Yeah - I just think different folks, different strokes - Everyone has their own tastes - I just think you are not being true to yourself or the girl if you create something she wants rather than her being attracted to you - It may seem limiting but it could be more rewarding in the long run to stay yourself - I have to no major qualms about what route you take just observations
Oh, nein, nein, nein. I didn't say anything whether you are correct or not. I'm not here for that. I'm just glad, that i made you laugh😀 instead of getting you angry. But to be honest either reaction would be fine 😂
I agree with the points in this Take, but suggest that a more fitting title would be "How to get Sex from Girls who are Only Looking for Sex in This Century"
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The majority of college women are looking for sex and a relationship so...
Actually this kind of goes for girls who want both. I get what you're saying, but most girls want the complete package. They want this type for sex and a relationship. These are they types of guys women cheat on and in order to beat the game, you have to be this type of guy.
I, personally, don't find the idea of a disrespectful jackass appealing, nor do I have "abs or gtfo" written on my list of priorities, but that's just me.
I agree with her, I mean c'mon she's a woman. You don't know how a woman feels about a certain thing such as this. I agree this is just a terrible article giving out bad advice. How do you KNOW what a woman wants? Maybe depending on the woman that you've been with, but there are millions.
glad to see your comment. I am not any of those things he mentioned so how can i ever get a woman so its refreshing to see your comment is what im sayn.
Basically, "To each his/her own." Some people are superficial and shallow, and others are real and caring. Women DO want a man who they can feel safe around, and who looks out of them, and who is confident.
@TomBradysJersey That's understandable. It can be a vicious cycle: The more one is rejected, the less confident one feels. But give yourself some time, confidence in one's self can be improved as people change and strive to better themselves. Especially as one matures, they learn the distinguish against things that don't really matter, and the things that are important in life, and that can drastically change a person's perspective about the world and especially about themselves.
i agree (at least for me) to all of that except for number 3. of course i want you to have a wonderful face and a good body, but you also have to be a good person. which is different from being needy, but thankfully it is mostly ugly guys to be white knights
Wow, this is so wrong. These things will get you a very short-term relationship. Long-term, compassion, trust and respect is important. These kinds of things will get you a girlfriend on some online dating site, but not IRL.
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No in reality too. Once you reach college it’s a lot more prevalent then your little bubble of a high school
@CactusJuice if you’re gonna use that insult, let’s break it down. How many of those women are straight? How many are between the age of 18-24? How many of those live in the United States? How many are enrolled in a university? How many are attractive? How many go to the same University as you? Those one billion girls have now been boiled down tremendously.
LMAO I'm just envisioning this 15 year old kid wearing spongebob pajamas putting time together to write this. The women on here are about to tear you apart and it will be hilarious.
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I’m actually 18 and these women have no evidence against me because they know that they like this shit
Bro they already have! 😂😂😂 was about to say the same thing. Whoever wrote this has waaaay too much confidence in his own opinions and biases. Like EVERY girl here had problem with this. Wait till more see this. Hell get more torn apart than the gal who said "I think men who pay for meals are sexy. Come on guys! Be sexy!" lolz The responces were a big BOOM to her face. Arrogance. Its not a cool thing kids ✌
Bro. You lost the argument. You do seem desperate and arrogant af and are mad af cause 75% of people here dont agree. Why not adjust your thinking a bit b4 you are single forever?
@errorgoodnameunfound why don’t you stop looking through rose covered glasses and see that women aren’t perfect creatures. It’s called white knighting.
Ofc they aren't. Many are stupid hypocritical asshats. But so are many guys. Guys who act like what you encourage drive many women into HATING all guys. Also girls into that stuff you listed are shitty anyway. If a woman is attracted to that sort of personality, Id reject them automatically.
@errorgoodnameunfound considering that that is what most attractive girls are into, you would be having a hard time with women just like I am. Unless you want to settle for less, the three things above is how to get an attractive girl. Relax on the white knighting buddy.
