Why did you make this post and why don't I believe you? IS this your attempt to paint Muslims in a more favorable light to others?, because this random as fuck and just sounds like a damn lie.
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I wrote it because i felt contemplative. It's my experience, you don't have to believe it.
Hummm? I always thought that Muslim men were looking for full time housewives, and not a second source of income? Realistically though, most high "caliber" successful guys couldn't care less about your career. In the upper classes, if your outside commitments interfere with your ability to be a good wife and mother then your marriage will be a train wreck waiting to happen. You have been warned...
True. I only know rich men (of any religion) to speak this way. Any man of average income desires a woman who can and is willing to help out, even if only part time. As far as train wrecks go, I've seen them only when one, or both of the partners have unaddressed mental issues. If the people are mentally fit mature and healthy, they do great no matter how little or how much the work.
Islam is poison. It's a disgusting religion, filled with hatred. Can you believe British muslims are practicing sharia law here. I am islamaphobic. But what people need to remember is that the Quran was written in the desert 🌵 in the Middle Ages, they didn't have science and knowledge then. I hate Islam. One of their teachings is to spread the blood religion and enforce it on people. They even breed like dogs here, one Muslim couple here I have seen have 10 kids 🤢
these days its getting the opposite of earning wife thing, most of the parents wants their son to marry a doctor, even tho most of the husbands dont want a wife who works, but the trend of marrying a female doctor in muslims, and where i live, is getting more common day by day
If its any consolation I'd date you <3. Don't feel bad even if you drink. I forgot that one guy's name in the story from the Quran, but he would drink alcohol and he would give food to orphans though. One of the prophets personally knew him. You must live in a society with a bunch of hot male models lol, But seriously though I think you care too much about what other guys think.
If you get raped you're getting stoned to death. #sharia That being said most muslims are moderate... hopefully... unless all the ones i've met are... uncool
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How is that relevant... at all... to this? Moderate Muslims don't practice or agree with sharia.
Whether you think i am a moron or not the facts remain the same; sharia is law in Islamic countries. I feel the need to quote Socrates... never did i imagine so soon, however.
I don't know why people are so hell bent on believing in stereotypes and prejudices constructed by fear or by the what they hear some people do, that may not even be representative of all the muslim community.
before spouting unrelated non-sense, perhaps you should try constructing your own knowledge, by actually trying to get to know some muslim people, before judging all by what you hear in the media...
Also, I think you dont assume all white people are white supremacists.. yet some white people are. but you dont go on thinking that all of the group is. Yet it seems ok to stereotype other races/cultures/religions just because they are different from your own and all that
@blondfrog I don't know why don't you go ask people in saudi arabia or in iran they see to interpret the quaran in such a way that oppresses women. I'd include a few vids but gag is a safe place.
No country actually fully follows Sharia law fun fact. And if you actually want to look up Sharia law as a matter fact they rarely will even follow one of the rules. Okay I am not sure if this is 100% accurate but I am pretty sure most of it is. www.islamic-laws.com/.../...c_Sharia_Law_sunni.pdf If you go to page 64 and read part b) It says that the woman being raped is also guilty which obviously I don't agree with. But it doesn't say that the woman gets punished for being raped it just says both male and female committing adultery will get 100 lashes.
@blondfrog Yes but you don't see Christians in current day misinterpreting the Bible so much. There isn't a KKK state, there are individuals who interpret it differently sure like the charleston massacre... but when you get down to it it's swaths of people misinterpreting that and using it as though law. You'd think they'd take a step back on like the 4th stone crushing the woman's head as she screams a man would say "hell no, this is wrong." But it doesn't happen because it's believed to be part of the faith by so many Muslims. My concern is that Sharia is becoming accepted in the US as a legitimate form of the Muslim world; beyond that people are free to practice any religion they want.
It's like extrajudicial killings without the right to trial. I just don't get it... but there is some rhetoric coming from the left about being pro-sharia and that's where I begin to draw the line.
