How to make a guy fall in love with you!

[beautifuljoan]

Are you looking for a guy to date and a make him a boyfriend? Well here are steps to make a guy fall in love with you head over heels and these are foolproof! I got mine when I did all of these and trust me it works.

make a guy fall in love with you

1. Make eye contact

When you look at him, you should smile in a way that makes a guy welcome to approach you. And your stare should be at least 3 seconds for him to notice it.

2. Greet him often

When he passes by, wave your hand or simply say hello. Do this for a couple of times and he'll start to get close to you that he'll be willing to talk to you.

3. Get close to him

sit next to him

Not in a way that seems you're stalking him but in a way that you want to connect. Sit next to your crush or at his back during class hours. That way he'll notice you right away and he might start to think of you.

4. Cheer him up when he's sad

cheer him up

I rarely see other girls do this to their crush. Some think that guys are wired to be emotionally strong but in reality, guys have feelings too, they get tired of bottling their emotions up. When you see him crying, make him happy and be there for him. It's important to show him your support and care because you want him to think that you are girlfriend material.

5. Light touches

hug him

Gentle touches makes him feel loved and he'll never forget the feeling. Hugs or a pat in his back will do.

6. Whisper something in his ear

whisper in his ear

Whether it's your secret or a thing that you don't want others to hear, whisper it in his ear so that he'll remember it and will start to melt his heart, because he knows you can trust him.

7. Friendly teasing

tease him

Put a little humor on your conversation with him so that he'll start interacting with you more because now, he thinks you're a joyful person to be with. For example: When he says his favorite TV show is American Dad, tell him that you used to watch it when you were 12. It's like showing him he's your younger brother. (Make sure not to take your jokes too far though as long as he doesn't get offended you're cool!)

8. Be independent

independent woman

Do not depend on his help always as he might start thinking you're using him. Rather appreciate what he does for you and thank him for it. Also, give him space and maintain your connection with other people. Do not play mind games as some guys might actually think you don't like them anymore and will move on. Rather show your life that doesn't involve him while still making time for him. Meanwhile, he'll have his chance to miss you and come back at you.

9. Be polite

polite woman

It's so sad to hear that only guys should be polite to girls and not the other way around. I don't know maybe it's because chivalry is dead. If only girls show politeness to their crush then I'll believe about gender equality. For example: He's holding a lot of stuff and he'll enter a room, you wouldn't mind opening the door for him right? Do this and he'll appreciate it.

10. Show him love and respect

show him love

The last step of making him fall for you is when you show him you're a girl of virtue and your love for him is unconditional. Accept him for who he is and never forget to value what he does for you. When he takes you out, tell him that you enjoy being with him and you're more than willing to reciprocate what he does.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Love this take. I wouldn't say these will guarantee a man falls in love-- since your personalities still need to align, and sexual compatibility can be a big part of the equation too. But these are all good pointers for creating the right 'environment' for romance-- so any "love feelings" that *could* be manifested, are more likely to actually manifest in that environment. But if a guy just doesn't feel that way, then no amount of following these steps will change his feelings. But for the right guy, he'll absolutely appreciate this stuff, and will make it that much easier for him to follow his feelings.

[white_fang]

Yes. Much better than the how to make a man cry for wanting you mytake

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

ha! my thoughts exactly, I had to wash my brain out with detergent after that mean spirited diatribe. This take is like the polar opposite

[Lady_Frost]

All these tips are marvelous for finding a boyfriend :) I highly recommend the ladies to follow these.
Just keep in mind, that this will not make him fall in love with you but for the most part open the possibility of it happening. He'll be sure, that you'll be the right woman. There's always not being his type or him not looking for a relationship.

10/10!

[Jayyblue]

Yeah, will go with this

[Lady_Frost]

Thank you for the most helpful opinion :)

[just_legit1998]

Don't mention it! :)

[just_legit1998]

Hahaha just kidding, my friend wrote this!

[beautifuljoan]

@just_legit1998 Man shut up, you're not the Mytake owner LOL.

[beautifuljoan]

You're welcome!

