4 Reasons Why Nobody Cares About Your Preference for "Traditional" or "Modern" Dating. (Page 2)
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I'm My Own man I'm a traditionalist of old fashion style dating
Well, I'm happy that you know yourself. I think confidence is a beautiful personality trait.
Well thank you it's appreciated
Much appreciated. There are always people out there who share the same priorities and goals <3
It was a pleasure talking to you come on by anytime we can chat a little bit about life
I would love to!
I look forward to that
I just want a mix of the 2 really but I'm more on the traditional side
Yeah, there definitely are people out there who want to be that for you <3
Great mytake, it's very relevant at least to me it is :)
Awesome! Thank you so much!
Don't know how this take doesn't have more comments. It's an amazingly well written take!
Thank you so much!
Good take.. Some people didn't get it, but that doesn't stop it from bein truth..
I think it was mainly because they didn't read the original MyTake that the other girl posted which mine was in response to. Also, thank you so much!
Right, that's how it usually is.. Taken out of context.. LOL.. But no problem!..
I agree with this myTake
Good thing I responded to that old myTake, which caused you to read it, which inspired you to write this myTake in response. Chain reaction
Yeah, it helps when people respond and bring attention to a topic. Then one person will take the time out of their day to show that not all people think the same lol.
Thank you
CT_CD dang great twist there "I agree" then "You know this ain't original, I see you".
I think a lot of these expections are based on a nostalgia for an imagined past, maybe ‘modern romance’ is less romantic or maybe it’s just so new we’ve can’t tell
I mean, they did all this crap in the past too lol. I'd define modern dating as the bonus of using technology and that is it.
Right like I wh
Right like when phones were invented i bet they were like romance is dead no one writes letters or shows up randomly at your house anymore
lol there is still romance ya haha
l would date any girl all girls are very nice l love all girls
Girls and guys are great when we look at the positives lol <3
yes you are so true my aim is to always please the girl as l was born that way l am not only after a girl for one thing l like the whole package lol yes girls are fantastic honest l would do anything for a nice girl and l mean everything x /
Amazing! Appreciation always feels great and i'm really glad that someone introduced you to such a lovely concept of love. I hope more people learn to be appreciative of their opposite sex, no matter how irrational we can all be.
it was my mind that introduced meto this way of thinking only nice things about girls l dont like guys to be bad to a girl and if l think that they are been bad l will tell them so l will always defend the girl no matter what the out come is you get this kind of guy that hits his girl and wants to control her well in my book l will never stand for that he will then say to his girl l love you how can he love his girl after he has hit her well her in scotland we have got a new law and if a guy hits his girl he goes to prison and it is the same for the girl its very rare for the girl to hit her guy but it does happen l am a very normal kind of guy and l know right from wrong and l will always treat a girl with lots of love and respect at all times no matter what problems she has but l never see a girl as a problem girls are to be loved at all times as girls are fantastic x
Then you are very empathetic and value treating others the way you want to be treated. This is very honorable and hard for a lot of people to learn. I commend you and your efforts. <3
l see that you know what l mean a lot of guys and even girls dont understand about things in life even at your so young age you do understand all that l am talking about l always stop and think first and l dont understand why it is a problem for to take a girl out and pay the bill lots of guys say that the girl is a gold digger no the girl is not a gold digger in my mind the girl is not looking for free dinner l would be willing to pay the bill every time and l never use the word gold digger l think that is an American word lots of guys need to grow up and stop been like kids be nice to each other it goes a long way its near midnight in scotland and l am having some greengrapes lol
I mean, in this specific example of my take, it was in response to a girls mytake who probably didn't mean to come off as sounding like a gold digger but really was listing off the very definition. It wasn't traditional dating at all when it becomes a grocery list, ya know?
yes you are so right no girl has given me a list of her wants l dont do lists of wants from a girl l would just give her the list back if l was dating a girl say for 6months to a year maybe l would give her what she wanted but most girls in scotland are not forward like that l know when you are young you dont have much money l have been there lol
Hahaha yea, my poor young generation is resorting to netflix and chill thinking of the financial struggles versus becoming creative and adventurous. Being taken care of is appealing and it feels good, but I'd be afraid that the relationship wasn't genuine and instead dependent. That is if we are thinking in extremes, it is not always like that ofc.
its never like that with me l am very loyal and very loving and very caring to be very honest its like l can read into you and your mind well l can do that as well l can tell you that l am very honest and open and very genuine l dont drink and l dont smoke as l care about myself yes and l do want to live to be 100 and beyond and l can tell that l will get there as its all to do with the mind l can also tell that you have been reading into what l have been writing to you l can tell that you do like me as we are both very bright yes l do like you age is a number we as human beings can't help who we fall in love with if l looked into your eyes l would know all about you? yes l would take care of you? and you would like that l always think out of the box l am more than normal l do stay alone and l am very clean lol l do every thing for my self can l ask what state you stay in can you tell me a bit about yourself only if you want to edwin x yes thats my name lol
Hmm to be honest, I'm not sure how to respond. But hi Edwin, it is lovely to meet your kind soul
are you in shock do you need a doctor? lol l know what you would like to say but l am not going to say it for you as you might say o thats not what l was thinking when it was what you were thinking? l am such a tease towards you l love to play or should l say l would like to play? l would love to have some fun with? lol please let me know what you are thinking l know in my mind that you are a very nice person you dont know how to respond l bet you do but you are keeping it close to your chest god l love talking with you yes we are so far away from each other if you were closer l would ask you out for dinner yes l would and l know that you would go out with me for dinner l can tell? yes l am very fun loving and l do care about what you have to say two great minds think alike? edwin x
I must admit that I'm definitely not used to such intensity within a quick pace of time in a place where it is nonessential. So please do forgive me if I do not know the best way to respond.