Well actually from my understanding Christianity has many different misinterpretations with all those different versions of the books. As well as all the different types of Christians such as Protestant, Lutheran, Catholic, etc. And they do get trialed... now whether or not its a fair trial or not is a completely different field of discussion. As even in America there are many injustices in the U. S. constitution laws of justice. People commit murder and get away with it after being trailed. Honestly I actually do think some aspect of Sharia Law can however be beneficial in America. I mean a murder or rapist getting less years than a thief isn't necessarily "ethical." I do agree with you though that Sharia law in the west wouldn't work though. Because the citizens wouldn't be accepting of it so the system wouldn't work. A law system doesn't work for two reasons because the people under that law wouldn't be accepting of it and because it wouldn't be "ethical."
@blondfrog No i agree, just because you are one religion doesn't mean you get the rights over another. America is not a Christian Nation no matter how much they want it to be. What aspects do you think would be beneficial from sharia? I would like to learn. Because there is some of the aspects of the Muslim world I really do like, others... not so much.
Well the whole bid where a murderer would receive the death penalty. I like that part. I actually thought up of a perfect system a few years back. I actually like the jury duty aspect that Americans have instilled. The only problem with that is how juries get selected. People who get selected should have really good knowledge on the U. S. constitutions, Amendments, and just overall good knowledge about books like "Ethics and the Law." Before going on jury they should be tested on their knowledge and only then be chosen. They should also pay people who on jury duty more money. Those jurors who were on the Casey Anthony case were clearly not fit to decide the fate of anyone in a court system. Obviously no justice system will be perfect we can still do better than what we have in America. The only thing I wouldn't really know how to fix is the amount of proof in some court cases. Because even with being able to receive DNA results back quickly, DNA evidence isn't always fully accurate either
As some people have gotten good at framing others by placing their hand or prints onto the murder weapon or any other evidence that could help solve the case. With videos too those also have flaws. As a video uploaded could be edited or the person capturing the video could have only captured it after the Culprit drew first blood and only capture the victim fighting back making it appear as the victim was the "culprit."
I'm a Muslim in a culture that dates based on love without parental involvement, but the rules that are heavily imposed on you, are just silent and unwritten among us here. I'm pretty sure they always apply.
It might not strictly be allowed, but that doesn't mean Muslims are doing it. Some Muslims have become more liberal regarding such things. Christianity condemns homosexuals but that doesn't mean homosexual people cannot identify as being Christian.
Honestly I dont know how you would get to marry a person or get engaged without knowing who that person is before. The thing is tho, Europes' definition of dating is rather different. With us its different, we aren't allowed to kiss, hug, or be totally alone before getting engaged or married (there's a difference between them in my culture). So basically, its getting to know the person only personality wise, with having all those limits. I dont think God will put you in hell (as some strict Muslims say) for getting to know someone (personality wise) before getting involved even more with them.
My sister was married to a Muslim (she's christian ) and coming from different religious background was never a problem. They have two kids and they both grew up learning and respecting the two religions.
Man, I usually skim through myTakes, as I started off with yours and then I hit a line that made me go back and actually read the whole thing. Great take honestly. I can relate too well.
Nice take! Although I'm not a Muslim but marriages like this are practised in my community too. Most of the times marriage is between families and not between the the couple. We have to change it upto some extent!
Oh well you sound like 99% of my Egyptian friends, religious? Only on Fridays, Drinks? No, Smokes? Yes, believes in God? Yes, prays? Only when prayer is needed (mostly during exams), practical Muslim? Not really, Cultural? Mostly.
I never said anything was wrong with that, I was just stating that there are others who behave like you on daily basis so it won't be as hard as you think to find someone like you.
