To people who think that physical appearance doesn't matter... accept that... YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF!

Giacomanzo

Since I noticed that someone STILL wants to believe that looks doesn't matter, because they feel like they would be superficial if they admit they have personal tastes, I'll explain my point through a short story.
One month ago I (a kinda fatty guy) was at the gym with my (very fit) friend; a girl I like started buzzing around us and I started doing what I can do best, enterteining her (and my friend) with my jokes and wittiness. When we were going away, my friend told me in the car "Dude, did you see how she was laughing?" "Yeah, I was telling jokes, I'm a funny guy, you know?" "She totally wants you to bang her, why haven't you asked her out yet?" "I don't think she is into me, there's plenty of great looking guy in there, why would she? It would make it awkward since we meet 3 times a week if she rejected me." "You have to stop overthinking and just do it. I know women. I've been with plenty of them, you didn't. She wants you to ask her out. If you don't do that next time we meet, I swear I will cut your balls off"
So two days later at the gym we met again, my friend goes to do his exercises to give me time and space. Before I could say ANYTHING while alone with her, she told me "Hey, I know it's kinda weird to ask but...I'm a little shy... could you ask your friend if he wants to date with me?" I went to the bathroom and started laughing my ass off. I told my friend and he was like "That's not possible and blablabla."

So I proposed to him a little challenge: the two of us and a third friend would have sent the same totally average, unoriginal message (translation on the right side) to 50 different women EACH (150 women in total) on FB with whom we a have a friend in common with on Facebook, and would counted the number of the answers 48 hours later. (I had to reopen my old account but it was worthy :D)

To people who think that physical appearance doesn't matter... accept that... YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF!

Results weren't surprising at all (at least they weren't surprising for me). I'll post now the results and the funniest answer we received (translation on the right side).

Me, the worst looking one:
191 cm(6ft3), 101 kg (223 lbs) , slightly muscular, mostly fat (25 lbs overweight, more or less):
Results: 44 ignored messages, 6 rejections. Funny answers: 2.

To people who think that physical appearance doesn't matter... accept that... YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF!

The other friend, the average one:
177 cm(5ft10), 57 kg(125lbs), no muscles.
Results: 29 ignored messages, 15 rejections, 6 yesses (if that's a word?). Funny answers: 3

To people who think that physical appearance doesn't matter... accept that... YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF!

My fit friend, the best looking one:
182 cm(6ft), 85kg(187 lbs), absolute muscles, ridiculously low fat mass.

Results: 3 ignored messages, 11 rejections, 36 yesses. Funny answers:1 (but was more of a compliment still)

To people who think that physical appearance doesn't matter... accept that... YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF!



To people who think that physical appearance doesn't matter... accept that... YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF!
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