Dude. Whether I get a girl or not isn't an issue. I dont need a girl to be happy. It isn't automatic that all guys date. Or marry. Many girls give into the personality you describe. By doing so they pass up what could be a way better relationship but there isn't much that can be done to change it except discourage it. My advice is always "let them come to you/give a chance to impress em. If not, its their loss." Many will regret the asshats they go far. But thats what they get. Karma hits hard.
Looks like a copy of the take Hispanic Guy wrote. No it's easy. Don't be a dick and don't be a creep
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Actually it’s not that simple. You have to be attractive or else you will get rejected, since people in general base everything off their appearance. It’s why you can’t go into a job interview in causal clothes and expect to get the job. Girls love the bad boy type so being a dick may be necessary. It appears girls look right over the nice guys and go straight for the bad ones. They also really love muscles too. So if you have a combination of those three, you’re golden
The bad boy type? Not unless they're 15. No adult woman in her right mind would want some loser who's in and out of jail and does nothing with their life. Girls don't "look over nice guys." The problem is most guys who go on about how "nice" they are, are the ones who are undercover dicks who have turned crazy because they were pushy/creepy and got rejected. A nice guy doesn't go on posting things lilke, "Why don't girls like nice guys and only like assholes." or "I'm a nice guy why doesn't this girl want me." No it's either someone who has very low self esteem or someone that it's starting to develop resentment to women because they couldn't get a specific woman
Either way it just seems desperation and that is the deal breaker for women not the man's looks. The biggest thing that attract women is a man who is strong and confident. Not weak broken or resentful
How can girls tell the difference between a genuinely nice guy and a nice guy who’s faking it? You really can’t unless you were to catch them in the act of this happening. Genuinely nice guys end up in the friend zone. They aren’t sexually appealing at all. I’ve been rejected multiple times and I wasn’t pushy or creepy. It was because I wasn’t attractive. I didn’t have big bulky muscles and I wasn’t a bad boy. I was regarded as a “pussy” by many women.
I think the point is what is good on paper and what gets a woman sexually aroused are two different things. A man can be kind, caring, charitable, volunteer, have lots of common interests, treat you like an individual, and on and on but only be considered a friend because he doesn't sexually attract you. One of the only things that separate a platonic friend from a romantic interest is sexual attraction.
So the reason question is, what is sexually attractive to you? What warms your cockles? Because if the man doesn't do that for you, no amount of commonalities and rapport is going to make you desire him.
Some women say it is that magical "spark", but obviously it isn't magical, it has to be tangible. Men try to find this thing to improve their attractiveness, not just to pick up any woman, but to appeal to the one who is compatible to him in all other areas.
If a guy have these 3 things, get at least 70% of women easily.
I do not know how difficult it is to their admit it. If we be stupid enought to trust, we would believe they do not like man with high income, they do not like shredded guys, they do not like 'BadBoys' giving emotions...
If we trust 100% of the shit they say, we'd think they prefer ugly, fat, poor... but cool guys.
im none of those things and I've never had a problem.
Anyway, if you know what needs to be done, go do it buddy! Whatcha wasting time on here for, hit the gym get shredded (low body fat is the biggest improvement to a man's face too) and go slay.
Lol no. Girls want romantic, nice, manly and physically attractive guys. Is it really that hard to understand?
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Since when have the wanted “romantic” people? I’ve heard plenty of times about how women hate romantic people because they are try hards. Manly and physically attractive, yes, that’s what I pointed out in my take.
Ron Jeremy is a fat, hairy dork with no personality. But he gets tons of ladies because he has the only 2 things that matter: a big dick and lots of money.
Dude, are you serious? hahahaha! I am betting 90% of the chicks Ron Jeremy slept with on camera during the last half of career were turned off by him but stayed professional and did what the job called for. He is a pornstar, of course, he "gets" tons of ladies.
