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I'm sorry, but what were you expecting? From what you've said, this guy's intentions seemed pretty damn clear from the beginning. You say he broke your heart, but it looks to me like you went and broke your own heart by fishing for romance with a guy who clearly had other things on his mind.
That's just my brutally honest take on all this.
Well in the beginning I didn't take things too serious either. No, I didn't know he was talking to all those girls. I was stupid enough to think it was just between him and me. I have never encountered something like this so I kind of went with it. I know I have a stupid part in all this as well, but I just wish he told me "hey I'm flirting with other girls and getting nudes form them" instead of just telling me "You're the only girl I want, I just want to see you" That changes the way I look at the whole situation
Well, at least you can learn a valuable lesson from all this. Never trust anyone online. I can honestly say I've never been involved in any sort internet romance, mainly because I operate under the assumption that every girl I meet online is actually an obese 40-something-year-old man living in his mother's basement.
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
I think it's fairly evident that it's just sexual for him. At this point, his word should mean absolutely not shit to you, so don't worry about what he says. He's only lying because he still thinks he might be able to get something out of you.
Fuckboys : capable of getting laid
Normal guys : incapable of getting laid
Nice guys : cuckolded
So who is the better pick of them all?
If I had the option of being a fuckboy, i'd become one in a heartbeat
But there's a better option out there:
Make some money first, THEN get laid... saves you a lot of effort and time, and gets you much better looking chicks
But if it's THAT difficult to keep that D in your pants, by all means continue what you're doing... only the other pathetic losers complain about fuckboys as they can't get laid themselves lol😂
Bring on the down votes, betas!
The only one this girl PM'd was a good looking nice guy, if you're ugly acting like an ass will still get you no where @MacViking and having money makes you the perfect cuck provider ^_^
@KristiBreaksTheRule The pic on my profile is me, I got rich from Bitcoin, I travel the world and I fuck 8s, 9s and occasional 10s when I'm in Latin America. Having money allows you to be a fuck boy, not be a beta provider.
@MacViking If I was a guy, I wouldn't want to get a girl just because I'm rich. That doesn't means she loves you
I'm not lookin for love. I'm havin too much fun fuckin as many bitches as I can. But that's what turns women on just like this article said. They want the elusive guy who doesn't want to settle down.
@MacViking you enjoy that, I have my lifestyle and you have yours. When I'm older I want to be able to come home to a husband that I love and children that we have together
@MacViking preach br9ther fuck boys drown in pussy and always will. Women can't resist them.
Your not really buying this shit are you?
@villageidiot
"Your not really buying this shit are you?"
You'll never know, if you've never been one
The Internet is fantasy land for losers.
@villageidiot
depends on the definition of "losers" that you're talking about...
If being a fuckboy = being a loser
And being a virgin nice guy = winner
Then I'd be a loser my entire life😂
And I don't mind it 1 bit
I was talking about Mac =Viking specifically
weird comments on this one.
I don't understand this new generation of people fucking each other over. its like we constantly invent so many new ways to be mean.
me? I respect the SHIT out of women. Why? No, i'm not some beta loser. its because when you do, you get laid so much more often. single women my age love the simple act of being respected. Its crazy. I'm average looking, average in bed, yet right now i have 3 friends with benefits.
Lets be clear tho, its not a fake act, i really do respect these women. They're great! They do great things! They're interesting and I like learning from them.
Ah well, is what it is i guess
the question is do the women know you are seeing other women. When I talk to this guy he was all like "No I don't want to see some other girl, I want to see you!"
You have money
@TheUglyMan lmao, as if he would know lol
yes they know, or at least they know that we are not exclusive and i don't want to be and TheUglyMan: I am VERY fiscally conservative. Whether I have money or not, I don't spoil myself or anyone around me with material goods. No one is gold digging me, if they are they must have super low standards for gold...
It's a new generation of right wingers and fucking people over is a sport to them. The girls are as bad as the guys. The girls seem to love the sleaziest guys.
@villageidiot Guys think that girls over go for those types of bad boys when they don;t really take time to think why we like those guys, and no not because they treat us like shit. Maybe those nice guys should pay attention to the sweet stuff those players tell us, how they make us feel in that moment, and why it means so much to us
I know it means so much. But down the road when you're saying "where are all the good men"?
Your question will already be answered. If I knew and liked you but knew you found someone like "MacViking" that would certainly be the end of my attraction. I could never be with a girl like that.
@villageidiot Guys like that are never attracted to girls like me, because every one of them thinks I'm shy and quiet. the guy in my mytake is the one exception. But still, just because he gave me attention, I didn't send any nudes. He sent me basically everything he has going on down there but Still, I didn't cave in. I have standards. In the back of my mind, I'm always waiting for a guy who I like, and can give me all of his time and attention to love me, not use me and throw me away. I want to be his drug. not his cigarette.
