“I’m really attracted to a guy who knows what he wants in life and is going after it. I absolutely adore being around that kind of energy.” – Jessica, 27
Women are attracted to men that have goals and are actively pursuing them. Masculine energy is directional energy. Like a boulder rolling down a hill, the single-focus energy that penetrates through resistance in pursuit of achieving an end result is very attractive to women. But drive isn’t always enough on its own. Ideally you’ll be driven in something that you’re passionate about. it doesn't have to be a drive regarding career or making money alone, rather than passion in life and working on something you really want to achieve. As much as most men resist this idea, when it comes to attracting a high value woman of character, drive beats dollars every time.
2. They Have Presence
Every person wants to feel deeply seen and understood by someone in their lives… but few people want to take the time to explain or reveal themselves. When it comes to deeply connecting with a woman on an emotional level, your presence will always mean more than any presents ever could. By being fully present with women (through eye contact, listening, and prioritizing distraction-free conversations) you give them the sense of feeling seen. Everyone (male or female) wants to feel deeply seen and appreciated. The first step in giving women this feeling is in developing your personal presence.
3. Masculine men don’t care about Women little physical flaws
Their sexuality functions on a more animalistic level, so they don’t always assess women with their rationality or analytical skills, but with their guts and instincts. They want sexy women, but they don’t get bogged down by the details.If a woman is a little extra fat, unfashionable haircut or whatever piece of ugly clothing she might be wearing don’t mean a thing to them.
Nice dandyish men are different. Since they care too much about their own appearance, they judge women the same way they judge themselves: through an artistic, ideal kind of beauty, the type that amazes a man’s left brain but leaves him more or less sexually aroused. Effeminate men prefer cute over sexy. With their refined attention to details, they will mind if a woman didn’t draw the lines on her eyebrows correctly. and that's not fucking cool at all !
4. They don’t play mind games
They will be upfront with their intention and let the woman know what they want right from the start, which makes them more honest. Oppositely, nice guys will put up an act, lying to woman and befriending her in a slimy attempt at making their way inside her legs. When they realize the woman won’t let them in, their precious feelings are crushed, they start calling her an abusing bitch and make her responsible for all their troubles.
5. They’re romantic
Yes. we don't show our feelings in the beginning but, If a woman get our heart, which is very hard to obtain, we will timely express our feelings to the woman in a way that feels real and important. It will be worth a lot more than the daily doses of ass kissing a woman can get from her prissy boyfriend telling her you’re the best star to ever grace the face of the Earth, even while she's picking her nose. lol
6. They take the lead
They plan and organize the dates ( especially in the beginning of the relationship ), and all the woman have to do is show up with her smile, relaxed and ready to have fun. women loves a man taking care of them ( even if some of them would say I don't really like that ). Whereas effeminate men will ask the woman "want you want to do", "what restaurants you like and if their jeans make them look fat, effectively ruining the evening".
7. They’re living the moment as much as they can
When they are doing something important with the woman, they are able to stop and appreciate the moment, living it and experiencing it fully. nice men are worried: they constantly think about yesterday, tomorrow, what if this happens, what if that happens, bringing her along into their spiral of anxiety.
8. They are independent
They live and die on their own terms and they have their own projects and ambitions, without needing validation from anyone. They enjoy her company and they like her, but they don’t always need her !!!.
They actually give the woman a space. On the other hand, insecure men are clingy and their lives revolve around her. They look up to her to spice up their unfulfilled existence. soon the woman will lose interest in them.
9. They only have feelings at the right place at the right time
They are laid back unemotional beings, and if a problem arises, they will deal with it and solve it on the spot, forgotten and forgiven a few minutes later. the sissified men cute at first when a woman witness them crying at the movies, but they also passive-aggressively throw outfits after having held inside their grudges for weeks for reasons she will never understand. They will choose the perfect time for it: her birthday!!!
Come on.... lets face it !!! we know how to satisfy a woman perfectly. since most of us have a high sex drive and appreciate real sex and enjoy it fully. while the nice guy is used to watching porn and masturbate most of the time to the point it will be causing him different negative effects when actually doing it.