I'm sure everyone's heard of the crazy guy proposing on date 1. But I am noticing potential dates discussing things with me that I would not consider for 6 months to a year at least... even 2 years.
I feel like women are looking for certain things in a date that are much too soon to be talking about? I had a woman talking about wanting to find a partner to move in with and split the bills with and such when we never even met. I also got a huge ex-boyfriend rant in my ear.
I notice this also with others' dating lives where couples are moving in within 6months of dating. It just sounds like a recipe for disaster. Is just getting to know each other and such to see where it goes after not interesting?
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i think the examples you mentioned are out of the ordinary and strange...obviously those are not acceptable
but i do think depending on the connection between 2 ppl, the better the chemistry and timing, people can fall in love quick and have a happy marriage, I've seen it happen. i think the longer it takes to decide if u wanna propose to that person...the more doubt you have in them, and u might as well break it off now than later. i think when we date someone, in the back of our minds we subconsciously consider them a potential for a marriage partner if it progresses...so its fine to see everything going smoothly and working out fine. sometimes couples get along so well and can't get enough of each other, and thats when u know its true love. the words clingy or space dont come into place, because when u got chemistry with someone and just get each other, your sentences complete theirs...its just meant to be. i know it sounds cheesy but im just sharing my honest opinion. i dont get couples who have been together for 6 years and are still not married yet. like it makes me think what doubts they have or what next best thing are they waiting for to come along? if i like a guy, i wanna be with him, its that simple. plus, after age 25 there's not much time to kill, things get serious, and people want a serious candidate for a life partner.0