List of dealbreakers in a #relationship according to me
- Has anger issues or is verbally/physically/emotionally abusive
- Previous infidelity
- Is frivolous
Divorcee/has children (especially out of wedlock)
Seems untrustworthy
Follows lots of females on social media
Is obsessed with social media
Speaks about women a lot
Has a high body count (preference is virgin)
Has had flings, one night stands of FWB’s
Has had more than two girlfriends
Goes clubbing (or used to)
Is an Andrew Tate fanboy
Is a smoker/drinker (need a teetotaller)
Goes to shisha lounges (or has past of frequenting lounges)
Entertains pretty much anyone (my type is the type who isn’t for everyone)
Has a physical type that is opposite to me (for instance if his type is blondes since I am a brunette)
Bisexual men
Poor hygiene or doesn’t smell good
A man who is too modern and not old fashioned (need a traditional man)
Doesn’t go above and beyond to impress and pursue
Doesn’t express emotions well
Doesn’t understand emotions
Looks at other women apart from me
Is lazy
Is unappreciative and disrespectful
Lack of physical chemistry
Financial irresponsibility
Big clashes over personal principles
Born after 31 Dec 1992 (needs to be older than me - no upper age limit)
Lacks integrity
Lacks courage of conviction
Must be taller than me but not taller than 6’2
Is not sensitive, intuitive, caring,- understanding and a good listener - all very important qualities
Lacks a sense of humour
Doesn’t shut down any other girl who tries to flirt with him with immediate effect
Is not chivalrous
Doesn’t appreciate and respect all I do for him
Can’t handle my sarcasm and mood swings
Doesn’t know how to give compliments properly and forgets to give them regularly
Is insecure
If he can see past me he is not the one, she should not be able to see past me. When he walks into a crowded room full of people his eyes should only search for me. 🤍
Feel free to comment on my #dealbreakers and share your own
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