"Oh hi there, I am not a typical sugar baby. And nope, my boyfriend doesn't ever give me money and even if he offered, I'm definitely not accepting it."
"6. Generosity My boyfriend likes to tell people to keep the change when buying food and riding cabs. Even when the change is quite big. He's very friendly with taxi drivers and restaurant owners. And I fucking love that."
That explains things now. After all it is the money. Someone was right when he said, that money is women's viagra.
Ok so I don't have a problem with the age difference but your boyfriend is obviously perverted and you are too young to see that you are enabling this unhealthy obsession of his. You're also giving up a lot of your personal development by committing to this guy at such a young age so you should think about that and be careful. You might think the sex is fun for now but do you still want to be his "little girl" when you are in your 20s? 30s? Maybe not.
"giving up a lot of your personal development" In other words... raspberry0416 thinks you should make stupid mistakes like she has instead of getting advice from someone who can show you how to avoid those mistakes in the first place.
Nice! Slabs of fresh candy meat though? lol! WOW! That's some impressive imagery! Sounds like he appreciates your assets! Would you say they're impressive?
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Yes I love my petite body and perky natural assets :3
Age doesn't really matter. You can even find better at younger ages, both intimately and personality-wise. Everone is different. And what about older, inexperienced guys? You probably like experienced men since you're experienced yourself lol.
Um who cares what other people think? If two people like each other, are good for/to each other, and are attracted to each other, then what's wrong with it? Literally nothing. Screw the haters, period.
I’m 21, and I prefer women aged 16-25, 16 is legal in the U. K., I had a lot of bad experiences with middle aged women as a child so it must of done something mentally to me to put me off them.
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The guy i'm seeing is 12 years older than i am, it started off great, he was so lovely, polite and caring (also you're right, the sex really is amazing!!), we get on SO SO well too! But he's started to get too clingy, jealous and paranoid of guys my age I spend time with, so much so that I'm starting to want to end it! But there is nothing wrong with an age gap and I fully support anyone in those relationships!
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WOW THIS IS THE BEST MY TAKE EVER!! I also like older men I am attracted to this 48 year old man he is amazing and people might think I’m a gold digger but I make more money than him. He just has that sexiness and at the same time he is a gentleman to me.
The problem with some age gaps is maturity and intrests. You are still young and learning having crazy fun, while he did all that, and is on another level. Like how do you even agree and think the same way with such a huge age gap? How old Wil he be when you get "married"? He will age 10 years faster than you. He will (sorry) die before you. One point you'll be married to a senior citizen while you are still young.
When you say he's loyal, he's the commital type, etc that's not always true. The fact that he's a lot older and not married yet tells you something about him and I'm not saying it's a bad thing if he's not commitment material.
I am also into older men, but I like that they're confident, knowledgable, and the way they look, etc.
10 years isn't really all that much. My fist serious post-divorce relationship was with a 62 year old man while I was 37. We were together three years and had a lot of good times together. We're still great friends.
Little girl? Vom. Sexualising children is disgusting, acting like a little is disgusting. It's acting out pedophillia. And I'm not about that. It's fine to date older but this is disgusting.
Yes I'm not dumb, I'm aware there's a thing called Dom. Doesn't mean it's not disgusting and sexualising childlike behaviours. It's one step above pedophillia. You're barely older than a child yourself. I bet you met when you were underage? It's gross. Behave yourself.
Ignorant? Coming from someone who sexualises children. Your boyfriend is a predator and you're an enabler. I'm not ignorant at all, you just think simulating child rape is ok. You get off on child rape. Who's the ignorant one here? Because it sure as hell isn't me little cowardly anon.
I see, fair enough. Props to you for being your own woman, I had you down as something more... stereotypical than a gold digger, but I’ve been proven wrong. Wish you both the best of luck.
People really need to stop judging relationships like this. It's a funny society we live in where same-sex relationships are celebrated yet hetero relationships with an age gap are somehow deviant.
It's a little strange on his part... maybe cause the relationship is mainly based upon your youth and maybe not actually who you are... which is why you said you fight a lot
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"Oh hi there, I am not a typical sugar baby. And nope, my boyfriend doesn't ever give me money and even if he offered, I'm definitely not accepting it."
"6. Generosity
My boyfriend likes to tell people to keep the change when buying food and riding cabs. Even when the change is quite big. He's very friendly with taxi drivers and restaurant owners. And I fucking love that."
That explains things now. After all it is the money. Someone was right when he said, that money is women's viagra.
Nothing else to see here.
WOMEN LOVE MONEY!!! It is a fact!
Ok so I don't have a problem with the age difference but your boyfriend is obviously perverted and you are too young to see that you are enabling this unhealthy obsession of his. You're also giving up a lot of your personal development by committing to this guy at such a young age so you should think about that and be careful.
You might think the sex is fun for now but do you still want to be his "little girl" when you are in your 20s? 30s? Maybe not.
"giving up a lot of your personal development"
In other words... raspberry0416 thinks you should make stupid mistakes like she has instead of getting advice from someone who can show you how to avoid those mistakes in the first place.
