How to Make Him Cry and Miss You!

[Anonymous]

I miss you!

You're probably dating a caring, loving and sweet guy that always makes time for you. And he's a man of his words when it comes to texting you, calling you and taking you out. He made you smile when you felt lonely and was there for you always. While this may be a good thing, a little spice won't hurt right? Adding spice can make him love you even more! This can be done by making him miss you because men love the chase it makes them walk through eggshells to get you. We women had a life before them and will have a life after them.

Here are 10 ways on how to make him cry and miss you

1. Stop communicating with him

Men hate it if you're always there for them, they want a woman who has a life and an independent one. If you cling to him, you'll come across as desperate. So when you receive a message from him, feel free to just mark it as read. Don't reply or return his calls or else you'll be easy to get. When on social media, unfollow him and seenzone him he'll miss you.

2. Find a scent that'll remind him of you

This involves either putting enough amount of perfume that the fragrance sticks on an area for minutes or a spraying the perfume in his stuff. Do this discreetly when he left something so that when he comes back, he'll smell your fragrance and will begin to miss you that you'll start going to his mind!

3. Leave things behind

When you leave an object behind, he'll think of you again and will wonder how you're doing. Leave a simple object such as an earring or a necklace. That'll do it.

4. Always leave him craving for more

If you want your boyfriend to keep chasing you, you gotta be mysterious and keep him guessing. This will make him hunt for you more and will be addicted to you.

make him miss you

5. Have fun with other people

Remember your friends and/or his friends that made you happy. Don't always rely on it from him. Make sure he's not with his friends so you'll be able to talk to them and if he is, ignore him. He'll start to think that you're having fun without him and will be jealous.

6. Brag on social media

Show your independence and life on others as he will see this and will miss you even more! Have you been working out or was promoted at a job? Announce it on social media. He'll start to overthink of you and will stalk your social media profiles.

7. Give him a challenge

Men should fight for a woman to prove that he really loves him. Flirt with other guys and show him he's not the only one. That way he'll be even more jealous and will make him shake that he'll compete with the guys. Make sure it's an extra 2-3 guys you're flirting with.

8. Tame his ego

Show him you don't need him and you're not a damsel in distress for him to take care of you. This will show that you're not a woman he can take for granted and he will start to tear up a bit.

make him cry!

9. Have a new look

I'd suggest making your hair curly or having a pedicure will do it. Feel free to post it on Instagram or tweet about your new appearance. He'll see this and will miss you 100%!

10. Love yourself!

This is a no brainer. He'll keep chasing you and will start to miss you each day. And even if you call him your man, never stop doing this because if he really loves you, he'll pursue you. When he starts to cry, don't feel bad about him as his tears are proof that he's in love with you!

[Paris13]

Beautifully Done, hun.
I have a Great Guy, Very Sensitive, He always Cries when we have a Problem or even When he is Being Emotional in Writing to me or Expressing something to me. Just his Natural Nature.
My analogy is, It has to be in their Heart from the Start, No Lessons to be Taught. xx

[myTake Owner]

Thank you! I wrote this take for all women.

[crazy8000]

@myTake Owner

You most likely totally misinterpret the opinion owner did say.

[myTake Owner]

@crazy8000 Look who's taking. I did understand what she meant okay.

[myTake Owner]

talking

[jayden888]

This take isn't a positive message. So why would you say "Beautifully Done, hun"? If we are to create a fair world (or move in that direction), we shouldn't encourage such toxic messages.

[Babygirl_S]

Great take! 🙂
Tip 11(biggest tip): Don't sleep with him until he marries you 😌

[myTake Owner]

Yup! Don't commit right away.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Lol don't think it's easy for us to choose a girl who don't sleep with us until we marry them.

[Babygirl_S]

Thanks for the MHO 🙂

[Blightly]

bad sex can break a relationship. why marry if you don't know how it'll work out in full.

[jayden888]

@Blightly Correct. And in many cases, women and men both want sex as well. The way to be mature about this is to take a relationship for what it was (as long as he was kind and loving), and accept that sometimes it doesn't work out. There is no need to "make him cry and miss you".

I can understand women being evil to a guy who tried to hurt them, but not to someone because they were hurt out of circumstances.

[jayden888]

@rehan2000 Talking to me or the MyTake Owner?

