Boys, Here's What YOU Should Think About Before Kissing a Girl (Page 2)
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-Why don't some women tell the real father of the baby that he's the dad and not palm it off to another guy and make him raise a kid that's not his own?
-Why don't women be honest and tell guys they're are only with them for their money?
-why do women lie about being on BC and trap guys with kids they are not ready for?
Why do women not think about all these things before doing it, so they wouldn't ruin a guys life?
Those sound like things that pretty shallow women would do. Stay away from terrible women.
I fully agree with you, dude.
It’s a little too much to think about all that before a simple kiss to be honest. I find it impossible to care that much for a girl until we’ve dated s few months at least.
Yeah not even just kissing, I won't even flirt/talk first to a girl I don't find attractive because I hate leading girls on, its cruel. As a good looking guy I get checked out a lot, but I will not approach unless I like her to avoid making her feel sad.
Talk first? lol. Some girls truly want platonic relationships.
I understand this, though. I can't go in depth because in our society, outright saying "I'm an attractive female/male" garners a lot of hate. But yes, especially in the school/workplace, I feel like a lot of just friendly conversation is mistaken as flirting if you're attractive.
I feel kinda terrible. I've kissed several people that I didn't have feelings for. People that I wanted to love, but just couldn't. It's not like I was using them, I just had feelings for someone else that I couldn't get rid of.
I agree completely. For several years I still harbored strong feelings for my first love, but after we broke up I dated other people to try and get over him. Didn't work, and broke up with all of them... still feel terrible, one of them thought I was 'The One' 3 weeks in. Was disturbing, lol.
@VaIiant LOL I've gotten pretty clingy/desperate guys too. Thank goodness I'm not the only one though.
Oh God, yeah. Clingy guys are the worst...
I lost my phone in an evil couch cushion for half a day and woke up to 54 messages from my (now ex) boyfriend.
We had been officially together 3 days at the time.
@VaIiant Clingy guys are the worse. I had two dates with a guy forgot my phone at home he showed up to where I work because I didn't answer any his calls the night before and into that morning;. I told him to leave and never come back to where to my place of employment again. When I got home there was over a hundred missed calls and vm from him, sadly I stayed with him for three months he proved to be a possessive guy. I'm always asking my friends what happened to the macho, doesn't show or express his feelings distant guys that we grew up with?
Would a guy kiss a girl he wasn't interested in? Would a guy kiss a girl to make her happy even if it isn't something he would typically do? Kisses are a big deal to some of us women.
https://i.imgur.com/gUrk5An.jpg
I hope your readers get the message.
I thought this would be, tilt your head to this side, use that muchof oressure, yes/no tongue, have you idiots washed your teeth, look at her eyes, do 90% of a moce but let her finish, ... Etc Etc Etc...
I'm sorry if I didn't meet your expectations.. Please read the third line again
No, I was reffering to title, not the entire myTake. It is well written
I just think the same applies for girls, and therefore both genders.
Many girls are the initiators these days or just accept the guy's courting, and they drag and lead on the guys when they aren't even remotely interested or are just having fun.
BEFORE you kiss a girl, think about how many other guys she's kissed, and how many sausages she's eaten... possibly on the same night...
Also mints. You should use a breath mint beforehand.
nice to see that kissing means something to someone other than me. Too many people just do it for fun with anyone
"Yes, we have all kissed someone at one point in our lives" - Ummm... I don't think so.
"If you haven't had your first kiss, chances are you will soon" - Ummm... I don't think so.
Bad post.
While all true, it is hard to get girls. Let alone to actually kiss one.
It depends on the kind of girl you are aiming for I guess
@SuperNovaRoyalty yeah that's right.
I say that we must start with a hug and tgen ill kiss her forehead and slowly her cherks then her neck and then the lips with a some tacklings and tgen ill start for the french in this case boy must be talker than girl then yoll enjoy more
Thinking is the worst thing you can do before going for a kiss. Just do it.
... first time i did it i didn't think anything and just do it.
even prepared to get slapped like it matters much. never gotten slapped by a girl before though LOL
That's a huge overreaction to one guy hurting you. I mean, I get it, we've all been trashed by someone of whom we thought the world. But sometimes a kiss is just a kiss.
It'd be easier then if girls were the initiators. Seriously so many of your problems would vanish. Just like that.
I'm a relatively classic old-school romantic, and do believe the guys should do the majority of the chasing.
I think girls should be clear and express their feelings though-- just to be clear, I don't mean spoil your girlfriend, be super attention giving, etc. I just enjoy being the one asked out, (in the beginning of the relationship), but if thats your thing go for it.
@VaIiant But chicks go on and on about how they're afraid of how they'll be hurt when the guy takes the lead like that. All those problems vanish if you choose to take the lead yourself.
Im a chick, and trust me, I really don't whine on and on about how I'm afraid I'll be hurt xD I've never met a girl who has, actually. Maybe one or two, but if those are the girls you surround yourself with, you're bound to be displeased with the results.
@VaIiant This take literally goes on and on about the fears going through womens minds when guys are making a move.
I don't really particularly agree with this take xD I know many girls who have no problem with the kiss being a one time thing.
Cab I ask the original poster... are you male or female and how old you are? This article is making a heck of a lot of wrong assumptions. Take it from me, as a 42 year old with 5 sisters all of whom would laugh at the assumptions it's making about how women feel about being kissed. when they want to be kissed they don't mess about... and when they don't want to be kissed, their boyfriends / husbands quickly move to a safe distance. It doesn't need words... the look tells them "back off sunshine...".
@ManwithaConran Haha xDD yeah, I agree completely.
"Ask yourself, do you really like this girl or are you just gonna kiss her because you're bored with life "
This stupidity has been featured by gag. Applause.
Well, here is the thing. A lot of women don't know what they want and even after saying "yes", they could really mean 'no'
I don't speak for all women here.. I speak for majority including me. people are different