I really like this older man at work. We have a lot in common, spend at least half an hour chatting before and after work and chat for long periods of time during work. through the grapevine, a few people have told me that he is in fact married. Even though I know he is, I still really like him even though I know that I shouldn't. We have a few plans over the summer and what-not, which I am really looking forward to. But anyway, I guess why question is, why won't he tell me that he is married, when he talks about being home, it is always "I", never "we" and the one time he has brought up living with someone else, he said "room-mate".
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it doesn't matter if he mentions his wife or not, the fact is he is married. dont try to metal into other peoples relationships especially if theyre married. if i were his wife i wouldn't want you trying to move in on him just cause he never mentioned me. you know about her so respect the boundaries. there is no but when it comes to this type of thing. it is selfish and you can surely find a guy who is not taken elsewhere, move on. even if he does have bad intentions to be with you while he is married even if he is having marriage problems doesn't give you the right to go along with it. it is not your place. if you really need to hear it from him then just ask him! say you heard he was married and were wondering if that was true.0