[PinkChampagne]

More stupid thing than this haven't seen ever. It's just a play for people with free time who like to make others who care for them suffer... I don't see a point.. why someone who has everything good and everything that someone wants from relationship need to spoil it with these nonsenses... No one ever should believe this mytake or do what's told here

[insatiable_curiosity]

The purpose may be to ruin other relations because this anonymous poster is unhappy with herself and preaches that misery loves company.

[Unit1]

@insatiable_curiosity magnificent genius theory!

[PinkChampagne]

Yeah it might be true

[coachTanthony]

Ladies if you are dating a man who actually falls for this stuff then YOU have the WRONG man!

[Spiritwander]

I was thinking the same thing...
What is this, "How to Train Your Demon"?🤣

[coachTanthony]

@Spiritwander If your partner is this easily manipulated... do you really want them as our partner? That is the question at hand.

[CubsterShura]

I know right? I don't get the point of deliberately making him feel like I'm not interested in him anymore.

[thenewcollegestudent]

Wow this was hard to read. Who would actually listen to this advice?

[coachTanthony]

@thenewcollegestudent Take a deep breath and breathe the advice in like a man!

[Shamalien]

Bingo

[cavmanier]

@CubsterShura Where did you get the idea that acting like you don't care about him would help? I guess people on the internet?

[CubsterShura]

@cavmanier when did I say that acting like I don't care would help?

[cavmanier]

@CubsterShura I thought you were saying that you agree with coach now, but used to deliberately make a guy think you didn't like him in the past.

[CubsterShura]

@cavmanier no?

[cavmanier]

@CubsterShura If you look above, you said "anymore" so I thought you used to. I misinterpreted.

[Creepazoid]

Lol I've never seen a comment with so many likes

[CubsterShura]

@cavmanier I meant in a sense of showing interest at first and then acting uninterested.

[ragequeen]

This is borderline abuse in a relationship

[ragequeen]

I mean mental abuse. If your objective is to make him cry and miss you, you have serious abusive tendencies.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

yeah, only the most masochistic guys would go in for this

[Nikidoll17]

This isn't spicing things up.. Spicing. Things up is like going someplace new with him or teasing him under the table in a restaurant. What you're describing is something that can really scar a person and give them loads of deep unsettled issues. Plus a guys just going to thing this is how every girl will treat him now. That's not what we want, we don't need any more f*d up guys. We want good guys who don't have this shit done to them.
The title itself is just terrible 'how to make a guy cry and miss you'. When I first saw it I thought okay maybe it's after a breakup? But then I read he's a sweet good guy and he cares for you but here's how to make him cry and spice things up!
Firstly let me just say it's good to have your own life and no doubt it's good to have your own friends and go out and stuff but you don't do that to purposely exclude him and make him feel bad. Sure in a healthy relationship the couple sends plenty of time together and still has their individual hobbies and stuff. But cutting off contact? That's messed up. If someone stopped communicating with you, there's an issue you just developed. 2,3, and 4 are good. Smell nice, leave things behind occasionally, leave him wanting more.
However, showing off on social media to get him jealous? Childish. Flirting with 2-3 guys to get him jealous? This is cheating. Hanging out with other people to make him jealous? That's a no. Tame his ego? Firstly in a relationship there shouldn't even be an ego, if there is then it's not the right one for you. Secondly it's okay to depend on your partner now and then it makes them feel actually needed. If you can do it all yourself, just stay single. Have a new look, sure but do it for him, there's no need to publicize it.

Lastly loving yourself is great but making him chase you isn't. Why does he need to keep pursuing you and competing when he's already with you? You only pursue something you don't already have. And you should never compete with other people in a relationship. You just put in a good amount of effort to make things work. And finally, the last line 'when he starts to cry, don't feel bad , his tears are proof he loves you'. You sadistic person. If you need to make someone cry to understand they love you then there's really something wrong with you. And you shouldn't feel about it? I wouldn't go about any of these stupid steps. You can tell if someone loves you from their effort and actions. Making someone cry just so you get a 'confirmation of their love' is messed up. And women, please don't do this shit. It's the reason why there aren't many good guys left.

[Unit1]

Ladies, listen to *her* and not the author!

[nightdrot]

Not sure I understand the logic behind this. Why not just say, "How to make the person you allegedly love miserable so that you can feel good about yourself." About the best you can say about this is that it is mildly sadistic.

