I am very confident that many of the girls on this site are either virgins or have had very few partners. However, as a man who has spent a great deal of time befriending attractive women instead of trying to sleep with them in both the curiosity and strategic interest of understanding them better that this isn't the norm. Even more, my time being "the other guy" and being the hookup mistake has caused me to see how arbitrary and "fake" the good girl act is nowadays. It's largely done not out of malice, but out of fear of judgement and with good reason. It can mess you up as a man...
Women make some guys in their life wait to have sex, and other men in their life no time...
If a girl is making you wait, it's often that she actually likes you. But, don't get it twisted--she has slept with guys on the first date/encounter. As a guy, this produces mixed feelings. Your sense of self is validated, while you ego is bruised. Still, I think it's better to know this is the truth and accept it. Don't beat yourself up because other guys have gotten it faster since it's not a competition and even if it were you would sort of be the winner if you think about it...
Women lie about what they've tried before...
It's like going into the store and initially the store owner is happy for your business, but then is suddenly like HAVE YOU EVER BEEN TO A STORE BEFORE?! HAVE YOU EVER BOUGHT SOMEONE ELSE'S SUPPLIES?!! You'd be like uh...yeah I've been to stores before and bought things there, but depending on his aggression you might be like yeah but not very many and they weren't very good yours is better etc.
The problem is this creates a culture of lying in women. So many guys judge them that they're never going to be honest about what they've experienced especially if it's superior to you in some way. But, don't be the deranged store owner, just be happy for their business and try to make them a lifetime customer.
An attractive woman's laycount generally exceeds 50 and sometimes even 100s of guys
This will be the one that i think guys will have the hardest time with. But, the truth is i've seen girls lie about their laycount even in front of their female friends. This means that a woman's laycount is often a number only she and she alone knows and so it's very easy for it to become disproportionate to what people expect. Of course, this can cause a guy to think all girls are sluts and that girls who say they don't hookup are lying. I think what should be gleaned is to actually stop slut shaming because it's very normal. Also, guys, let's face it, usually women in their 20's who are still virgins are really messed up in the head
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