[Koreantransgender]

Give him a comfort

[coachTanthony]

Don't forget this little nugget!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqo6JwHrP7E

[Piscesgirl96]

For real does it actually work? Hahha you know what I saw this very movie with the guy I have a crush on...

[coachTanthony]

@Piscesgirl96 I think it could for sure!

[Piscesgirl96]

Well to be spot on shouldn't I call first? Haha to do the entire scene cause how can that happen if he doesn't call me.. actually i slept with him already and it's unreversable.. There's no way

[VIVANT]

#SPOLIERALERT

This clip is from a movie where, though she did hook him in and he was all in,

by the end she realizes they see a HORRIBLE match bc she’s not submissive. And she had to be who she was not in order to keep him. She dumps him.

[coachTanthony]

@EmmaEat @gag

[JSmuve]

These are all really good and will go a long way with a lot of guys. I'd also add some of my own that'll perhaps a lot of women overlook.

Discretion, trustworthiness, and being a confidante: can he confide in you and trust that you won't go blabbing about it to your girlfriends because you all share everything?

Give him his space: a lot of guys like their own down-time and if you give that to him without resentment instead of smothering him with neediness, then he'll be appreciative and give you his undivided attention when you're together.

Be reliable: if you say you're going to do something or be somewhere at a certain time, follow through with it. It'll show him that he's important enough to you and you value his time.

Submissiveness, femininity, and making him feel masculine: a lot of guys love submissive, feminine women and in the age where it seems masculinity is under attack, allowing a guy to feel like a man is often very welcome. If you can encourage it and show him how much you appreciate it then that's all the better.

Make him feel wanted and validated: no one wants to feel bad for being who they are, and some guys, if they've had some bad experiences, will be so far into their shells you'll need a pool hook to drag them out of it. This overlaps with your 10th point, but it also extends into all areas, such as his wants, his sexuality, and his identity as a man.

[VIVANT]

Why do you think not smothering someone is often considered advice. No one likes to be smothered, it seems like common sense.

[JSmuve]

@VIVANT My experience is common sense seldom is common.

[VIVANT]

Do you think you need to be told not to smother people?

Is that something that would not have occurred to you without being told?

I’m asking bc I’m genuinely curious. I am not attacking you.

[VIVANT]

( she did mention it as well. I’m not sure if you didn’t see that or it’s just a point you like to reiterate)

[JSmuve]

@VIVANT It sure seemed like you were lobbing grenades, but anyways. Everyone has their own limits to how much space is too little or too much. Some people want to spend all their waking time with the person they're interested in. For others, this is far too much time and they feel drained trying to do so.

I've seen a lot of questions here over the years where girls would ask why a guy would be really distant and then come back more attentive, and the answer would be mental space. These girls would be unintentionally smothering the guys mentally/emotionally and not giving them the space they needed to decompress and go do their own thing. This caused them to become distant as they tried to get that space they needed to deal with whatever stressors were in their lives and to shut off their minds. Afterwards, they could come back ready to be with their partner because they weren't worrying about anything else or they had new, cool stuff to share with them.

So yes, I think people do need to be told not to smother someone because people often do it unintentionally. One person's smothering is another person's normal amount of attention. So it's important to know how much space a guy needs so he doesn't feel overwhelmed and becomes distant trying to get it.

[VIVANT]

No I asked why do you think*

As in what Is hoot opinion on why this happens

It was not meant as rhetorical, though I realized it could come across that way. That is why I clarified 😊

[VIVANT]

I still think since bc as you say r retune has different ideas of what it means to want sieve, there is no way to give someone discerning without knowing their actual personal need

Those people inadvertently smothering , would not know they were doing that. So to say don’t smother, Does not give any concrete info as to what that will mean to any person.

Those men or women who also will disappear when feeling “ smothered” should discuss their need for space instead of behaving immaturely and expecting everyone to read their mind.

I think “ understanding the fact we all have different needs” is important. And not freaking out when you are told about a specific need. Bit to automatically know is unreasonable.

So I maintain no one sets out to “ smother” anyone. And as this means different things to different people, we should speak up

I think this is very different from say being kind, where it is more obvious if you are being mean as speed to understanding

Though exempt there, some people find this unsettling

[VIVANT]

But I liked the other things you said 😊

[highjinx]

@VIVANT If only more woman thought like you.