You write, "... don't feel bad about him as his tears are proof that he's in love with you!" Translation: "If he is unhappy and hurting because he misses you, enjoy it because it means how special you are."

Seriously?

Is it possible that he shows you how much he loves you when he fixes the broken light fixture in your living room? Is it possible he shows you how much he loves you when he holds you in his arms and kisses you? Is it possible that he shows you how much he loves you when he surprises you with flowers? Is it possible he shows you how much he loves you when he laughs at your silly joke? Is it possible that he shows how much he loves you when he listens to you complain about the boss for the umpteenth time?

The list goes on. Let's be blunt. You don't want a boyfriend, you want a human sacrifice. It's pretty sad. Love is, classically defined, willing the good of the other. You just want him sad and lonely so that you can feel safe and treasured.
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Just for the record, I have cried over my girlfriend. I cried when she put our babies in my arms. I have cried when, back in the day, I thought I had hurt her. When she is out of town and I wake up in the middle of the night and she is not there, in that split second before I realize where she is I get genuinely frightened at the thought that she is not there.

There is not a minute when either of us leaves for work or has to go on travel or whatever that I don't think about her and worry about her. She is the center of my universe and I cannot imagine my life without her and the very thought of it absolutely terrifies me.

She is the same with me. Indeed she told me one time that she can't help it but she never takes a deep breath until she sees me at the door.

THAT is what real love is. What you have outlined is mere manipulation and is the very opposite of real love. People's feelings are not to be played with just to make you feel wanted.

[insatiable_curiosity]

Babygirl_S shared one of the worst pieces of advice one can give.

One of the most foolish things is to avoid sex until marriage. Sexual comparability is an essential part of any committed relationship. When people get married without learning if they’re sexually compatible, stress, depression, anger, resentment, domestic violence, divorce, and sometimes death are the results.

A loving, caring, and committed relationship between partners mutually invested in each other’s interests is more likely to be successful and last.

None of the above selfish manipulations are reasonable or rational. Real women are confident and understand their self-worth such that they don’t need to resort to any of the above immature games to appease their insecurities.

If you want to lose a good man, feel free to resort to such nonsense. He will move on and find a real woman. You will be alone having sabotaged yourself due to fear that you’re not good enough as you are. You will only have yourself to blame.

[llvjbb]

So true. Was trapped in a horrible marriage for years due to this.

[Anonymous]

Some make sense while others are just fucked up to be honest in my opinion. Why would you want to make him go through the pain of seriously missing you to the point where he wants to cry? That's just so toxic in a relationship. If he doesn't miss you that's how he is or it's not the man for you. If you're going to get offended then don't read this:

Stop communicating, leave him craving, brag on social media, give him a challenge, tame his ego are so toxic in my opinion. Stop communicating? What is this? Hard to get in relationship 2.0? Leave him craving? Don't do that on purpose. Sure he should crave you, but not by intentionally leaving him craving. Brag on social media? If you need social media to sooth your ego... sure. Give him a challenge? Come on... hard to get again? Tame his ego? Man... just no. Flirt with other guys? At least 2-3 what the heck?

This is so toxic. If you want him to be there for you more or show it more, then talk to him about it. Share your worries. But this is just a toxic relationship where manipulation is used to make him 'miss you'.

The only ones that are remotely agreeable:
Find something to remind him of you. So he can watch, hold, smell or w. e. it when you're not around. Have fun with other people, you're more than your relationship. And love yourself.

I can't help but get triggered by these posts where women try to manipulate men into doing or feeling something. Only to satisfy that woman's needs. If you need to manipulate him to miss you then there is something fundamentally wrong in your relationship in my opinion.

[MissGeorgia]

If you're playing games or resorting to tactics to get him to want you more or miss you, you're with the wrong person.
If he's into you, he's into you, and you'll know it. If he isn't, nothing will keep him around.

Why would you want to make someone cry? Especially if you care for them.

[crazy8000]

An narcissist since it's fuel for them

[Spiritwander]

Well, tbh, if you acted this way towards me, I'd simply ninja meld into the shadows, and you'd never even know I was gone...

... and here's the beauty of it...

... I'm a hopeless romantic, and couldn't help glance back one last time... ... and when I saw you in the arms of another guy, I wouldn't even wince anymore. I'd say, "good for her. She'll do fine..."

