So i recently met this guy on a dating website. Its been 2 days since we started texting and he already wants to meet. Should I meet him? He's actually visiting my city from another state so that's why? But I am not comfortable meeting so soon since i dont know anything about him. My friend says its now or never. And when i asked him when will be the next time he will be visiting he said he doesn't know either..He is a nice guy but I dont really know anything about him. He's goodlooking and all too and i am fat so I have a feeling he will reject me. I am feeling a bit down thinking that i have to meet him i dont really want to be rejected. can someone help me with some sort of opinion of what i should do?
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first ask yourself this; if he doesn't live in your state or visit your city often what would be the likeliness that you would end up dating him after this date?
also just seeing a picture and texting a person doesn't give you enough basis to go off before meeting someone. i did online dating and saved myself a lot of trouble by skyping with guys first. i can tell you i was creeped out by all but one (who i am now dating). I became comfortable with my now boyfriend before going to really MEET him because we had actual face to face conversations.
next point: dont worry about how you think you look. he has seen what you look like and he clearly likes what he sees. i was worried the first time meeting my bf that he wouldn't like how i look because i have braces and im 20, and i wasn't comfortable with how i looked with them, but he thought i was gorgeous and thinks i look good with braces.
warning: most guys on dating sites are out to find a f*** buddy not a serious gf so make sure you know what you are getting yourself into.0