Does this seem weird to be happening now? What do you think?
I opened up new OkCupid profile and I'm getting messages from women and a lot of profile views?
What Girls Said 4
Just embrace it.0
What Guys Said 2
That's very strange. Women generally don't message first on dating websites. I suppose the explanation could be that your details are on point (high income, over 6'0'', masculine features, expensive taste) and/or your profile is being promoted on the front page (as determined by an algorithm that factors in details).0
did you open a free account only? because if you only did a free one , those messages are only a ploy to get you to upgrade your account to a paying one. what happens is , you can't email or contact anyone with your free account , you have to have a paying account to send emails and messages. so what does the site do? they send emails from "people" that are actually fake accounts and then when you go to read their emails it will either send you to the upgrade page or it will say you have to upgrade to read their emails. its all a ploy to get money from you.0
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