But I wouldn't be the one crying...
I'd be busy freeing up the memory space for the adventure I'm about to embark on, and all of the beautiful potentials it offers, and thinking about all the people I'd soon have the chance to meet.

[purple4ever]

Girl this is bad advice... your telling us to treat him like sh#t and make him feel bad this is mental and emotional abuse and if the guy decides to jump of the roof it just became physical abuse too and now your a murderer. This is the mental game crap h. s. teaches you to grow up from.

[CherryRoseChampange]

Tbh my man wouldn't cry or allow most of this lol. I start ignoring him, and he'll bring it up as soon as he notices.

If I'm acting flaky or not into him. He'll address it. Same for me, I find this post kind of weird too by the way.

Why would you want a man to cry and miss you this desperately? It seems like you're fucking with someone else's emotions and playing games for attention. Which is concerning. Most people would hate if this were done to them.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Ladies, I can confirm that you should do all of this...

… if you want good men to dump your manipulative ass in a hot second, that is.

It's a shame, coz buried in amongst the B. S. that is this post, you actually had a few good pointers in there (eg: have a life outside relationship, love yourself first, don't get overly clingy, etc.). But you took these good points, and then soured them by feeding them into this "How To Break Down Your Man To Control Him For Life" agenda.

Maybe this works on horny 14 year old boys who don't know any better. But real men won't put up with this sociopath-level mind games.

[TenPoundTabby]

You are the reason why some men hate women. You are a sadist. You take someone's pain as validation of love when it is truly validation of injury. People don't stay with those who emotionally wound them, especially if that person wounds them ON PURPOSE. Again, sadistic is your unholy badge, earned like the tokens that a serial killer keeps of victims.

[CarpetDenim]

Haha, yeah, I sure do enjoy emotionally abusing and sadistically manipulating the one person I love most in this world to the point of tears. Stellar advice. Playing bullshit games like this totally isn’t toxic or unhealthy at all.

In all seriousness, this is exactly how you ruin your relationship and how you instill doubt, distrust, and anxiety in your significant other. If this isn’t satire, and if you genuinely engage in any of the behaviors you listed above, you’re a disgusting human being and you don’t deserve to be anywhere near a good guy.

[JohnPrestwick]

This will be one of the kinder responses you will get from male responders. Why would you deliberately want to make a man cry? That just sounds sadistic.

There's nothing wrong with being independent and having a life outside the relationship. To most men, that's attractive and yes, clinginess is a turn-off. But this needs to be about building up positive qualities, not inflicting negative emotion on people.

[Anonymous]

Most of this is just playing games. I agree with having your own life and not being a stage 5 clinger, but that doesn't mean ignore him and leave him on read just to get a reaction out of him. If you want a real, mature relationship, stop playing games.

[YHL6965]

No, stop playing games, you are literally explaining how to make a good guy who really invests himself suffer from being good. What the hell is wrong with you? You get the best you could get and all you think about is to make him suffer? I really hope no good guy falls for a woman like you, they deserve better. You are being emotionally manipulative and you get pleasure from making your victim suffer. And then you wonder where are all the good guys gone, you drove them away.

[The6ix]

I agree 1000000% man, this is why men have to stand up, no wonder chivalry is dead, no wonder men lack confidence. Were trying to cater to these bipolar emotions to make women happy and that's not practical. I don't think any girl would want to study for a test or an exam and a professor puts something on an exam that was not relevant to the course just to see his or her students "suffer" make them 'figure it out'.

[YHL6965]

@The6ix Exactly man, who would want to put effort into something they can't win?

[Blightly]

Agreed
this is the female equivalent to "How to beat the sht outta your girl and make her stay"

i hope no girl actually follows this 10 step program to hell

[YHL6965]

@Blightly https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9RVS8cjNN0

[Anonymous]

Want to know why 99% of this stuff won't work on a man? it's projection...

''Flirt with other guys and show him he's not the only one. ''

[Syrian_survivor]

Here we see an example of an adult woman with a teenager's brain that tells her to play games and manipulate the guy who loves her, very good!

And I guess guys can't make girls cry too right? Disgusting

[Salad982]

This isn't healthy. Where is the commitment, love, respect, and reliability? I'm sorry, but this describes a toxic relationship. I couldn't imagine doing this to my boyfriend, I would be so sick with myself if I made him purposefully cry. I don't want to imagine that...