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Nice mytake, but nice guys usually lack self-confidence, it's not something you can just buy in a store. I guess either I'm too boring, or just plain too ugly :(
I know it’s not something you can just buy in a store, but you can overtime become confident in yourself. Men who think women like assholes over nice guys need to build their own self-confidence, that is, believing and loving yourself first before you learn how to lov anyone.
I might become confident if I get lucky, but that's not very likely to happen, how can I bulid self-confidence if only bad things happen to me?
I know how to love someone else, but not myself, because I don't have luck.
Being confident starts with a mental state. You don’t have to depend on outside sources to do that. If everyone depended on that, almost no one would be confident. Only the rich, popular and beautiful people. But the rest would have extremely low self-esteem. It’s all about your mental state.
So I need to delude myself into "happiness"? Isn't that like having an imaginary friend? I mean, it's not easy to change mental state, especially without any kind of foundation, nothing to back up the new mental state... sure, I can lie to myself, but subconsciously, I'd still know it's not true.
I don’t think guys like you can’t get thicker heads I swear to god🤦🏼♀️
You don’t need to DELUDE yourself into happiness, sweetheart. You have to BE happy and accept your flaws. Please read a book about positive psychology
But my flaws make me unhappy, how can I be happy then, even if I accept them, that doesn't mean that other people would accept them... ok, I'll try to find that book, thanks for the advice, Happy New Year :)
No problem. Happy New Year to you too!
Thank you :)
How about we stop caring what women want and throw a band on her pussy. Dealing with women isn't rocket science. They just want money and a man.
Women are so easy to manipulate, I'm not saying men aren't either but if you say the right things and you're handsome enough they will buy anything you tell them.
Really lol? I wish a man would try that on me. The only women that will fall for that is pushover women that hate their gender
I am shy/awkward with most girls, however when I think I have a chance with a girl I go for it, and text her a few days a week to see how she is doing? So according to you I’m going to fail right?
Be confident and yourself, fake is bs and will show eventually!
My take away is that women find douschebags to be exciting, women will be attracted to a man that's a total asshole because at least, hey, he isn't boring.
You clearly didn’t read this take. Lol
A person, whether it’s a man or a woman, will be attracted to the ones that have an exciting aura. This doesn’t necessarily have to be an asshole, this can be a nice guy who is exciting and fun to be around. Don’t confuse the both, because i swear lots of men get confused easily by the difference. Lol
Nice guys aren't nice. Any nice guy is either friend zone or is an attractive asshole who thinks he's nice yet is an egotistical narcissist. Her words, not mine.
So clearly the only winning solution for men is be an asshole and do whstever you want because you'll get chicks regardless
Man, your comment is so full of fallacies.
Whose words are these coming from?
Also, are you taking these words from one person and applying it to 3.5 billion other people? Seems like an extreme level to me.
And- if a man’s only motive is to get chicks (plural), not a respectable woman, then he’s not really a nice guy after all. He deserves all the rejection he gets if that’s the case.
no, a person in general is not attracted to an exciting aura. Most guys don't want that kind of woman at all, they want a submissive, feminine, generally docile, good mother good future housewife type woman. Fuck your exciting bullshit and fk all you women who want 'exciting' guys why don't you stop chasing a high and start thinking long term instead of short term gratification! You aren't just fking with yourselves, your fucking with the whole gene pool. Don't give asshole sex just because they are exciting is what us men are trying to say I guess, is that so crazy? Control your animal urges for the sake of preserving civilization!
@Goochbreaker You're just a butthurt religious conservative. Men like you are brain-washed and narrow-minded. Lemme guess, you also believe in god right? LMAO
I can't do that, sorry. I will need extensive surgery to meet your demands. I'd rather be myself because that's when I'm at my best.
Are you saying you can’t be confident? I think every person can be confident, as long as they learn how to love themselves.
Sure I can. Just not the way you demand. I love myself for the way I am; not the way you want me to be.
I’m not demanding anything. I’m encouraging men to adopt confidence; that’s not a a bad thing. And it’s not putting a mask on, unless YOU fake it. You can build confidence instead of faking it. You know that, right?
I am good the way I am. No need for masks or faking.
Again, I wasn't talking about putting a mask on.. But alright.
some are just not all that excitable nor all that confident-they got no reason
great take. i will bookmark it :)
Thank you! I’m glad you actually read through it and understood it. Sadly I see many people (especially men) that just read the first line and immediately come to an illogical conclusion lol.
Yeah, and if you're not hot all of a sudden instead of being interesting you're an annoying stalker.
One need not be an extrovert to get women.
Is that the only thing you grasped from the entire myTake? Lol
The rest of your Take is fine. This is the exception.
I didn’t want to emphasize on how thats a required trait to have though. I wanted more to reflect on how being extroverted often goes hand-in-hand with being confident, but I guess I should’ve elaborated more on that.
Thanks though :)
I guess my observation is that one doesn't need to be an extrovert to be outgoing. One does need to be socially skilled and outgoing, but introverts often manage this just fine.
Hmm, yes, nice observation. I should’ve said “Socially skilled ‘ Outgoing” instead of just extroverted
also a lot of girls have ben taught since elementary school : if he is being mean to you that means he likes you
But... 99% of girls 'grow out of it. Lol meanness is an unattractive trait to both genders.
That's really just an excuse by this point lol.
@FýrdracaDócincel Yes, her comment is. But the whole statement of women liking assholes is a fallacy. So there shouldn't be any excuse for something that isn't even true in the first place. The behavior that men have is viewed differently than the behavior women have (even if it's the same behavior). Men who only go for good-looking girls (who will probably break his heart) aren't judged at all.. people just say "Men naturally like hot girls" though this is just an excuse.
I want normal girl. Thats it :D
right so if i ignore girls your saying that they will like me good take im now ready to go out there and get any woman i want!
Aight, so if you chase after girls that ignore you, why are you complaining that women do the same? Isn’t it a little hypocritical?
A mix of both is great actually.
I really don't care...
Women love douchebags
God bless, the down votes are all women... They are in complete denial xD
@MaximisPryme I can’t believe a man thinks he knows better than a woman. What an ignorant comment 😂
That's OK, if I come off as a arsehole. It's better than being a nice guy!
I have seen many nice guys being 'friend-zoned'... And I have seen a lot of players/jerks get all the women!
@MaximisPryme ok dude. Lmfao
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