No need to make fun. It may not be revolutionary but that doesn't mean it houldnt be addressed. That's like saying we Gould talk about feed the hungry because it's not "a brand new idea". It's good idea and sometimes we new a reminder
you preffer a busted marriage a lousy divorce settlement (if any at all..) and sometimes even a busted face?
HELL NO !!!
You just need to find a nice guy, whom you have lots in common with.. A little less focused on the facial features...
And yes.. there's either room for a little romance, or the marriage will fail after a decade tops.. then you can sit on the bench turning skeleton cuz you don't believe it actually exists..
Just don't sleep with guys in general.. If you have needs... well.. umm.. I don't know about that... In any case.. make sure he's a nice guy.. not some a-hole in a good guy suit.. Also.. instead of going on a date.. simply ask to have a cup of coffee.. or a bite to eat... If it's not proposed as a 'date' there's no expectations..
or better yet, if you have a impressive lookin father.. take him home first.. Ur dad might know how to pick the good ones from the bad ones.. In any case.. make them wait.. LOOONNNGGG time... Also... if he picks happy time with his pals over his supposedly love of a lifetime.. drop him with the garbage.. Yes.. I hate sterotypical males.. and if I had a daugter.. I'd prolly be behind bars by now... unless she'd pick them real smart... SO... Be as picky as you wanna be.. lowering your standard is like lowering the quality...
People break up for a lot of reasons.. some of those are good reasons.. But if a guy would stand smirking in my face having had his way with my girl.. well.. like I said.. I'd be behind bars..
In that case I always hope that the wrong guys always end up effin the wrong mob-boss daughters and such... HEH... there CAN be some symmetry in life...
I mean, I have a dark sociopathic side but that's no reason to assume we can't have a healthy relationship as long as I find outlets for my natural aggression and vitriol.
The title had me thinking this was another "date the crazy guys, the bad boys, and then when you want to settle down, date decent guys" type deal, lol.
Personally I believe there is no perfect Mr/Mrs Right or Wrong. you just need to get to know the person. you need to build a common ground where you can both walk on and then from there on you can go far as possible. the hardest part is finding the common ground where you can both talk and start a conversation. BUT despite all that you should definitely date MR/MRs wrong otherwise you won't find out who is Mr/Mrs Right for you.
I am not selective. As long as there isn't a big age gap, he is working/studying, not a religious fanatic or cultural differences that will stand in our way, and has a good heart he can be mine :)
I refuse to waist my time with the wrong person. If God is telling me that he is the right person then I would be with the guy if not then the guy can forget it.
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I like the way you said it. Makes sense, and it does feel true!
You're great <3.
Nice article, I think that all that topic about looking for Mr/Miss Right, evade the Mr/Miss Wrong is part of growing up.
Part of growing up consists also in overcoming and accepting the idea that no one is perfect, including oneself.
Basically, don't let your unrealistic expectations blind you to the wonderful world of real people. Revolutionary.
No need to make fun. It may not be revolutionary but that doesn't mean it houldnt be addressed. That's like saying we Gould talk about feed the hungry because it's not "a brand new idea". It's good idea and sometimes we new a reminder
omg...
you preffer a busted marriage a lousy divorce settlement (if any at all..) and sometimes even a busted face?
HELL NO !!!
You just need to find a nice guy, whom you have lots in common with..
A little less focused on the facial features...
And yes.. there's either room for a little romance, or the marriage will fail after a decade tops.. then you can sit on the bench turning skeleton cuz you don't believe it actually exists..
Just don't sleep with guys in general..
If you have needs... well.. umm.. I don't know about that...
In any case.. make sure he's a nice guy.. not some a-hole in a good guy suit..
Also.. instead of going on a date.. simply ask to have a cup of coffee.. or a bite to eat...
If it's not proposed as a 'date' there's no expectations..
or better yet, if you have a impressive lookin father.. take him home first..
Ur dad might know how to pick the good ones from the bad ones..
In any case.. make them wait.. LOOONNNGGG time...
Also... if he picks happy time with his pals over his supposedly love of a lifetime.. drop him with the garbage..
Yes.. I hate sterotypical males.. and if I had a daugter.. I'd prolly be behind bars by now... unless she'd pick them real smart...
SO...
Be as picky as you wanna be.. lowering your standard is like lowering the quality...
People break up for a lot of reasons.. some of those are good reasons..
But if a guy would stand smirking in my face having had his way with my girl..
well.. like I said.. I'd be behind bars..
In that case I always hope that the wrong guys always end up effin the wrong mob-boss daughters and such...
HEH... there CAN be some symmetry in life...
Oh! I like your coffee instead of a date idea!! That sounds a lot better than having to commit to something or paying a lot :p
You've seriously rejected guys for not playing soccer?
You're right - it's a good learning experience. And yet, it's easier said than done! Haha. Good article OP.
I dont see guys who are different from me as mr. Wrong. Mr. Wrong js more of douche or someone with unpleasant personality
I mean, I have a dark sociopathic side but that's no reason to assume we can't have a healthy relationship as long as I find outlets for my natural aggression and vitriol.
The title had me thinking this was another "date the crazy guys, the bad boys, and then when you want to settle down, date decent guys" type deal, lol.
Personally I believe there is no perfect Mr/Mrs Right or Wrong. you just need to get to know the person. you need to build a common ground where you can both walk on and then from there on you can go far as possible. the hardest part is finding the common ground where you can both talk and start a conversation.
BUT despite all that you should definitely date MR/MRs wrong otherwise you won't find out who is Mr/Mrs Right for you.
I am not selective. As long as there isn't a big age gap, he is working/studying, not a religious fanatic or cultural differences that will stand in our way, and has a good heart he can be mine :)
I refuse to waist my time with the wrong person. If God is telling me that he is the right person then I would be with the guy if not then the guy can forget it.
You are so young you should refuse to waste your time with any guy at all, even if God says otherwise...
I'm not that young I'm 15. I will listen to God no matter what even if what he tells me sounds crazy.
Ohh really? When's the last time God spoke to you about a guy?
15 is extremely young by the way. Lol.
Bye I'm not talking to you.
This is very simple and straight to the point i love it!
People are so picky! great Take!
Agree, the worst he/she could say is no. , but maybe she/he could say yes.
everyones standards are messed up because of the freaking media. people are lonlier and unhappy as ever!
I agree, people should be more realistic. Not saying you shouldn't be picky with some things but superficial things people should be less picky about.
i dont even know what kind of women i like, never given it any thought. i like being alone mostly because it's simpler
I had a very different idea of what "Mr. Wrong" might be when I started reading. This is a no-brainer.
Yeah most chicks in their teens and early twenties love jerks
Why did I get thumbs down from most women. It is the truth what I said lol
You SHOULD date Mr. Wong. He makes good noodles. The Chinese are winning anyway.
lel :)
I'm winning since I am chinese.