Why am I still single? It's not what I am asking but it's what people ask me.

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Why am I still single?  Its not what I am asking but its what people ask me


Actually I am cool guy..Some think I am introvert some think I talk a lot..Actually I don't open with everyone, it's not that I take time to open or anything..but its just that I have different comfort level with everyone so 'Everybody' has seen different different sides of me..and believe me all of them are 'real'..And 'Everybody' I know likes me...Now talking about girls...Its not that I can't approach a girl or talk to her....Many of my friends come to me for advice about 'girls' and 'relationship'..and it works everytime..(I know irony right?) My friends say I am very romantic person and 'my girlfriend' will be very happy staying with me. I am not kind of guy who keeps crying because of being forever alone nor I am desperate..I try to stay happy with what I have...But It isn't like I don't want a girl in my life..I really want someone I can call my partner...someone who will love me as much I would love them..Some say I don't have a girlfriend because I don't make effort..maybe its true..but I don't feel like running after girls, I want things to happen naturally...I do flirt with girls when I get chance but I don't approach every girl I find beautiful and ask her out..No I am not choosie...but I can't be with a beautiful girl whose nature I don't like....Or a really nice girl who is not attractive to me (she can be a good friend for sure)..but I can't be with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship. Now when people ask me Why I am still single? I don't have an exact answer, I say I haven't found someone yet, or because I want to (which is exactly not true)...I am not sure why I am sharing it but I just felt like telling someone...now you are free comment or express your thoughts..


P.S. I forgot to tell you I was in a relationship once long time ago but it didn't last long.

Why am I still single? It's not what I am asking but it's what people ask me.
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