Why I Think Casual Sex (Hooking Up, One Night Stands, FWB's) is Wrong (Page 2)
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I truly wish more men valued romance, sex and relationships in a similar way. Definitely sex should be special. I get too emotionally attached during sex, so I rather just attach emotionally to one person, monogamously. in a committed relationship. Hopefully I'll meet someone who shares the same moral compass as me... 🙏🏻
So young and so intelligent. I'm happy you are this mature at your age.
I hope that's not a sarcastic comment.
No it's not.
I'm 18 and a virgin. I'll happily wait a few more years too, if i don't find a happy relationship.(even if that leaves me sexually frustrated af..)
I have no judgement towards people whon engage in casual sex, it's just not for me, at least not at the moment. Who knows, people change but i don't think i'll ever be able to enjoy having one night stands.
I would happily try having a friends with benefits thugh, i don't know if that counts as casual sex
Some of what you said I agree with. But I don't agree with the part where you said that promiscuous Behavior causes people to judge by appearances. I think Society shapes your opinion on people's appearances. Cuz I know when I was a virgin I still judge people by their appearances
Or you, just like me, find casual sex disgusting and girls who do it have no real value to me. I already see million dislikes on this opinon, but I don't care.
I am okay if she is not virgin, don't get me wrong. But there is a number I couldn't get over either.
This. Couldn't agree more.
Agree with you, glad my best friend and I decided a relationship was better that just friends with bennies!!
I got bored with that one same book. And I can't afford to buy every book I want to read. A couple of years ago I did find one that I wanted read over and over, so I had it autographed. But it had one of those library check out cards in the back, so I just let other girls read it while I'm reading other books. They always bring it back when they're done.
Yes, definitely wrong. Especially for younger people.
"Think of your favourite food. Maybe it's pizza. Or perhaps it's spaghetti. Whatever it may be, imagine having it everyday for breakfast, lunch and dinner. It would get kinda boring after a while right?"
Are you kidding me? This is why I go from sex fueled relationship to relationship instead of sticking with 1 lady... the same meal over and over gets boring. And the meal would rather get eaten by other dudes too! 2 way street.
I agree. Whoring around sucks for both men and women. Nothing special. No bonding. No intimacy.
It's just a orgasm and out the door.
It makes you feel empty within.
I use to say fuck casual sex but how tf do we get off if we are single are we supposed to wait 2-3 months just to get a blowjob fuck no I’m gonna take what I want and that’s friends with benefits the only time casual sex is wrong to me is when your in a relationship I’m monogamous but I love fucking its just so good
Yes, you have made good points, it is a good take overall.
If you don't want to engage in casual sex don't. You don't need to explain yourself. Have enough courage in your convictions to stand by them without having to methodically break down why people who don't agree with you are wrong. Life style choices are just that choices, there is no right or wrong.
Why do you need validation for it though? People who don't care what other people do, do not do what you did here. Polyamory is not my thing, I don't make long winded posts telling polyamorous people they are wrong. Why? Because it not being my thing is a good enough reason not to engage in it. Your overthinking other people's sex lives. Worry about yourself and you'll be much happier.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yPEewaalik
@coralee = totally modern Western woman.
@PureGuy Correction I = Post-Modern Western woman. The Modern era ended between 1980 and 1990. If you want to waste your time worrying about what other people do in their beds go ahead, I just think you and the myTake Owner would be much happier if you focused on yourself and things that make you happy.
You express what you are. That's enough to know you.
Not agree with you.
Because human has their physical needs sex is one of them and mostly a strong need many of the societies don't allow sex before the marriage and extramarital affairs. But sometimes we need of sex what can not have openly so casual or one night stand is good option to fulfil your need of sex.
Said a typical Western girl.
I'm surprised 4 guys disliked this.
Casual sex is a sorry excuse for people afraid of being less popular to others who have sex a lot and for bored people, get you head out of your ass! Sheeples!
Not a fan. However, I'm tempted with some girls, but there are always political risks. Particularly with colleagues, the sex could be used against you, "don't shit where you way as they say". I've had girls come onto me at work, and I like sex, but one night stands would be ok with a friend of a friend or someone I knew from a personal circle.
I think you need to chill out, people all walks of life get those things you listed, I wouldn't worry about it, if you want to have sex, I suggest finding a good friend or someone you can trust so you know they don't have any STD's etc. :)
No need for name calling. That's just being childish. Are you 12? Your age says 18-24, but your attitude says 12. Just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean you are right. You have opinions that would have plenty of people calling you a dumbass, but do they go saying it all over the internet? Probably not.
@BlondieGirl_ Typical Western girl.
@myTake Owner, don't lash out at strangers because of your inferiority complex. There are plenty of therapists out there to help you with your self esteem :)
Darlin’, it’s human nature to judge based on appearances. It has very little to do with casual sex.
Also, married people have lots of sex. By your own logic, married sex is also meaningless.
Life would be boring. Then our fascination will never be real. and sexual frustration comes in. If i liked someone, knowing we would never be together, i'll just keep fantasizing about him and do nothing about it sad :(
A Western girl. Not surprised.
People need to get married, settle down, and start a family. It's simple and it works.
no..
@Volvagia You can stay single, have random sex, grow old, and die. But it would be a waste of life.
according to you; I think getting married and having children is a waste of life. Different strokes
@Volvagia Well, maybe we don't need people like you to pass on their genes.
great because I have no desire to regardless.