@levantine99 Just because they work in the sex industry doesn't mean they aren't ladies. Granted, many have high libidos, but others simply do their job and when they come home at the end of the day, they live regular average hum-drum lives.
I get the moral implications of sexual promiscuity. However, sex is just a physical activity if you want to look at it biologically. If a woman looks attractive, has a high sex drive, and gets paid well for having sex, then I can see why the industry is so alluring to them. Yes, in some cases, sexual abuse can cause a woman to have an unhealthy view of sex and attracts them to the industry. Others are business savvy and smart, college-educated women who take advantage of their attractiveness and their love for sex to make some cash and have no moral hang-ups about it. To each their own.
All that said, Ron Jeremy is a poor example. For most guys who are obese and "ugly", they need have larger than life personalities or status to make up for it.
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Yeah - I just think different folks, different strokes - Everyone has their own tastes - I just think you are not being true to yourself or the girl if you create something she wants rather than her being attracted to you - It may seem limiting but it could be more rewarding in the long run to stay yourself - I have to no major qualms about what route you take just observations
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I gotta admit that’s creative and it made me laugh. But prove me wrong since you think that I’m so incorrect.
Oh, nein, nein, nein. I didn't say anything whether you are correct or not. I'm not here for that.
I'm just glad, that i made you laugh😀 instead of getting you angry. But to be honest either reaction would be fine 😂
That image was gold. Your comment needs a lot more attention.
So agreed 😂😂😂
I agree with the points in this Take, but suggest that a more fitting title would be "How to get Sex from Girls who are Only Looking for Sex in This Century"
The majority of college women are looking for sex and a relationship so...
AND a relationship...
Your advice is more relevant to guys who are looking to attract women for sex only.
Actually this kind of goes for girls who want both. I get what you're saying, but most girls want the complete package. They want this type for sex and a relationship. These are they types of guys women cheat on and in order to beat the game, you have to be this type of guy.
I, personally, don't find the idea of a disrespectful jackass appealing, nor do I have "abs or gtfo" written on my list of priorities, but that's just me.
I agree with her, I mean c'mon she's a woman. You don't know how a woman feels about a certain thing such as this. I agree this is just a terrible article giving out bad advice. How do you KNOW what a woman wants? Maybe depending on the woman that you've been with, but there are millions.
Oh yea it's pretty easy! My university is 60% women to 40% men - sex is a joke around here
your bar sluts that you date and like don't represent all of us. men shouldn't conform to modern datings' desires. classic family men were the best.
glad to see your comment. I am not any of those things he mentioned so how can i ever get a woman so its refreshing to see your comment is what im sayn.
Bar sluts are still women. And these things are for he majority of attactive women.
Basically, "To each his/her own." Some people are superficial and shallow, and others are real and caring. Women DO want a man who they can feel safe around, and who looks out of them, and who is confident.
That last one is very important, it is something that guys (myself included) struggle with in dating. Like there are days where I feel hopeless.
@TomBradysJersey That's understandable. It can be a vicious cycle: The more one is rejected, the less confident one feels. But give yourself some time, confidence in one's self can be improved as people change and strive to better themselves. Especially as one matures, they learn the distinguish against things that don't really matter, and the things that are important in life, and that can drastically change a person's perspective about the world and especially about themselves.
Well I've only been rejected
i agree (at least for me) to all of that except for number 3. of course i want you to have a wonderful face and a good body, but you also have to be a good person. which is different from being needy, but thankfully it is mostly ugly guys to be white knights
If a guy doesn't respect me he isn't worth anything. That is how I have been raised.
Wow, this is so wrong. These things will get you a very short-term relationship. Long-term, compassion, trust and respect is important. These kinds of things will get you a girlfriend on some online dating site, but not IRL.
No in reality too. Once you reach college it’s a lot more prevalent then your little bubble of a high school
Mate, I'm not going to be attracted to some random girl just because she's hot and an a$$hole.