Wow you really do have it really rough in the dining world , they make it so difficult over there, glad I live in a free country that's free to follow what you want
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Tbh, I've tried pork before, and I don't need that saltiness or fat in my life. Many Muslims do drink, do eat pork, do have sex whenever they want, etc. They -are- free to do that. I'd just prefer not to. I don't see Westerners faring better health-wise or relationship-wise doing what they're doing.
Oh I see it says dining when I wrote dating, spell correct got me again, lol. Well either way good take and gave me better insight on what you deal with, don't really know why someone down voted what I said since it wasn't bad or insulting to anyone
I could see having a glass of wine socially, but why would drugs be hard to forgo? As for being realistic about love, I get that. What about a headscarf as a happy medium?
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Why did you make this post and why don't I believe you? IS this your attempt to paint Muslims in a more favorable light to others?, because this random as fuck and just sounds like a damn lie.
I wrote it because i felt contemplative. It's my experience, you don't have to believe it.
Muslims are not like that, stop lying.
Like.. what?
Wow no need to be a stupid bitch. Why don't you educate yourself instead of shoving your nose up FOX or abc's asshole.
i totaly agree with you they always lie to be seeing as good people but once they get majority they will fuck you over
@blondfrog i educated my whole life on this religion and became ex muslim she is right
@blondfrog A bitch yes, stupid no. I also don't have my nose up anybody's asshole, that is gross you freak :)
I bet you haven't picked up the book once the actual book and read it. Your not smart and you don't look smart either.
Hummm? I always thought that Muslim men were looking for full time housewives, and not a second source of income? Realistically though, most high "caliber" successful guys couldn't care less about your career. In the upper classes, if your outside commitments interfere with your ability to be a good wife and mother then your marriage will be a train wreck waiting to happen. You have been warned...
True. I only know rich men (of any religion) to speak this way. Any man of average income desires a woman who can and is willing to help out, even if only part time.
As far as train wrecks go, I've seen them only when one, or both of the partners have unaddressed mental issues. If the people are mentally fit mature and healthy, they do great no matter how little or how much the work.
Islam is poison. It's a disgusting religion, filled with hatred. Can you believe British muslims are practicing sharia law here. I am islamaphobic. But what people need to remember is that the Quran was written in the desert 🌵 in the Middle Ages, they didn't have science and knowledge then. I hate Islam. One of their teachings is to spread the blood religion and enforce it on people. They even breed like dogs here, one Muslim couple here I have seen have 10 kids 🤢
yup you are right
you are a muslim?
by the way i agree with you there.
these days its getting the opposite of earning wife thing, most of the parents wants their son to marry a doctor, even tho most of the husbands dont want a wife who works, but the trend of marrying a female doctor in muslims, and where i live, is getting more common day by day
If its any consolation I'd date you <3. Don't feel bad even if you drink. I forgot that one guy's name in the story from the Quran, but he would drink alcohol and he would give food to orphans though. One of the prophets personally knew him. You must live in a society with a bunch of hot male models lol, But seriously though I think you care too much about what other guys think.
If you get raped you're getting stoned to death. #sharia
That being said most muslims are moderate... hopefully... unless all the ones i've met are... uncool
How is that relevant... at all... to this? Moderate Muslims don't practice or agree with sharia.
Then they wouldn't be acknowledged as Muslims, however, there are plenty of "moderates" who believe in sharia.
Did you even read this? I don't know why i expected you to not respond like a moron.
Whether you think i am a moron or not the facts remain the same; sharia is law in Islamic countries. I feel the need to quote Socrates... never did i imagine so soon, however.
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I don't know why people are so hell bent on believing in stereotypes and prejudices constructed by fear or by the what they hear some people do, that may not even be representative of all the muslim community.
before spouting unrelated non-sense, perhaps you should try constructing your own knowledge, by actually trying to get to know some muslim people, before judging all by what you hear in the media...
Also, I think you dont assume all white people are white supremacists.. yet some white people are. but you dont go on thinking that all of the group is. Yet it seems ok to stereotype other races/cultures/religions just because they are different from your own and all that
is unknown or not completely understood by others usually generates fear.
