What do you think it means when your significant other of 2 years disappears for the night and you call and call and call and he only responds in text messages? No matter what I said or did he would not pick up the phone we were in a fight but still after hours don't you think its kinda shady? I mean obviously someone was in the room who he didn't want to know he was talking to me. Has this ever happened to anyone else? Oh, it gets worse! Yesterday, he tells me he is coming over in the am and then doesn't show and so I call him and he says he is still coming. Then I call him to tell him I'm going to get some breakfast and no answer. No response thru text either. Nothing for hours and after hours of me calling repeatedly. I mean one after another. He still doesn't answer. Finally I get a text message saying" obviously I'm doing something .Stop tripping!" yeah! Then after an hour I get another text saying he is in the emergency room for his tooth ache. All the while not answering my phone calls. I tell him just answer the phone and he keeps sending texts. I had to break up with him in a text because he wouldn't answer. He has priors and promised he wouldn't do this to me again. Oh and then he gets mad at me for not trusting him. Would you trust someone who did this , after they have been busted before chilling with some girl.?Am I in the wrong?
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You are ablsolutely in the right about everything except questioning yourself about it. Sounds like it's way past time for you to move on. Get him completely out of your life, and find a man who respects you, and makes you the same priority in your life that you make him. Nuff said.0