It's OK To Be Ugly

Alfie_Solomons
It's OK To Be Ugly

Most People Are Average/Ugly!

Most people are in fact average or ugly. This doesn't affect girls that much, because they can wear makeup and elevate their looks. Guys are also much less picky and will date a girl who is "uglier" than them, so to speak. For guys, being ugly or average (such as myself) you're basically worthless to all girls. You're gonna struggle to get with anyone. You'll rarely go on dates or have sex or anything like that. You are not allowed to experience that part of life. Does it suck? Yeah. It does. You'll never have who you want. Ever. You won't even come close. It's sad, but don't let it turn to anger and hatred....

Learn To Accept It!

Yeah, it's OK to be ugly. It sucks, and I can see why you would have depression/even suicidal thoughts because of it, as is the case with me. However, I often see guys (and sometimes girls) bend this into blind hatred and bitterness against the opposite gender. Guys can become Incels, in which they constantly complain about girls sleeping around (with 200+ men lol) and cheating and of course, only choosing the best looking guys. To be fair to them, that isn't far off the truth, however, they go about it the wrong way. I just accept it all, and try to live with it. I don't hate girls, they're actually really nice and stuff and it's easy to be friends with girls, but if you ain't hot you're probably gonna die a virgin. But still, blindly hating the opposite gender is wrong. Girls sometimes do this too, but I'm just gonna focus on guys because I am one and I understand them more, but girls are also guilty of this.

Being Alone And A Virgin Is Common

Dying a virgin who is alone is much more common than you think. This doesn't really apply to girls. In my school, every girl has had sex pretty much, whereas only like 1/5 of guys have. See, in the old days guys would like get married and it would be arranged. So like every guy would have sex, plus, guys would sleep with prostitutes a lot. That's how most guys had sex. However, these days it's way different. Girls ain't forced into marriage with guys they don't like. Girls are free to sleep with whoever they want, and date/marry who they choose. And such, they only choose attractive, successful guys - why wouldn't they? So today, many, many guys are single virgins and although it's depressing to say this: They are gonna stay that way. Just know that you aren't alone though. Most guys are in the same boat.

It's Not All That Bad

Sex is overrated. I've heard this from my older brother and some of my friends who have had sex. No, I ain't contradicting myself because my friends are popular and dress with expensive clothes, play sport and I assume they are cute because girls actually talk to them. But anyway, yeah, sex is overrated and there is other stuff in life you can enjoy - all by yourself! Of course, if it matters to you that much, you could go to they gym to get ripped, and you might get with a girl then. But honestly guys, it isn't worth it really. Girls just wanna use guys for sex and stuff. My brother who is in college has told me girls just wanna use guys for sex there and if you think a girl like you, you'll just get hurt because girls don't wanna date anymore they just wanna hookup with lots of cute guys. So if you think getting ripped and stuff is gonna get you to be loved - it won't. The most you'll get is sex, which is overrated and if you're that desperate just go to a place where prostitution is legal and loose your v-card that way.

Thank you guys for reading. This goes for both guys and girls, but it's written for guys because I am one but there is still a lot of info for girls who maybe feel they are ugly and stuff. I am not an incel. I agree with most of what they say but I do not hate girls. They are nice and don't deserve to be hated. I am depressed and sad but not full of bitterness and hatred. Being worthless to the opposite gender because you're not hot and sucks, I am in that boat. But it shouldn't lead to bitterness.

Thanks guys for reading! Everyone have a fun weekend.

It's OK To Be Ugly
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