[VIVANT]

@highjinx

Wow so sorry for all the typos- I was most likely in the go

Cheers 🥂☺️🌟

[highjinx]

@VIVANT I can fill in the blanks_____

[Anonymous]

This is actually pretty good. But I will give a warning about #8, being independent. Most women take this too far these days. It's true that guys don't like clingy or needy girls, but at the same time guys like to feel needed and they show their love through doing things for the woman they love. If you try too hard to be independent he will not feel needed and won't have opportunities to show he cares.

I will also add that women and men are very different when it comes to sex. In general, women fall in love with a guy and then want to have sex with him. Men, on the other hand, are sexually attracted to a woman first and want to have sex with her, and then fall in love with her partly because of that intimacy and sexual connection. I have fallen for 3 girls and in every case the sax was a huge factor fr me. I'm not saying that you should have sex with a guy right away. Not at all, but he's probably not going to truly fall for you until you show your love through sex.

Every guy is different, but that's just how most of us men work.

[FatherJack]

Overall , this is good advice , but No 4 is very rare , a male showing his emotions to a woman will often be taken as weakness , and she will be repulsed , and / or use this as ammunition against him. Also the seeds of misandry are very subtly implanted into the minds of girls in Western countries , this is all by design , my own daughter has commented on this several times , via the education systems and the lamestream " media " , which results in a lot of young women indoctrinated into believing they are superior to males , hence many never show 9 & 10 towards men , just contempt. This toxic social engineering is all by design !!

[Browneye57]

Absolutely irrelevant.
Guys need three things:
1. Sex
2. Food
3. all that love and attention and respect you spoke of.

But all that is third place. If you want a guy to fall in love with you then cook him a nice mean, tell him he means the world to you, and then fuck his brains out.
I guarantee this will work ten times better than your list of touch--feely girl-stuff. Guys are not girls honey - never forget that. They are simply not the same, regardless of what the FI has been telling you all these years.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I don't see your list and this mytake as mutually exclusive. You're both right on the money. And frankly, in this feminist environment where many women are told not to give a fuck about men's needs or desires, I think we have to give fair dues to takes like this that actually promote consideration of what men like in a woman. Yes not all men are the same, so any "how to win his heart" list should be taken with grain of salt. But it's a tenfold improvement over much of what passes as "dating advice" peddled to women who really believe the way to win over a man is to manipulate him and make him submissive.

[Browneye57]

@SomeGuyCalledTom - Most women think all they need is their golden-vagina. That they can capture a man by having sex with him. And for many that works, but for many it doesn't. A high-value guy will expect a lot more.
What I see is that women, young and old, look at themselves as the key to allure - it's a self-focus. The truth is that women that will give a man what he needs, his basic needs, just needs to add love for a successful relationship. About half or so either don't believe it, can't be bothered, or simply refuse. Their world revolves around themselves. This take is mostly just about personality, and you really can't change that - and that's why you date. My response is that is all fine and good, but misses the basics - what will you DO for your MAN? What do you bring to a relationship that would be considered HIGH VALUE?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

@Browneye57 I agree with your broader points about how self-focus can be limiting; "golden vagina syndrome" etc. But I see this post as more about behaviour and habit, which is flexible and malleable. Rather than personality, which is semi-fixed in a sense. It does miss out some of "the basics" as you put it, but I don't see why these pointers can't co-exist along with the "basics". Just think, would a woman really be *more* attractive to you if she did the *opposite* of all these pointers? Of course none of this stuff is a panacea or a "golden ticket" to a man's heart. But it's better than women who think being rude, arrogant, selfish, and entitled is the key to "making men cry for them", as a recent GaG post suggested.

[Browneye57]

@SomeGuyCalledTom - Absolutely agree.

