly lives in the West so she's oblivious of WTF is wrong with the dudes in here. I'd definitely date a Western man; however their girls are pretty af and I think I'm no match for them. There's nothing for a guy more important than outer beauty when picking up girls, for both Western and Eastern men. If men cared about inner beauty I wouldn't be lonely...
I have dated a woman from Croatia. she says that a lot of eastern European guys are assholes. Many Muslim men insult women. I find that eastern European humor and personality to be a blunt and dominant. I dont know if you are from Turkey but id say come here to America. You gave guys throwing roses at your feet to go out with you. That includes me. Lol. We do things differently here. Then again 66% of the population is overweight.
*you would have
@Apope16 WTF I like Eastern European guys. Turkey, some parts are ok like If you go to cities like İzmir, guys there are so nice. But in Ankara, my city, most of them are assholes. Also majority of the Americans voted for Trump. I'm a non-white bisexual commie Muslim, anti-Trumper. How about that?
Lol. Fair enough.
1. I did not vote for Trump. I voted Bernie Sanders.
2. The majority of Americans DID NOT vote for Trump... but.. he did win the most states.
3. Bisexuality is pretty common in the usa as well. at least based on my exes.
You be you. Rock on! You will find that guy. Dont worry. It happens unexpectedly. He could be in line at the store tmrw. Thats what makes things fun. Enjoy the adventure! there's nothing wrong with you. As a guy I know most of us are assholes.
@Apope16 Thanks for not alienating me. Can you pm me? :)
Some women do care a great deal about money.
Also, as for the last point, when I was in middle school, a guy asked a pretty girl to the dance, and she said yes because he had the courage to ask her out in front of the other girls.
Cool!
I'm glad you removed the hideous images of yourself.
Women really don't care about looks that much. You seem to give importance to a guy's looks, which is not as important as personality and presentation of the guy
Yeah, I know that don't. I'm not saying women care that much about looks, but that just means they have higher standards when it comes to personality and things like that. Beautiful women still have their pick among guys, my pakistani friend.
LOL, long time, last time I checked you were into Justin Bieber :D
Saying money isn't important to women is like saying looks aren't important to guys. Even the lowest woman on the totem pole wants a guy with a job, aka not living in a cardboard box. Just because your female friends tell you money isn't important to them doesn't mean it's true.
Look at the world. The richest, most powerful men tend to be paired with the most beautiful women. The most beautiful women seek out the richest, most powerful men. These couplings don't just happen by accident.
How can you base this on all "beautiful" women whenever so many guys have different taste as to what they find beautiful?
Overall I mean take a shot with the girls you like because it's not going to happen unless you do but this still basically feels like moving from one stereotype to another.
However The other thing that is building on these misconceptions is the online dating world.
1, 3 and for, yup. Spot on.
As for 4, other guys will respect you tough.
And as for 2. Yeah , not all women care that much for money, or as much as guys believe. But if you have money, you can get plenty of women. But they can be shallow and bitches..
Er yeah I don't care that "beautiful women have problems too!!111". No one actually cares, in fact.
Whoa, what in the fuck? Did you read a thing I said? Where do you see me saying anything about beautiful women having problems too? I don't see how a 23 year old's reading comprehension could be this poor. I suggest you get your hood rat ass back into high school and actually trying to finish it this time.
Calling me a "hood rat"? Who is generalizing now? Lmao
I notice that people just naturally assume that because someone is beautiful their lives are perfect, not the case!
It helps none the less. When beautiful, it is a bit easy for things. Its ignorant to disagree.
@Gustafsone12584 I won't argue with that but my point is it doesn't automatically make you happy and fulfilled.
I think you are trying to make things more complicated with this my take. I don't know from where have you brought the first 2 things from. If you think this much , you can't be yourself and eventually get nervous around any woman.
but I do think that attractive women aren t approached much unless they literally exhibit themselves and act all flirty.
I think the first point is true i have seen it many times from my friends and sister unfortunately i can't relate😁
Thanks. I don't know where people hear that the best looking women never get approached because guys are too intimidated by them.
There should be one a misconception about persistence. Like how realistic was that scene in the Notebook where Ryan Gosling was heckling her to go out with him until she said yes so that he wouldn't kill himself
I like that quote.
I know some guys who have gotten women far more attractive than they are by just having the balls to go for it, and, if they DO get shot down, as often happens, they've forgetten about it 5 minutes later.
Women have feelings and men have preferences.
Now where's my 5 Xper points.
😂😂😂😂
MOST women won't care if you're extremely rich or not.. they just want to make sure you're secure. that you'll be able to support the both of you, whether she has a job OR NOT
I never been the one to be Asked out. People say I'm pretty but I don't think so. I'm not that attractive. I get shy around guys cause I'm afraid of rejection.
If you think that the immense majority of gorgeous women don't care about dating a guy that has pretty good money, then I have many bridges to sell you.
Good luck finding a young gorgeous woman that is dating a minimum wage earner.