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a lot of black women are mad because they see it as going against their race. Their black men are choosing the white women, the enemy.
a lot of other people see it as an unclean traitor having a relationship with a dirty negro.
Whatever the reason, it's not a good one. Just let people date who they like. It's that simple.
Just ignore them - some people are just dumb. Well, most. LOL
It's just not about race anymore. People really need to quit with it all the time. Real genuine people don't care who you pair up with, regardless of where they're from or what they look like. It's YOUR choice.
Nicely written man. I'd say it's an even larger problem where people most want couples to look similar be it hair color, age, relative level of attractiveness etc. it seems less appealing to society the more extreme the differences there are between partners
If it was my choice, which it won't be, I wouldn't want my future daughter to marry a black guy because of the social complications and all the bohoo.
If I was black, I wouldn't want my black daughter to marry a white guy, for same reasons.
Simple as that.
By the way, wishing to continue your genetic lineage and having a 'tribe', culture and nationality doesn't mean you wish harm upon others or seek to hurt them. It just means you wish to prefer something over another thing. So, before you cry wolf, think again. I am not ashamed to say that in 99% of cases I am attracted to a girl, it's a white girl. Simply because they look similiar to myself outside of differences between sexes. There are black girls or Asians I consider cute, but just not as many. That's called a preference, which anyone has in a way or another.
Wishing to continue your genetic linage is fine, but beIng against others who wish to date outside their race is a sign of being a tribalist.
I'm all for it, if you find someone attractive isn't that all that matters? Why do people still care what race/colour/religion you are? It's not the 1900's anymore, just accept everyone for who they are!
Actually, if I'm honest, white people are most open to it. It's other races that teach their daughters not to date outside their race, because they want to preserve their ethnicity.
I highly doubt that.
This is wrong Asian women are the most likely to marry outside of their race.
@Canuckto Asian women only do it so they can get green card
You're absolutely right as to the historical and possibly genetic causes of racism and hatred towards interracial dating, but my response is 1) I don't give a rats ass, and 2) they can suck it up and learn to MYOB.
Well done writer.
I think the "preserve the race "is a silly idea because at the end of the day if an interracial couple got together and had a child there is still each race within them , generations continue.
Also sucks to be "Timmy".
I wonder if anyone else has felt this way:
I thought that I should wait until my grandparents die before dating a black girl. Otherwise, I've had no problem with it.
And I wonder what happened in 1995 that caused such a jump in the graph.
I don't support interracial dating, marriage or any of that.
I'm only into my own kind because I desire to perserve my own heritage and have pride in my own people. Period.
That is a tribal instinct. Racial preservation. I don't see the point to it.
Commies don't see a point in preserving anything. Look what Mao did to Chinese heritage
@keenybmr You care so much about political ideologies that you are blissfully blinded by the bigger picture.
You care about the bigger picture so much, you don't care how many people get screwed over by it otherwise known as communism.
Mao wanted to bring farmers up as the most important people. That was his big picture and to do it he instructed people to move into villages and out of their "comfortable city lives". Instructed students to demolish their schools, ancient artifacts, cultural history. Now that generation is known as the lost generation.
Is Interracial dating wrong? no.
If its done to erase heritage it is genocide and you don't see a point? And I am blissfully blinded here
Also who are you to say someone's ethnic group, race or tribe shouldn't be intact? What gives you the right to erase someone's heritage?
If you have a small community of a unique heritage and culture and you flood it with immigrants to destroy their culture.. isn't that horrible? Don't you see how wrong that is?
@keenybmr Heritage is a tiny variable in a huge equation. Think about it. It was wrong for communists to go and wipe away heritage and culture like they did, but why is it so important? Why is there so much value behind it? Because you want a sense of belonging? A sense of pride? Isn't being a human enough of a belonging to you? That's what I'm trying to get at. But of course, I probably won't change your mind.
