I'm just recently getting back into the whole dating scene. I had been in a long term relationship that I ended because I wasn't happy.
I have a lot going for me. I'm 5'8, skinny, blonde hair, athletic (I get told I look like a barbie doll all the time), I love to joke around. I'm very down to earth and loyal in a relationship. I am set in my career. I am a Realtor and work at a financial advising company where I'm working on becoming licensed in securities. I come from a great family and I don't have any children of my own. I have my own apartment and am looking to buy my own condo soon. I love to go out and have fun with friends, take my dog for a walk and I am usually up for doing whatever. I'm pretty easy going.
That is me in a nutshell.
I have all of this going for me and I have 5 or 6 guys currently texting/calling wanting to take me on dates but it always seems like the one I want has to be complicated. Is there something wrong with me that I can't get the one I want? The guy currently in question said I could have any guy that I want etc. so he knows this.
It is so frustrating. I am also 25 years old and so is the guy. What does it mean from a guys perspective when he said that I can have anyone that I want? He said he would love to have a chance with me so I give him one then I find out he has other girls talking to him too.
What do I do?
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I am not really sure why you are so infatuated with this one guy. Give other guys a chance. You can date around, maybe he isn't as great as you think. Or maybe one of these other guys has something going for them you don't know about. I heard some good advice recently, date someone you are compatible with and not someone you want to be. This was my most recent mistake, the girl had everything I wanted for myself but we didn't fit. Don't give away your emotions, let guys earn it by finding that 'fit' with them.
My main point here is that if you haven't been dating this guy and getting to know him on a behind the scenes personal level, the only thing this can be is an infatuation. Don't worry so much about this one guy, if he comes around, great. But take advantage of what you do have available to you and be legitimately open to learning about them.1