Why it Seems Like There Are No Single Good Guy's Left. (Spoiler Alert: There Are!) (Page 2)
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I don't get it. I wouldn't say 'flawed personality' but having a negative attitude towards dating will flawlessly not find your dream girl. How about you ask yourself "What do I have to lose?" Asking out women takes balls, which they like on a man, and anyone with your best interest will respect you for it.
I know there are great guys around—I’m besties with all of them and listen to them talk about their crushes and gfs... sad thing? They do not see me as someone they’d ever like to date. But, it is what it is... I suppose I’ll be the best man in someone’s wedding, so at least I’ll experience a wedding of sorts XD
Feels so good to be friend zoned huh?
@sonnysunshine yeeeeeeaaahhhh... but I try not to think of it that way... more like “well, why would they want you? Besides, you have friends now, so yay me!”
Well it’s not like you are taking these guys out to free meals, fixing their cars or picking them up in the middle of the night.
@sonnysunshine well, I do pay for both suppers sometimes for one or make cakes for others... besides, I feel like I shouldn’t enter a friendship expecting something more out of it... while I often catch feelings for them, no matter what, they are my friends... wouldn’t you do those things for a friend?
It depends if they are taking advantage all the while knowing you have feelings. They know they can jerk you around because of it.
The acid test for me is if I can stand seeing them around another guy or not. If I feel too jealous than i will avoid having anything to do with them.
@sonnysunshine fair enough... I think most girls don’t know, tbh...
Makes sense
They know, they have much stronger intuition than the average guy. But they are very good at playing dumb.
Straight men do NOT seek out women just to be “friends with”. We might become friends through happenstance (work, hobbies, social events) but we don’t need women as “just friends” to survive in this world.
@sonnysunshine I don't know... I can’t tell if anyone likes me, personally... maybe no one does and that’s why... anywho...
Hmmm, idk—I’ve seen it more often than not... maybe I’m just not interesting to any guys so they think of me as just a friend right off the bat... 🤷♀️But, I don't know... I have lots of male friends... all of them are interested in other girls, so I know they don’t like me yet value our friendship... 🤷♀️
"All of the women I've asked out were simply not compatible with me." Same bro ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I don't feel attracted to girls I meet very often to begin with, but when I am, they either already have a boyfriend or it just doesn't go anywhere. I have yet to find a girl that I can actually connect with, it doesn't seem like there are many of them out there.
Well and am your opposite. I am not a virgin and I'm not a good guy. Let me be honest and say I have played the virgin card since I lost my virginity to a prostitute and well it is not good. Everytime I get out, I get the presence of the angel telling what to do.
So please stay a virgin.
Ugh,, that guy in the pic looks so cute. If he were a 22 year old virgin guy, I'm soooo asking him out. No need for him to take a risk. I'll approach to him and ask him out,
oh and attractiveness is guaranteed. :*
If you sit down and have a meaningful conversation with the women who claim there are no good men left, you'll figure out that they're speaking a completely different language than you. It sounds the same, and you think you understand what she's saying, but its a carefully crafted facade designed to make her look like a victim when she's actually more of a predator.
Long to short; if you hear a woman say that, she's most likely very manipulative. It's best to steer clear
That guy in the picture is the perfect combination of hot and nerdy. I would so date him.
Be careful he might be rapist & his parents might have raised him so!
You try to present yourself as wonderful but spend most of the post humble-bragging and lamenting your inability to find romance? You truly sound like the typical, "I'm a nice guy." whiner. Perhaps the ladies are reading right through your bullshit facade and see you for the manipulator that you are.
Where are they as i can't find any or more to say I haven't found one in more like 25 years and as a GAGER posted here this is also my situation
"I know there are great guys around—I’m besties with all of them and listen to them talk about their crushes and gfs... sad thing? They do not see me as someone they’d ever like to date. But, it is what it is... I suppose I’ll be the best man in someone’s wedding, so at least I’ll experience a wedding of sorts XD"
This apply to me at this moment
What girls mean is "why are there no attractive guys with personality types i like".
Same as us guys. Such as, if i go to an event and there were few attractive white slim girls, then "yeah i went but there were like no girls"
There are a lot of good guys out there but they don't approach women and keep to themselves but they exist.
They say that if you call yourself nice then you’re not. Being honest and saying that you’re mostly good is better. I’m 100% any form of cheating whilst in a relationship and generally put the women first but fuck I can be a dick sometimes.
I thought the expletives would self star out. Sorry.
Here's how it works ladies:
If you can't get a "good" guy, it's either because you don't know what they look like, or you're incapable of attracting them.
And guys... MGTOW.
I don't know what I personally do wrong but I can't find good guys here where I live. They're probably invisible or scared of me. Otherwise I dunno.
😏😏😏
You want to get a woman, ask her out.
Few care if you are bad, good, rich, poor, blah blah.
As long as you fit her BEING, she will fit yours.
So, cut the whole can't find a girl thing, and go find a girl.
Quality men will not care about their reputation unless they're engaging in active manipulation.
You seem a little too soft in terms of personality and women prefer men who have harder hearts, generally.
Want to know why it seems like there aren't any good guys around? Most of you couldn't handle the truth, and it would be deleted in about 5 minutes here...
Oh yh there are plenty. But they got screwed over so many times by evil girls and there being 0 good girls. All the single good guys choose to avoid all women.
Sometimes it takes loneliness to find ourselves, don't get too worked up or anything about being a virgin or "tarnishing your reputation" rejection is prefectly normal, and if you're attracted to someone, it wouldn't hurt to see where that goes. People who do ridicule you for being a virgin or rejected are probably not ones you want to be friends with.
No that's not true. There are many good guys left. Maybe you have been encountering some bad ones and know you have judged a whole lot based on one experience.