Neither will I change your mind because you have decided on your own that no one deserves the right to have their own identity. That you alone can decide the fate of the human race. How arrogant.
@keenybmr And what is that fate may I ask you? A world without labels? In this case, identity equals pride. You should be proud enough that you are even human to begin with. I wouldn't call it arrogant, I would call it aware.
@Mytakeowner: You have zero pride in your own people or culture. People like you are heritage killers. I don't respect people like that.
Why should you take pride in an accident of birth? That makes no sense, HCG. It is also presuming that your culture is superior to others.
@zagor: Its my heritage. I don't believe in washing it away. Period.
So dating someone with a different heritage is washing away your own? Explain.
I mean, I can see how you would be more comfortable dating someone from the same culture, but to do otherwise isn't exactly dissing your ancestors...
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy
JESUS: Get up, Peter! Kill and eat!
PETER: No, Lord. Nothing unclean has ever crossed my lips.
JESUS: You don't have the right to call it unclean, when God has said it's clean!
That’s because I have pride in humans in general. You are so scared of losing a sense of belonging that you are willing to do everything in your might to keep it. What you’re doing right now is a tribal instinct. Keep the tribe alive and well. It makes no sense when all culture and heratige will be wiped from earth when the sun explodes.
I stand by what I say. Pride in my own kind. Period.
You do know that most people and heritages come from mixing of peoples and heritages, right?
For instance, the Hispanic community collected heritages from Europe, Native American, and even from the Muslim invaders of Spain.
Your a Christian, which comes from the Jewish heritage. You've abandoned the pagan heritage and adopted the Christian one.
Your ignoring the tradition of assimilating ideas and cultures to make a better one.
Which, as a HUMAN you should do. We are all God's children.
@Vyxzuw: I don't care. Blacks should stay with blacks. Whites should stay with whites and Asians with Asians etc. That's what I believe. Period.
And Jews should stay with Jews? And not spread their heritage to other people?
That's what some Jews though about spreading Christianity to the Gentiles.
Well, guess you need to give up the faith then and go back to your pagan roots.
Or acknowledge that your idea is stupid.
@Vyxzuw: What are you talking about religion for? And the original ancient Hebrews were Asians/Indians not white people. White people are not from Asia but rather Europe.
@Vyxzuw I do not advise to keep arguing with him. There is no point anymore
@Mytakeowner:
"That’s because I have pride in humans in general."
Smh. You the kinda black guy that will be thrill to kiss butt to non black people. You have zero pride and self respect in yourself and your own people.
'What are you talking about religion for?'
Because it's heritage. Jesus wanted us to be one people under God.
'And the original ancient Hebrews were Asians/Indians not white people. White people are not from Asia but rather Europe.'
Regardless, you are not included, and thus it's not your heritage.
@Vyxzuw Jesus worked miracles on behalf of:
1. A Roman general (a centurion)
2. A Samaritan woman he met and asked for some water to drink.
@Vyxzuw: I never said it yes. And acutally I'm a Mestizo Hispanic, so Indian background is in me.
I don’t kiss anyone’s butt. I get that your tribal instinct is to see me as an enemy because I oppose your tribal thinking, but think outside the box once. It would make the world a better place.
I love blacks, whites, Asian etc. But lets keep things separate. Even God in the old testament kept one whole nations of Hebrews separate by giving them tribes to be in.
God likes ethnicity to be separated. Washing away a heritage and identity is evil as hell.
Don't let the media brainwash you.
There is no god in the first place. The “I like everyone but let’s keep everyone separate so they don’t have to be in our tribe and so I won’t lose my sense of pride” thing really isn’t working out for you by the way.
Forget you. You're a fool.
Forget you too bud. Have fun with your “tribal preservation”.
Yo what the fuck. Honestly who gave you the right to decide everyone's future? Do you even know how many unique cultures there are?
People go nuts when you try to kill an endangered animal but its ok to wipe out a human ethnic group? What makes the endangered animal so important but not our rich culture? Your working on a goal that cannot occur.