@myTake Owner
delusional guys who pretend to have fucked a tons of women on the internet like MacViking are never attracted to girls like you?
@SarahBreton lol not a single guy I know in real life as ever actually flirted with me. I haven't hugged a guy for 2 years, never kissed anyone, never been on a date, still a virgin, yup that's me in a nutshell lmao
oh it makes sense now
That's so sad😢
@TheUglyMan what? that I don't get action lol nah I;m only 16 it doesn't concern me all that much
Will you please tellme whatthat "sweet stuff" is?
@villageidiot who u talking to me? what sweet stuff?
the sweet stuff you said the players say to girls.
I get your point but some girls do enjoy what he is doing. Case in question , I was on a site and it said any one from the UK. So I replied.., she came back what about a photo so I set one on holiday on the beach with shorts and tee shirt on. I one back toppless, she asked any dick ones , I said not really. She sent one of her totally naked exposing what she had at the top of her legs,, tell you it got a reaction it got me horny. so I sent her one of mine. This all in 10 mins.
Don't get me wrong I enjoyed every second but I didn't go after it it came after me. Honestly to this day I don't know if it was a guy on the other end,, it just shows how stupid you can be...
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
All this rant and f*ckboys, jerks, A-holes, bad boys are still drowning in pussies. The end.
not every girl is spreading her legs for guys like this, I don't know about other girls but I'm glad I've never done that with anyone yet, looking at all the guys i know irl, would have regretted it the second afterwards lmao
I honestly don't know what to believe anymore when it comes to women. Nothing surprises me anymore. Except when someone really wants me or "spread their legs" for me (quoted from you) lol, I will be surprised by that. I am not saying you are a liar. It's just that I have seen girls drooling over the type of guy you are talking about way too often.
lol I like him and want to be close to him but I've got boundaries
me too, i do not really believe women... their action does not match their words...
and most of them just see what in front of their nose, but above that, they are blind.
"The eyes are useless when the mind is blind"
Preach brother women love getting screwed over by the Chad.
@TheUglyMan what a superficial thing for you to say lol the guy I talk to isn't even that physically attractive
Well myTake Owner, you are a super rare breed. We don't have enough of ladies like you in this world.
Yay! That's good to hear :) Thank you haha wish guys would appreciate me more but nah they don't
Yeah, but can you honestly blame them? Most good guys are considered creeps by women. Most good are nice to people in general, not just women. It's a contrary belief that most good guys are just "nice guys" that expect sex in return for being nice. Some do maybe, but it's all a stereotype. It's just an excuse for women to continue dating f*ckboys. Most good guys only want just a chance, like a date or two. Anything else more than a date or two is just a bonus.
They will date the fuckboy just like that...
Cuz dating and relationship should go snd follow what they want only.
They eye is useless when the mind is blind.
I haven't dated a single guy in my life. I'm only 16 but some people think that's weird. I know that there a good guys out there, but every girl has their own standard and won't settle for a random guy. I didn't intend to catch feelings for a f boy but it kinda happened on its own.
Damn brother you preaching women don't want a guy who is nice. Niceness isn't attractive. They just see us as needy unless we good looking.
@TheUglyMan like I said, the guy I talk to isn't all that super good looking , but still I talked to him! lol
You're a minority
I’ve never understood the point of sending or receiving nudes. There’s an internet full of free porn. Go look at that. It’s easier.
Lol true! But the thing that hurts me most was missing the interaction I had with him
I think that you just have to remember that he’s not the person you made him out to be. I’ve done that myself - and I almost married him.
It’s hard to see people for who they really are when your whole relationship takes place through a screen. But you’re a little wiser now. You’re going to be fantastic.
Awe! Thanks!!! Much appreciated! Thanks for your opinion! :)
I don't know why people exert this much effort, the most straight forward way to get into a girl's pants is just to be nice and polite
lok key agree with you, it makes me think he's genuine when he tells me about his life story or what not
wait you're under 18 lol i didn't notice that
haha really? lol
but still that doesn't really change a whole lot about him lmao
Well you're underage so the dating game is different, I feel you should focus more on school work instead of getting dick pics from some dude on the internet... when I was in high school I was really good at physics
omg you're literally the opposite of me I got an 87 in physics this year, but I still struggle with it. Art, foods studies, Language, social studies and biology is more my thing
You sound chill dude! Can we talk?
struggle with what? wave? optics? what are you studying now?
nah that was last semester. This semester I have social studies, art, grade 12 chemistry, and biology (most grade 11 courses but I fast tracked chemistry, it's my worst mark right now, at a 72) Never gotten a grade so low in my life
ugh I hate chemistry and biology
Sounds like you're doing really well in school, right? what's the average grade of your friends?