l understand every thing that you are saying to be very honest l just dont know where l get it from as l can be shy at times l have never played about with many girls in my life and that is the very honest truth l would never tell you lies yes l do like you as l say its like we hit it of when we first started to talk on this site l have been on this site say for around 6months l dont do dating sites as l think a lot of the girls on those sites have a lot of baggage you will know what l mean? l can tell that you are very nice thats why l love to chat with you and you have a great brain just like me l am not the kind of guy that would ask for those kind of photos etc you will understand what l mean? l have 100 % respect for you yes l do dream and l bet that you dream about tings as well l am making coffee would you like some if you were hear l would make your dinner for you as l am a very good cook l can cook most things it is just after 8pm in scotland edwin x
I don't mind being stereotyped as a gold digger
Dating is different from Gold Digging. There are just different priorities and goals. <3
think bout it hun, its knowne obl for a guy or a girl to pay for your time and company
@doflamingo457 I used to split the bill but now I don't see why I did
why not obv if you dont like him you pay for the first date or something so you have a excuse to leave, but after the 6th date or something and i see you just are using me for meals , then see yah bitch
Me eiather better a gold digger than easy and free. To me it cheapens a womans value to not let a man be a man and show that he can protect and provide
@KaramelKisses Some would argue that it's better to not bother to go on a date that you are not into just to get free stuff AND not have sex with men until you meet the right one. It's just different: priorities, desires, views, etc.
eaxctly!
@KaramelKisses exactly, when guys think you're easy and free they walk all over you and take you for granted.
And @doflamingo457 it's not a free meal since like you said the guy pays for company
well if you dont like him then pay and leave
@doflamingo457 I wouldn't even date if I didn't enjoy his company. I'd leave and not pay if he was bad company. Or rather I wish I did that in the past. I paid my portion but I should have just left instead of waiting for it to be over
um he ain't paying for hun, i know i wouldn't lol
@doflamingo457 you're too young for me to date hun
i never said i was there yet, hm your anon between 18-24, even if i did like you in the least i didn't think so lol
Not exactly nobody. You care... enough to write a take in response to her.
You make a valid point! I could've made it say "most people don't care" but it didn't really appeal to be dramatic enough for me. lol
Haha true!
I have more respect for gold diggers and sluts than average girls. Average girls are lying scums. At least girls who likes a man for his money is straightforward about her intentions. Average girls on other hand are even worse.
I didn't think there was anything with anyone unless they are lying or pretending they were something that they were not.
Just shut the hell up and get outta my answer.
Average girls send mix messages compared to "gold diggers" they will play the game like they dont care about being wooed or a man having money but then when they get the man or win him over they start complaining about the low maintenance shit they were ok with in the dating phase! Its hilarious to see then some of them have the nerve to be jealous of the women who men spoil them to death. Lol u can't act low maintenace and train a man to be like that WITH U. But then get in a relationship and act high maintenance... its fools gold
@KaramelKisses So actually the difference i'm trying to point out is, you can look for a man who has money on the first date or you can look for a great personality. Everyone has the ability to earn money and some women honestly don't want to live in the city in a big house or even apartment. I'm also saying that women who care more about money are definitely defined as gold diggers and it's not the same as "traditional" or "modern" dating. This was all in response to the original MyTake that I linked.
You all ladies deserve worse.
Whelp, that wasn't very nice. Careful because there is a report button that links straight to the comments you post. I know a lot of happy button pressers.
You’re just a butthurt girl who is intolerant of others opinions. Grow up.
@jamesmark1903 No it's called "you are being irrelevantly disrespectful and incapable of removing your own unnecessary emotional crankiness from a simple topic". Stop calling people names and using Ad hominem attacks to protect your own ego and emotions. I respect opinions that don't put down other people. There is no need for you to be oppressive. What makes you think your behavior isn't childish? If you are trying to be funny, your sense of humor is going to get you reported. Simple facts.
Oh yeah? What you are then? You all ladies have it extremely easy in lives. My jokes are just fine. Your skin isn’t thick enough to tolerate them. You ladies deserve whatever bad happens to you. Men needs to be educated about the real nature of women. You all ladies are just lying scumbags in the end.
I agree but u need more than personality to be qualified relationship material. Personality doesn't hold a relationship together. Compatibility and value system and character does
just LOL @ all this crap about gold-diggers. As if the average guy is pulling in millions and is at risk of being taken for a ride.
secretly, maybe
Wonderfully put, dude!
Thanks, my dude!
Very good points, well made.
Thank you so much!
4 Reasons Why People Need to MYOB:
1. It's safer
2. People won't hurt you
3. No one cares
4. No one cares
I can't stand gold diggers, fully agree with the article. good point
I didn't mean to hate on gold diggers, this was differentiating gold-diggers from traditional daters to basically sum up that nobody cares about anyones dating preferences unless they are dating you. Also, that everyone can make money with hardwork, the hardest thing to find is true love.
nice point you mentioned there
Thank you so much!
you're welcomed
We make our own rules as we go along
I guess it is inevitable. We are human, no one can be perfect or truly limited.
well written, good take
Thank you so much!
No problem!
Excellent insight. I'm impressed.
Thank you!