Human beings have mixed and people have shared their knowledge with each other for centuries but what's happening now is not natural. Its an invading force designed to destroy certain vulnerable populations. It will not succeed and will result in bloodshed. Forced diversity (which ironically destroys diversity) is going to result in war.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Yet He sent out preachers like Paul and Peter to preach and make disciples of people from every part of the world. "It was in Antioch that the apostles were first called 'Christians'."
This doesn't sound like a God who cares about keeping ethnicities intact.
@Dchrls78104: That's for all to become brothers and sisters in Christ. But concerning land and tribes the bible is clear on that God pre determined everyone to have their own spot and scattered everyone aboard and gave them their own language.
*land not spot
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy God scattered the people abroad to destroy the tower of Babel. He wanted people to popular the whole earth, not stay confined to one corner of it under a dictator.
All should be brothers and sisters in Christ. "Adorn yourselves with love. It perfects the bond of unity."
"There should not be divisions among you."
Racism and tribalism are divisive and show ignorance or rejection of Christ's teachings.
@keenybmr I don’t decide everyone’s future. Never said I did.
Calling for the merger of every single ethnic group is pretty much deciding everyone's fate.
@DC: Wrong. Unity is of doctrine and love. God is in favor of people having their own racial identity. The 12 tribes of the Hebrews prove that.
@keenybmr I’m not calling for that. I’m saying that you shouldn’t judge people for dating outside their race. I’m sayin that we are all humans in the end and that heratige is a tribal instinct.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy When the Romsns sacked Jerusalem in 70AD/CE, all of the scrolls which proved which Hebrew descended from who were destroyed. If God cared so much about racial identity for Hebrews or anyone else, those records would have been preserved for us today.
Unity of doctrine and love preclude separate racial identity because "everyone is equal in His eyes" and "God is love".
He does not have a favourite racial identity.
"God is not a man."
"God is a spirit. If you worship Him, you have to worship in spirit and with truth."
@Dchrls78104: I never said God has a favorite racial identity. I said God likes people to have their own racial identity and group. Anyways I'm done with this convo.
'And acutally I'm a Mestizo Hispanic, so Indian background is in me.'
Two things:
1. Wrong Indian for what we are talking about. The Indian you talk about for the Jewish people being Asian/Indian is Indian as in India. Technically it's wrong, but it's not relevant to the discussion.
Point is, you don't share the heritage.
2. Hypocrisy of hypocrisy, you come from mixed blood, but don't want people mixing blood.
'I said God likes people to have their own racial identity and group.'
So, since you are mixed, what does that say about what God thinks about you?
I mean, your heritage is that of merging cultures and peoples.
So now you are denying that heritage and your own racial lineage in the name of preserving heritage and racial purity?
Wow, just wow.
@Dchrls78104 'Jesus worked miracles on behalf of:
1. A Roman general (a centurion)
2. A Samaritan woman he met and asked for some water to drink.'
I'm aware. But there were Jews who complained and thought that God's Salvation was only for the Jewish people.
I was pointing out the hypocrisy of being a Christian and then talking about preserving heritage.
The important part of the culture is what is pleasing to God, not the heritage for it's own sake.
@Vyxzuw Some people persist in their insularity (narrow mindedness) You can only pity them.
Just know that God and Jesus as described in the Bible do not see humans in terms of race and do not endorse parochialism (tribalism) of any sort.
Age-old customs, fear of not knowing the other culture, fear of it not working out.
Personally, I wouldn't mind marrying outside my race
I think people like dislike mix match colors in people. and prefer matching colors such ass black couple, white couple, Asian couple etc. Which is so so so racist.
Why do people think it is strange they are also always gay and lesbian? This is really true. And their phallus and Joni never fit.
Great take, man. I'm black and can't find any women I like. Girls who like me are ugly or have something mentally wrong with them or both. There's something about me that turns hot girls with pretty faces away.