[godfatherfan]

Sorry but you can't "make a guy fall in love with you". You can certainly make him fall in lust with you. You can certainly get him to notice you and do things to get him to go out with you. But the only way you can forceably get him to "love" you is to trick and scam your way into it by doing things that falsely make him think your a different person. I dated someone like that once. Her exhusband what physically abusive. So she basically makes herself seem like the perfect match by pretending to like all the same things, etc... she wants to try and get men to fall in love with her, just so she can break it off and hurt a man. But I was able to figure it out long before that happend as she was just sloppy.
The fact is either someone is going to fall in love with you for you or they are not. Anything else is just a lie. And why would you want to trick someone into loving you? that isn't real love or a real relationship.

[Kiran427742]

Being yourself is a great way to be different. It may seem like guys all like the same type of girl, but that isn’t true. If you allow yourself to be different and swim upstream rather than go with the societal flow, worthy guys will notice. And, they’ll fall in love with all of your unique differences.

[Kaazsz]

Not true. I got two girls who do these to me. One I can’t stand and her breath smells like dog shit. The other one is hot.

You gotta have some other qualities that are good.

But, that said, the girl I do enjoy it from, I wasn’t interested in her at first. I had a crush on another girl. And the girl who was doing these things got me to like her. So it works. Just brush ya damn teeth haha.

[mrsingle]

Actually the most attractive thing a girl could do to me is approach me with a compliment or slight touch, that way I know for sure she really likes me and I’ll feel more enticed to get to know her better.

[beautifuljoan]

I actually made the first move on my boyfriend, it worked. After all guys liked to be pursued too. It's just that the gender roles crap is making it unfair for the males.

[mrsingle]

@beautifuljoan Yes exactly, I wish more women thought like you!

[Daniel3035]

This is actually the most accurate way to tell a guy I like you number 2 is extremely important if you don't do it we will never know and think your just a flaker ghoster etc. Number 8 as well independent away from him and in a relationship but when near be dependent.

[Dem777]

That are golden rules that work mostly, but not always, if your “scanner” can tell you that this or that guy likes you than he will move towards you, otherwise every whisper in his ear will be a scary experience for that guy 😂 The main idea presented here is “how to get a guy that you like”, not the one that is left over after most beautiful chicks has taken away their cream 😂 So, check the mirror with independent eyes and classify sort of guys that are in your range of reach. Nobody wants ugly looking ones, or too poor, or retarded, girls want the best, but are they themselves so good as they may think about themselves? If a guy is of higher level than you are, you got almost no chances whatever rules you follow! And the same is for guys! Don’t dream too much, life is cruel and you get only what level you are! _”single’ forever opinion”

[DeshawnMGTOW]

all of this is useless unless he's already attracted to you and if he's already attracted to you.. you already winning all you have to do is not fuck it up

[BattleKitten77]

How stupid. You cannot make anyone do anything. Stupid fucking advice like this is an embarassment to intelligent women. How many fools eat shit like this up from cosmo and other women magazine feed women this when according to women they need career advice. Oh and how not to cry at work is not career advice it is the reason you dont deserve a promotion

[smølf]

I like this mytake, it won't make him fall in love with you since personality and physical attentiveness also matters at great deal, but following these guidelines is the best outset for forming any romantic relationship.

[Anonymous]

This could be summed up much quicker.

As a male... if you want a guy to fall in love with you.
1. Don’t put out quickly. He will be forced to get to know you as he tries to figure out how to get pussy.

2. (Helpful but not required for all) Don’t have a slutty past. No one wants an over used worn out pile of human shit.

[Syrian_survivor]

I thought this was another feminist Take on how to manipulate a man to loving you and being your emotional slave.

I'm glad I was wrong, very good take! ❤

[guilyang]

I hate it when women are strategic with their gazes, glances, and eyes. Like a dozen monkeys with tazers are going to pop out of a broomclosef or something completely bogus weeaboo insane. Actual women don't do them after 12 unless theyre snaring a child for pedophilia sex. Die.

[AuroraRoseat]

Not necessarily. You can do all of these things and nothing happens. That's just advice on how to be an attentive significant other. You can't make someone fall for you.

[Creepazoid]

I usually try to find a way to mock shit like this but honestly yes, this is all great and simple advice that women especially the younger inexperienced ones should follow

[ZambieChips433]

This isn't guaranteed to work but definitely do this because it'll set an amazing ground for you two to get to know each other. Guys need to be loved to and you're gonna have to show him some love in order for him to show you love