Guys if you want to be single for the rest of your life take this advise...
Hmm. Being attractive, fit, and a bad boy will make you single for the rest of your life... Is it Opposite Day?
nah just bitter men day
Then why have I seen so many attractive women with this type of man? It's not bitterness, it's telling guys how to get girls in this century.
Very funny. I'm not doing any of these and I'm still a kissless virgin, who never had a girlfriend 😐
How many women have you actually seen like that? Give me a rough figure
About 100 so far
100? Say it isn't so! That leaves only... a few billion women left for you to meet. Geeesh
@CactusJuice if you’re gonna use that insult, let’s break it down. How many of those women are straight? How many are between the age of 18-24? How many of those live in the United States? How many are enrolled in a university? How many are attractive? How many go to the same University as you? Those one billion girls have now been boiled down tremendously.
LMAO I'm just envisioning this 15 year old kid wearing spongebob pajamas putting time together to write this. The women on here are about to tear you apart and it will be hilarious.
I’m actually 18 and these women have no evidence against me because they know that they like this shit
DUDE! YOU'RE SO DESPERATE
Bro they already have! 😂😂😂 was about to say the same thing. Whoever wrote this has waaaay too much confidence in his own opinions and biases. Like EVERY girl here had problem with this. Wait till more see this. Hell get more torn apart than the gal who said "I think men who pay for meals are sexy. Come on guys! Be sexy!" lolz The responces were a big BOOM to her face. Arrogance. Its not a cool thing kids ✌
@rigboner says the guy who simply doesn’t get rejected over and over again
Bro. You lost the argument. You do seem desperate and arrogant af and are mad af cause 75% of people here dont agree. Why not adjust your thinking a bit b4 you are single forever?
@errorgoodnameunfound why don’t you stop looking through rose covered glasses and see that women aren’t perfect creatures. It’s called white knighting.
Ofc they aren't. Many are stupid hypocritical asshats. But so are many guys. Guys who act like what you encourage drive many women into HATING all guys. Also girls into that stuff you listed are shitty anyway. If a woman is attracted to that sort of personality, Id reject them automatically.
@errorgoodnameunfound considering that that is what most attractive girls are into, you would be having a hard time with women just like I am. Unless you want to settle for less, the three things above is how to get an attractive girl. Relax on the white knighting buddy.
Dude. Whether I get a girl or not isn't an issue. I dont need a girl to be happy. It isn't automatic that all guys date. Or marry. Many girls give into the personality you describe. By doing so they pass up what could be a way better relationship but there isn't much that can be done to change it except discourage it. My advice is always "let them come to you/give a chance to impress em. If not, its their loss." Many will regret the asshats they go far. But thats what they get. Karma hits hard.
@errorgoodnameunfound you have just proven my point about what women want. Thank you
Cool. We got common point. Np
Noooo don't listen to this
Lol are you trying to hide the truth?
no, she is telling the truth girls DO NOT like guys like this.
Looks like a copy of the take Hispanic Guy wrote. No it's easy. Don't be a dick and don't be a creep
Actually it’s not that simple. You have to be attractive or else you will get rejected, since people in general base everything off their appearance. It’s why you can’t go into a job interview in causal clothes and expect to get the job. Girls love the bad boy type so being a dick may be necessary. It appears girls look right over the nice guys and go straight for the bad ones. They also really love muscles too. So if you have a combination of those three, you’re golden
The bad boy type? Not unless they're 15. No adult woman in her right mind would want some loser who's in and out of jail and does nothing with their life. Girls don't "look over nice guys." The problem is most guys who go on about how "nice" they are, are the ones who are undercover dicks who have turned crazy because they were pushy/creepy and got rejected. A nice guy doesn't go on posting things lilke, "Why don't girls like nice guys and only like assholes." or "I'm a nice guy why doesn't this girl want me." No it's either someone who has very low self esteem or someone that it's starting to develop resentment to women because they couldn't get a specific woman
Either way it just seems desperation and that is the deal breaker for women not the man's looks. The biggest thing that attract women is a man who is strong and confident. Not weak broken or resentful
How can girls tell the difference between a genuinely nice guy and a nice guy who’s faking it? You really can’t unless you were to catch them in the act of this happening. Genuinely nice guys end up in the friend zone. They aren’t sexually appealing at all. I’ve been rejected multiple times and I wasn’t pushy or creepy. It was because I wasn’t attractive. I didn’t have big bulky muscles and I wasn’t a bad boy. I was regarded as a “pussy” by many women.