Their just doing what you do when you find someone unattractive.
@BrittBratt2416 Wait what? I don't pretend to be psycho when I don't enjoy someones company
I'm saying does ever occur to you that maybe the hot girls turn away cause they don't find you attractive either?
@BrittBratt2416 Today two hot black chicks looked at me like I was fried chicken. I must be attractive
Or they grossed out you your face looked like fried chicken. Either way..
@BrittBratt2416 you know I'd leave you soaking, heaux
Nah I'm good.. but don't worry you'll find someone.
@BrittBratt2416 k heaux <3
It's not just black and white marriage, it's all interracial relationships. I think people just don't like the thought of the extra work with dating someone from another culture.
Meh... How I feel about this overall
https://youtu.be/pwzL23asWGsThere is only one thing that pisses me off about interracial dating.. why do people always think of white and black?
White - Asian is interracial too... White and Mestizo (brown hispanic) is interracial too. Asian and Mestizo is interracial too.
Overall 90% of the interracial couples that I've seen although I do not really look for them because I don't quite care what others date were white with hispanic (brown).
In other words... we (other interracial couples) exist too... so it's not only white and black. Thank you!
Interesting mytake, my wife was black and I’m white, I went out with her because she liked me and treated me really good and was pretty. Marriage lasted a long time but ended for other reasons. Did get looks at times but nothing to rude
This image pretty much sums it up.
Heritage and culture are tribal instincts used to divide us
Can't see anything wrong with that. Hating a human being because of his race is absolutely wrong, but acknowledging the fact that he/she is biologically different is what smart people do. There's a reason why different sub-species exist among human beings... And there's nothing racist in wanting your children to look and act like you.
There is no sub-species of human. Skin color and small differences in facial features does not classify as a sub species. Your children will look like you, just not your exact skin tone. The picture you’ve provided is an inaccurate portrayal of “race mixing”. Their skin would be a light brown and will have features from both parents, do you not know how basic genetics works? They will also act like you if you treat them the right way. You really don’t think that if a baby is born of a different skin color that they are going to automatically act a certain way do you?
Firstly, your are wrong , different sub-species in human beings do exist. Just because your liberal-humanist anthropologist did not tell you about this in the university doesn't mean it doesn't exist. You only need to compare Caucasoid Nordic man to a Negroid man. Difference is not just about colour. It's about skull shape , nose , lips , legs , bones and even IQ. Harsh climate of Northern Europe requires you to have a sharp mind , Africa does not , everything you need to survive is in arm's reach... And how do you not see correlation between skin colour and the way a person acts. How many super extroverted blondes have you met? And how many introverted, shy blacks? Stop lying to yourselves , everyone knows the truth deep in their hearts. That is why Europe and USA have remained overwhelmingly white after years of race-mixing propaganda. You can't change the natural instincts of a human being. You can't change the fact that I want to marry a person whose genes are not dominant.
The negroid legs and bones are not different than a caucasoid’s legs and bones. Yes, in general black people have a lower IQ than white people, but that does not explain black people with a really high IQ. If black people were a sub-species, wouldn’t all of the IQ levels have to be similar to each other? If you look at sub-species of animals in the animal kingdom, all of the animals in that sub-species had the same features, but a black person’s features differentiate from person to person, especially our IQ. I’ve never taken an IQ test before, but I would say that i, unfortunately, know more than the average person. I’m not a genius, but probably above the average IQ. I’ve always had a curiosity for knowledge. For example, Instead of worrying about the royal wedding or some bullshit I want to learn and attempt to figure out the concept of infinity. Also, I’ve seen TONS of extroverted blondes and TONS of shy black people, myself included. Just because you haven’t seen any doesn’t mean
(cont.) that they don’t exist.
Depends who you know. None of my friends are against interracial dating, and one my black friends has gone out with a white girl, a black girl, and an Asian one.