So when people do this... it's about fear of the unknown. That is why knowlege is light.
If you go on assuming things without trying to verify them, then all you are doing is creating fear and perpetrating hate.
2 things that keep us from evolving as humans and as a society.
But sharia has literally nothing to do with my take on MY dating experience.
Where in the hadeith or quaran does it say a woman gets stoned to death if she gets raped?
@blondfrog I don't know why don't you go ask people in saudi arabia or in iran they see to interpret the quaran in such a way that oppresses women. I'd include a few vids but gag is a safe place.
No country actually fully follows Sharia law fun fact. And if you actually want to look up Sharia law as a matter fact they rarely will even follow one of the rules. Okay I am not sure if this is 100% accurate but I am pretty sure most of it is. www.islamic-laws.com/.../...c_Sharia_Law_sunni.pdf
If you go to page 64 and read part b) It says that the woman being raped is also guilty which obviously I don't agree with. But it doesn't say that the woman gets punished for being raped it just says both male and female committing adultery will get 100 lashes.
And compare these laws to that of the laws by countries here.
en.wikipedia.org/.../Application_of_Islamic_law_by_country
@blondfrog Yes but you don't see Christians in current day misinterpreting the Bible so much. There isn't a KKK state, there are individuals who interpret it differently sure like the charleston massacre... but when you get down to it it's swaths of people misinterpreting that and using it as though law. You'd think they'd take a step back on like the 4th stone crushing the woman's head as she screams a man would say "hell no, this is wrong." But it doesn't happen because it's believed to be part of the faith by so many Muslims.
My concern is that Sharia is becoming accepted in the US as a legitimate form of the Muslim world; beyond that people are free to practice any religion they want.
It's like extrajudicial killings without the right to trial. I just don't get it... but there is some rhetoric coming from the left about being pro-sharia and that's where I begin to draw the line.
Well actually from my understanding Christianity has many different misinterpretations with all those different versions of the books. As well as all the different types of Christians such as Protestant, Lutheran, Catholic, etc. And they do get trialed... now whether or not its a fair trial or not is a completely different field of discussion. As even in America there are many injustices in the U. S. constitution laws of justice. People commit murder and get away with it after being trailed. Honestly I actually do think some aspect of Sharia Law can however be beneficial in America. I mean a murder or rapist getting less years than a thief isn't necessarily "ethical."
I do agree with you though that Sharia law in the west wouldn't work though. Because the citizens wouldn't be accepting of it so the system wouldn't work. A law system doesn't work for two reasons because the people under that law wouldn't be accepting of it and because it wouldn't be "ethical."
@blondfrog No i agree, just because you are one religion doesn't mean you get the rights over another. America is not a Christian Nation no matter how much they want it to be.
What aspects do you think would be beneficial from sharia? I would like to learn.
Because there is some of the aspects of the Muslim world I really do like, others... not so much.
Well the whole bid where a murderer would receive the death penalty. I like that part. I actually thought up of a perfect system a few years back. I actually like the jury duty aspect that Americans have instilled. The only problem with that is how juries get selected. People who get selected should have really good knowledge on the U. S. constitutions, Amendments, and just overall good knowledge about books like "Ethics and the Law." Before going on jury they should be tested on their knowledge and only then be chosen. They should also pay people who on jury duty more money. Those jurors who were on the Casey Anthony case were clearly not fit to decide the fate of anyone in a court system. Obviously no justice system will be perfect we can still do better than what we have in America. The only thing I wouldn't really know how to fix is the amount of proof in some court cases. Because even with being able to receive DNA results back quickly, DNA evidence isn't always fully accurate either
As some people have gotten good at framing others by placing their hand or prints onto the murder weapon or any other evidence that could help solve the case. With videos too those also have flaws. As a video uploaded could be edited or the person capturing the video could have only captured it after the Culprit drew first blood and only capture the victim fighting back making it appear as the victim was the "culprit."