I think the point is what is good on paper and what gets a woman sexually aroused are two different things. A man can be kind, caring, charitable, volunteer, have lots of common interests, treat you like an individual, and on and on but only be considered a friend because he doesn't sexually attract you. One of the only things that separate a platonic friend from a romantic interest is sexual attraction.
So the reason question is, what is sexually attractive to you? What warms your cockles? Because if the man doesn't do that for you, no amount of commonalities and rapport is going to make you desire him.
Some women say it is that magical "spark", but obviously it isn't magical, it has to be tangible. Men try to find this thing to improve their attractiveness, not just to pick up any woman, but to appeal to the one who is compatible to him in all other areas.
*-* I don't date bad boys... maybe that's because I was born in the 90's
The rest of your peers, not so much.
@Wwwyzzerdd who cares about them lol
Okay, but trying to pick one that isn't like that out of a crowd is impossible around all these kardashian clones.
@Wwwyzzerdd true, 90 percent of the population doesn't really have the capacity to think for themselves.. like little robot workers
be a bad boy in bed, yes. otherwise no. no better surprise than to have a perfect gentleman turn the switch on you.
Great Take!
Great and Obvious too.
If a guy have these 3 things, get at least 70% of women easily.
I do not know how difficult it is to their admit it. If we be stupid enought to trust, we would believe they do not like man with high income, they do not like shredded guys, they do not like 'BadBoys' giving emotions...
If we trust 100% of the shit they say, we'd think they prefer ugly, fat, poor... but cool guys.
im none of those things and I've never had a problem.
Anyway, if you know what needs to be done, go do it buddy! Whatcha wasting time on here for, hit the gym get shredded (low body fat is the biggest improvement to a man's face too) and go slay.
Hey, I found your sub-reddit! - https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/
No my child no. Unless you want girls and not real women.
Lol no. Girls want romantic, nice, manly and physically attractive guys. Is it really that hard to understand?
Since when have the wanted “romantic” people? I’ve heard plenty of times about how women hate romantic people because they are try hards. Manly and physically attractive, yes, that’s what I pointed out in my take.
Ron Jeremy is a fat, hairy dork with no personality. But he gets tons of ladies because he has the only 2 things that matter: a big dick and lots of money.
Dude, are you serious? hahahaha! I am betting 90% of the chicks Ron Jeremy slept with on camera during the last half of career were turned off by him but stayed professional and did what the job called for. He is a pornstar, of course, he "gets" tons of ladies.
these are not exactly "ladies" in any connotation of the word... .
@levantine99 Just because they work in the sex industry doesn't mean they aren't ladies. Granted, many have high libidos, but others simply do their job and when they come home at the end of the day, they live regular average hum-drum lives.
I get the moral implications of sexual promiscuity. However, sex is just a physical activity if you want to look at it biologically. If a woman looks attractive, has a high sex drive, and gets paid well for having sex, then I can see why the industry is so alluring to them. Yes, in some cases, sexual abuse can cause a woman to have an unhealthy view of sex and attracts them to the industry. Others are business savvy and smart, college-educated women who take advantage of their attractiveness and their love for sex to make some cash and have no moral hang-ups about it. To each their own.
All that said, Ron Jeremy is a poor example. For most guys who are obese and "ugly", they need have larger than life personalities or status to make up for it.