Dating with a Swedish guy?
i have a crush on a Swedish guy in university.he likes me also but he `s too reserved and waits for me to make a first move , since we don`t have a lot of courses together i decided to add him in fb , which he didn`t accept!!! but when i saw him he smiled at me and he was kinda suggesting or waiting for me to come to him , i didn`t because i was confused why he didn`t accept my friend request (i know he was active mean while in fb), i`m also kinda shy , i don`t know what to do
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I'm Swedish, so I have some experience with Swedish guys.
Yes, we are more reserved than most people, but that's only until we get to know people better. There are a few possible reasons why he didn't accept your request: 1) he only adds people he "knows", 2) he has a girlfriend, 3) he is keeping you on your toes, 4) he hasn't gotten around to it yet
If it's number 1, then try to become friends with him, find common interests, show him you're cool to hang around and he will start opening up to you. If it's 2, then you're out of luck. If 3, then he's just a player who will be no good for you. If 4, then he's not big on social media, more of a "in person" type of guy, or he doesn't know the dos and don'ts of the internet.
For now, try not to think about that he rejected your friend request. It might not mean anything.0