I try not to focus on them but as are as I know they should be around high 80s. But some have 60s and lower. If I'm just counting my grade 11 courses, my average is well above 90
You don't study math?
but you study food? lol
Just followed you, I think it' better to have conversation in messages than here because I'm talking about myself and people will figure out who I am pretty quick
Lol it's called food studies but you literally just cook lol. I had math last semester. Got 81.
No it's not
I wish that were true but as a polite guy I have to say it's not.
@villageidiot the guy I talked to is nice and polite and if Imma be honest his face ain't that attractive to me but I didn't stop talking to him because of that.
Talking doesn't guarantee you'll get laid.
@TheUglyMan okay? lmao not my goal
I wish I could agree with you, but look how she's falling for this shit.
I'm talking about MacViking. Why do u even bother responding to him? You would have to be insane to believe this line of BS
@villageidiot falling for what, lmao don't even know what you're referring to
The fact that you would even talk to a loser (MacViking) like that is a bad sign
@villageidiot Yeah, I'm pretty stupid ngl, how do I fix that
tell me the sweet things the players say to you and I'll tell you how to fix it. OK? by the way I wish I was Canadian. Canada ROCKS!
@villageidiot " Awwwwwwwwwwww babe you're so adorable, you adorable little cutecumber" he told another person he liked me because I'm "independent, smart, strong, successful, submissive, hot, cute, and hardworking, and ambitious" says I'm super talented, tells me I'm really smart, "sorry I didn't text you, just want to let you know I think about you.." Calls me cute names, etc. tell me the things they want to do to me, and how they want to cuddle me. there lots more.
When you even sense the slightest indication you're being manipulated... TERMINATE the conversation immediately. These guys are mercenary. If they can make you cry in the aftermath of a sexual conquest, they will consider it a great victory. There is great cruelty in American society. I don't know if Canada is different cuz I don't spend enough time there.
How we became such a savage people is open for discussion but one of the elements of this savage behaviour is cruelty to women. What is even more mind boggling is how many women fall for their abusers. Look how many women voted for trump and he insults them every day. It's difficult to explain, but when you see one, hear one or smell one, RUN!
@villageidiot I try but I'm still stupid and naive and believe that he'd treat me different
Because I know so little about him it's hard for me to accurately assess. So as an example I would use "MacViking" the idiot who we were talking to before. Now wouldn't you get up and leave if that guy came over and started talking to you? I mean you smell the BS a mile away (I hope)
@villageidiot Lol yes. But for some reason I'm curious as to what he want to say. I just followed you. Can we talk in private because I need to send you a long example of the texts I received
@villageidiot it doesn't allow me to message you until you follow me back.
Sure, I'm on the east coast (NYC) so I'll be going to bed soon. My mom is yelling at me so I have to take refuge. But write to me any time.
just did
- Continues leading him on with no intention of giving him what he wants
- Gets mad when she finds out he gets what he wants from other girls
True, but I wish he would just tell me he wanted to stop talking to me because I wasn't sending pictures, instead of hanging onto me and coming back to "check" on my every now and then. At least I wish he just told me that we didn't want to talk if I wasn't sending. But he never did that. He said he respected me and stuff but also said I was the only girl he was talking to
Cool take, but I don't think he sees you anything more than a living meathole. But hey, who am I to destroy a dream where you can make him your man only right?
Don't want him anymore lol I take things way more seriously, and strings are definitely attached with me. I just wish he wouldn't have lied and told me I'm his only girl honestly
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
It's what they call, 'leading them on'. He's just putting you up as a backup plan.
I hate to say this but... it works.
Its shit because other guys will look at the work of a fuck boy and want to emulate this. After all, the fuckboy is the one getting a response, he is the one getting attention and all that jazz... why shouldn't every other guy follow in his example. Sure, he isn't always succeeding but being told you're blocked or receiving any response, however good or bad, big or small, is better than nothing anyway, riiiiiiiiiiiight?
Hey you're the type they always go for.
@villageidiot
Oh stoppp - I'm just a lowly but handsome student. How could I possibly be everyone's type LOL
I'm sorry you had that experience but now you can learn from it. You're much better off without him. He's shown his true colors and I assure you, not all guys are like that.
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
Girl: "He's a nice guy".
Internet: "He's a real gem, alright."
Fuckboy: "Lemme see that b-hole".
Girl: "He means well".
Internet: "I'm sure he does".
Girl:"... no, he's really nice, and he's cute."
lol. I described him as nice. Nice as in he is respectful of himself and understands my boundaries and is committed to his dreams and tells me to work hard for the things I want to achieve. Fuckboy as in he pretends to talk to me and only me and try to get nudes from me and sext me even though he knows that I'm not his only girl and he has 100s of nudes from other girls
All joking aside, he actually sounds like a sexual predator/sex addict and is going to end up on an episode of "To Catch A Predator".
