Cause I'm not. He never told me about this he just said he had a room mate and it was not a problem when we were dating. Now I found out once we were officially together. He said they are really good friends and established he won't get rid of her. I'm debating whether or not to leave. I've met her and she is really nice but I feel insecure around her and they are close. They have a kid together and it just feels like I'm "invading" their family. I tried to talk to him but he just tells me not to even worry about it he doesn't want to be away from his son. His family disapproves of me as well. And I can sense he still loves her but I also want to give us a shot. I've been crushing on him for a year now (we work together) and I finally got to be with him. I knew he had someone then but I never knrw him on a personal base.
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I think that I would be most disappointed that he lied about it. A lie by omission
but... I think you need to try and be understanding, IF you like him a lot you should really and try to overcome the insecurity you feel. I can understand why you feel this way but if you like him, trust him, and see a future with him, I wouldn't toss that away simply because he lives with his ex.0