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LOL. Nice job trolling.
Nice! Slabs of fresh candy meat though? lol! WOW! That's some impressive imagery! Sounds like he appreciates your assets! Would you say they're impressive?
Yes I love my petite body and perky natural assets :3
Ha! Petite and perky is a GREAT combination! lol! Vital stats?
Id got me one. He d the best. Sexy fit, strong sensitive mature and yes great in bed. It don t bother me the age gap one bit.
Age doesn't really matter. You can even find better at younger ages, both intimately and personality-wise. Everone is different. And what about older, inexperienced guys? You probably like experienced men since you're experienced yourself lol.
Um who cares what other people think? If two people like each other, are good for/to each other, and are attracted to each other, then what's wrong with it? Literally nothing. Screw the haters, period.
I’m 21, and I prefer women aged 16-25, 16 is legal in the U. K., I had a lot of bad experiences with middle aged women as a child so it must of done something mentally to me to put me off them.
The guy i'm seeing is 12 years older than i am, it started off great, he was so lovely, polite and caring (also you're right, the sex really is amazing!!), we get on SO SO well too! But he's started to get too clingy, jealous and paranoid of guys my age I spend time with, so much so that I'm starting to want to end it! But there is nothing wrong with an age gap and I fully support anyone in those relationships!
WOW THIS IS THE BEST MY TAKE EVER!! I also like older men I am attracted to this 48 year old man he is amazing and people might think I’m a gold digger but I make more money than him. He just has that sexiness and at the same time he is a gentleman to me.
I fit most of that description and i am 23. Old soul confirmed!
The problem with some age gaps is maturity and intrests. You are still young and learning having crazy fun, while he did all that, and is on another level. Like how do you even agree and think the same way with such a huge age gap? How old Wil he be when you get "married"? He will age 10 years faster than you. He will (sorry) die before you. One point you'll be married to a senior citizen while you are still young.
When you say he's loyal, he's the commital type, etc that's not always true. The fact that he's a lot older and not married yet tells you something about him and I'm not saying it's a bad thing if he's not commitment material.
I am also into older men, but I like that they're confident, knowledgable, and the way they look, etc.
10 years isn't really all that much.
My fist serious post-divorce relationship was with a 62 year old man while I was 37.
We were together three years and had a lot of good times together. We're still great friends.
Be open to being replaced the moment you get too comfortable and cunty.
Little girl? Vom. Sexualising children is disgusting, acting like a little is disgusting. It's acting out pedophillia. And I'm not about that. It's fine to date older but this is disgusting.
There's a thing called Dom but ok😊
Yes I'm not dumb, I'm aware there's a thing called Dom. Doesn't mean it's not disgusting and sexualising childlike behaviours. It's one step above pedophillia. You're barely older than a child yourself. I bet you met when you were underage? It's gross. Behave yourself.
I met him when I was of legal age but have a good day.
And you go back to acting like pretending to be a little girl getting raped is ok 👌
Keep on being ignorant. Well done.
Ignorant? Coming from someone who sexualises children. Your boyfriend is a predator and you're an enabler. I'm not ignorant at all, you just think simulating child rape is ok. You get off on child rape. Who's the ignorant one here? Because it sure as hell isn't me little cowardly anon.
Gota keep in mind, pedophilia is much acceptable in Asian countries and legal
@abundantlyrich that doesn't make it morally right.
Hey it's daniel craig, who's gonna say no to him
@abundantlyrich Daniel Craig? I only see George Clooney here?
No the writer clearly wrote he is blonde, rich , successful, blue eyes and handsome in her words.
Aka money bag atm
@abundantlyrich oh. Daniel Craig isn't who'd spring to my mind. But of course he's rich. She only cares about money and power.
It doesn't matter. As long as he's white built in with stronger dna and good at giving orgasms n kinky sex. It's a local appeal. I supposed?
@abundantlyrich everyone wants a Christian Grey these days don't they?
No it's not true. Lol. Maybe teenagers.
@abundantlyrich it was sarcasm.
Yeah teenagers definitely though. Grown ass women like me, nope.
To each on their own. If a master and slave relationship makes one happy. LOL.
@abundantlyrich eurgh. Only someone who hates themselves can be happy with that.
Really? As an older guy, I felt unappreciated by younger women.
Depends on the individual 😂 I do know you guys meet a lot of girls who care more about your money so I wouldn't blame you lol
I’m curious, what do you do for a living?
What was your upbringing like?
Have both your parents been present to raise you?
I'm a student but working my own full time job at the moment. Both parents were present yes but always strict.
I see, fair enough. Props to you for being your own woman, I had you down as something more... stereotypical than a gold digger, but I’ve been proven wrong. Wish you both the best of luck.
So basically this is essentially a white guy with a young Asian girl story more than anything else. I know he's your god. Yawn.
People really need to stop judging relationships like this. It's a funny society we live in where same-sex relationships are celebrated yet hetero relationships with an age gap are somehow deviant.
It's a little strange on his part... maybe cause the relationship is mainly based upon your youth and maybe not actually who you are... which is why you said you fight a lot