I don't deny that actually
Why do girls often call guys f*ckboys?
If a guy was to call a girl a sl*t or a sl*g he would be considered rude, and then it's not nice to give people labels, but girls think they can call guys f*ckboys?
Only give if you can take.
Everyone has been labelled by something, but I think it's fair if that's the way they act; pretending to be all sweet and acting like your so special when in reality they just want to get you naked. I think that describes an f boy well. But If I didn't even do anything that can be considered "slutty" then it's not fair for someone to call me a slut. If I do act like a slut, I am willing to accept the label
Too bad they don't call them their proper name..."LOSER"!
This had nice intentions, but it’s a MyTake, not a MeRant. Sounds like you knew who he was from the beginning, but went along with it for the attention/feelings.
I guess you're right, but I started out not taking things so seriously, but he made things more serious to me by telling me he misses me and only wants me. I have never been in a situation like this, so obviously I get attached. I even told him that, and that's still how he treats me. If he doesn't want to me to react like this maybe he should just be like "Hey girl, Im talking to 23 other girls and getting nudes, so if you don't gonna send, it ain't gonna work out" But no, he tells me me that he respects me and what not, and says I'm his only one.
Again, fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Here we go. "I made a shitty choice in a guy, pity me."
"I made a shitty choice in guy, let me rant and if you end up reading it and getting offended, that's on you"
how am I offended? I just pointed out that it sounds like a pity party.
nah mate I don't need anyone to pity me, I made a stupid choice and I'm just communicating what I got out of that experience and how I felt about it. It's more personal than anything, if people want to believe want attention I can't stop them but I know what's going down
thank you for sharing, then. I interpreted it the wrong way
It's not pity or condescension. Most women do just as you did. It seem to be genetic or something. I'm actually kinda glad I'm shy cuz after seeing what I've seen, I just don't want to get involved any more. My mom and sisters are always telling me I'm good looking but I don't get treated thAT way. I don't think being alone is all that bad.
@villageidiot Shy guys are nice. But the one type of guys who seem to put the most interest in girls are those players. I know shy guys but I don;t talk to them because none of them talk to me. I'm not scary either but I have no idea who they are because they never talk to me. Long term relationships are better had with shy guys, and I wouldn't mind if one actually gave me attention and had a personality that captured me
:/ I've met a whiner dude who acted same way. Why did a person like this ever exist, ever came in life eh.. its actually annoying. Wish never meet people like this. Its a bothersome and a trouble.
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
he's not being truthful to himself. The heck he's not someone worth. Never waste your time with this kind of silly person. YOLO. He doesn't even sure of himself
Not a worthy person
lmao that other girl he talks to told me that the guy "really wants to meet her and be a thing"
speak of a pig (cough, cough)
he just tries to get with everyone wtf
Seems like a drama attention seeker. Get out from that situation. truly a waste time to even give a damn to their stories
And sounds immature.. lel
lol agreed
This is totally relateable, they dont even try to brush up the game, its all the same and then they come back with pretty little apologies and get your friends involved so it looks genuine.. All disgusting!!
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
Nothing about this looks genuine. Hahaha! Lols at you for being attracted to this type of behavior unless you just want a casual relationship and sex, which in my opinion is good!
Anyone with half a brain wouldn’t talk that way to someone they literally cared about!
That guy is almost surely not in high school. You shouldn't trust people like that.
We follow each other on other social media, and I've seen documents with his name and stuff. But yeah, trusting him is a big no no. I gotta learn to keep my guard up! :)
Serious catfishers (which it sounds like he likely is) will create fake social media accounts just to pick up a certain type of girl. Those documents could be real, and that could be his real name. But I suspect that he is not the age he told you he was.
I'm glad you've learnt from the situation. :)
nah, lol I know he's real honestly I don;t know what other proof to give you lol
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
He is lying. Don't take him back.
I hate those faggots, I used to be friends with a few of them, then I realized who they are and that I'm much better off without them
Explain this to me:
So I basically straight up told him I felt he was losing interest and what not. And he said this:
"sorry I just lost interest in you for a bit so I thought id take a bit of a break so I don't"
and I asked if he actually liked me to begin with or if things were just sexual, and if he still likes me, and he said this:
"I still have interest for you and yea lol there wasn't even that much sexual tension so yea I actually like you"
Is he lying wtf is going on?
He's definitely lying. If he liked you, he wouldn't be flirting with other girls.
lmao that other girl he talks to told me that the guy "really wants to meet her and be a thing" he fricken tries to get with everyone
What a loser and a horndog
lmao
I wouldn't give him anymore attention
Congratulations and welcome to the real world. I had the exact mirror of your experiences with older women.