i dont think femininity means weak though i dont define it conventionally. weak is essentially how it is defined in the dictionary. I notice when people say that it can be 'strong' , they usually mean the effects it can have on men can be powerful. which is not strength but tactical servility. as you are -even if 'successful' in your impact- still being defined by someone else asa person.
Do you mean in it can mean femininity can be strong in its own right -or in its power to seduce? just curious, id like to hear more.
Not acting like a man I guess. Men do find women who don't try to be "strong independent women" (i. e. a pseudo-man) to be attractive - not necessarily more so, but it can be contributive.
@Langseax I feel like I don't necessarily act like a man but I can act tough at times but I make up for it and somebody still does like me soooo it does mean there are guys who don't find femininity to be that attractive... right?
@Deathraider There’s always some people who are ‘odd ones out’, I was talking generally, of course there’s some people who don’t like dependence, but it depends on how dependent you classify as ‘too dependent’. @SuperNovaRoyalty You can be tough as nails, but still feminine. If you ask me, good mothers *need* to be tough. As I said to the other guy not everyone is the same, there will always outliers who actually don’t care for the norm, but I was talking generally.
It makes me so happy to find someone on here who has seen arguably the best show of our time... Can’t believe they took that perfection off of Netflix..
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I think I fit most of those categories except the group thing not sure about it.
You left out what I consider to be one of the most important; joi de vivre. A love of life, and an enthusiasm for it.
Ah, well, you missed #1 - her level of attraction and desire for you. That's the most important. Everything else is secondary. :)
The cheerleader effect is quite real. People I couldn't stand to look at look quite sexy when put in a group.
Intelligence is so important. I cannot date a ditzy girl.
Yeah, being feminine can also be powerful, empowering, and strong-not weak. Some feminists pick odd things to attack.
i dont think femininity means weak though i dont define it conventionally. weak is essentially how it is defined in the dictionary. I notice when people say that it can be 'strong' , they usually mean the effects it can have on men can be powerful. which is not strength but tactical servility. as you are -even if 'successful' in your impact- still being defined by someone else asa person.
Do you mean in it can mean femininity can be strong in its own right -or in its power to seduce? just curious, id like to hear more.
Not necessarily the effects on men, but the effect on the girl herself. It comes with its own confidence, self-reassurance, and image.
I have to disagree with 6. Nothing puts me off a dating site profile more than most of the pictures being group shots.
Agree with all apart from the last one. I shine more by myself than with others..
What counts as feminine though? I can be pretty aggressive and overcompetitive sometimes haha
Not acting like a man I guess. Men do find women who don't try to be "strong independent women" (i. e. a pseudo-man) to be attractive - not necessarily more so, but it can be contributive.
@Langseax I feel like I don't necessarily act like a man but I can act tough at times but I make up for it
and somebody still does like me soooo it does mean there are guys who don't find femininity to be that attractive... right?
@Langseax Quite the contrary for me. I don't like someone too dependent.
@Deathraider There’s always some people who are ‘odd ones out’, I was talking generally, of course there’s some people who don’t like dependence, but it depends on how dependent you classify as ‘too dependent’.
@SuperNovaRoyalty You can be tough as nails, but still feminine. If you ask me, good mothers *need* to be tough. As I said to the other guy not everyone is the same, there will always outliers who actually don’t care for the norm, but I was talking generally.
#2 and #5 are a must for me. I'd get bored if I couldn't have good conversation with a gal.
I like tomboys and girly girls. I say that the first one is rather irrelevant as well as the last.
Didn't think the "Cheerleader effect" was a real thing thought it was made up in HIMYM
Bahahaha, same😂😂
“That one looks kind of cute though...” -Marshall.
I said a bang, bang, bangity bang, bang bang bangity bang
@VaIiant "Hypothetical High Five" ... "Nice!"
It makes me so happy to find someone on here who has seen arguably the best show of our time...
Can’t believe they took that perfection off of Netflix..
@VaIiant What do you mean; it's still on Netflix here in the UK
GAAAASSSPPP
Here in the US it was removed months ago.
I always lack the cheerleader effecf. I'm a homebody who's introvert. I don't wanna be a loner but I'm usually the odd one out
1) funny
2) smart
3) cute
in that order please
I definitely don't agree with the cheerleader effect. Being among others won't make a nottie turn into a hottie.
Feminine qualities are very attractive to me and a sense of humor, definitely good points and there are a lot more I’m sure
To me, it's friendship. I like a girl who gives friendship and companionship.
Agreed with all points except last one. I hardly approach women in group
The last one is true I've realized.
Me too :)
If it's a girl I like, add this to the list:
7.) I like my penis in a her... lol
Thanks for the like despite the glaring typo. Should've been "inside of", not "in a". Aggravates me when that happens...