My boyfriend said i am the complete opposite of his type. i am half hispanic, short, tan, almost no chest, curvy hips/thighs, very little. he says his type is white blue eyed girls with huge boobs... why would he tell me this? it has made me so upset. i have NEVER in my life been insecure about my looks, this is the first time I have ever felt inadequate... i feel like if a "hotter" girl came along he would just leave me for her. i told him it upsets me when he ALWAYS talks about how hot big boobs are and points them out on celebrities since i have small boobs, but he was just like "babe i am not dating you for your boobs, i love you" and then switched topics. i feel like he could have at least lied a little and said "no your boobs are perfect i love you" anything to make my feel better. he basically just acknowledged that yeah mine are not good enough for him but he likes me regardless, i feel like this is something you keep to yourself so you dont hurt your partner. he has a bit of a gut, i know he is self conscious, but i always tell him abs are overrated and i dont think he needs to lose weight or that he is fat, that i think he is hot the way he is because i dont want to hurt him. i wish he would do the same for me.
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Of course! I think that the mentality of having a type is a joke! You know why? I know WAY too many people who went a married someone who was "not there type"!
Clearly he loves you for you, even if you don't fit his type. Isn't that what love is really about? Loving someone despite their flaws and imperfections?1