I'll just say the same applies regardless of which religion.
Why the fuck do so many people on hete think they can tell you how to practice tour religion right?
Interesting take, as for myself though... I wouldn't date a Muslim because we wouldn't have the same beliefs and it would just complicate things.
No offence to the Muslims out there, you're all good people. (except for the extremists)
True, but I've noticed many religions have a ton of similarities. Especially the Abrahamic religions.
What? His dog food? XD
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I'm a Muslim in a culture that dates based on love without parental involvement, but the rules that are heavily imposed on you, are just silent and unwritten among us here. I'm pretty sure they always apply.
There is no muslim dating style. Muslims don't date.
More devout Muslims may not date... but it isn't unheard of these days.
Yeah, but it still isn't allowed in Islam to date.
It might not strictly be allowed, but that doesn't mean Muslims are doing it. Some Muslims have become more liberal regarding such things. Christianity condemns homosexuals but that doesn't mean homosexual people cannot identify as being Christian.
There's a difference between doing something and it being allowed.
Absolutely. But Muslims are dating. Even if it isn't "allowed".
Honestly I dont know how you would get to marry a person or get engaged without knowing who that person is before. The thing is tho, Europes' definition of dating is rather different. With us its different, we aren't allowed to kiss, hug, or be totally alone before getting engaged or married (there's a difference between them in my culture). So basically, its getting to know the person only personality wise, with having all those limits. I dont think God will put you in hell (as some strict Muslims say) for getting to know someone (personality wise) before getting involved even more with them.
Muslima website is a muslim dating site geared towards modern dating
@DaniaMQ actually that would be called courtship in Europe and I'm sure at least most Christian people know what it is - or was, like 50 years ago.
Just curious and where the fuck does it say in the bible that Christians are supposed to date? That's what i thought.
My sister was married to a Muslim (she's christian ) and coming from different religious background was never a problem. They have two kids and they both grew up learning and respecting the two religions.
Great Take by the way.
but she has to convert right?
Man, I usually skim through myTakes, as I started off with yours and then I hit a line that made me go back and actually read the whole thing. Great take honestly. I can relate too well.
Nice take! Although I'm not a Muslim but marriages like this are practised in my community too. Most of the times marriage is between families and not between the the couple. We have to change it upto some extent!
Only a Masters degree. Such a slacker. 😜
I know. lmao. :p
What did you do your Masters in?
Oh well you sound like 99% of my Egyptian friends, religious? Only on Fridays, Drinks? No, Smokes? Yes, believes in God? Yes, prays? Only when prayer is needed (mostly during exams), practical Muslim? Not really, Cultural? Mostly.
there's nothing wrong with that
ppl's relationship with faith is personal. not to mention it also changed with time, life experiences, etc...
I think it should be ok to let people explore their faith the way they feel they can.
Agreed. I clearly stated that I'm not that devout.
I never said anything was wrong with that, I was just stating that there are others who behave like you on daily basis so it won't be as hard as you think to find someone like you.
Wow you really do have it really rough in the dining world , they make it so difficult over there, glad I live in a free country that's free to follow what you want
Tbh, I've tried pork before, and I don't need that saltiness or fat in my life. Many Muslims do drink, do eat pork, do have sex whenever they want, etc. They -are- free to do that. I'd just prefer not to. I don't see Westerners faring better health-wise or relationship-wise doing what they're doing.
Not much better but we do have more choices at least
Oh I see it says dining when I wrote dating, spell correct got me again, lol. Well either way good take and gave me better insight on what you deal with, don't really know why someone down voted what I said since it wasn't bad or insulting to anyone
nicely written mytake! Good luck with finding him or letting him to find you!
I could see having a glass of wine socially, but why would drugs be hard to forgo? As for being realistic about love, I get that. What about a headscarf as a happy medium?