So I've been doing a lot of online dating recently, and I've noticed something. I'll always follow up with a text or a call after the date (next day usually, sometimes a day or two after). And whether we go on one date, two dates, seven dates, whatever - if the girl stops being interested, she just cuts off communication. No "sorry, I'm not interested" or "I had a good time, but I don't think this is going to work out" or even "screw you, creeper. never contact me again!"
Is this acceptable behavior nowadays? Getting rejected is one thing - I think any time a guy puts himself out there, he knows rejection is a possibility. But ignoring just hits me as very disrespectful. I'd rather be told to "fuck off, loser" than just be ignored.
Guys, are you seeing this kind of thing too? Girls, do you do this? Do you think it's somehow nicer to ignore than to just flat-out say no?
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A lot of the time women who are dating online- especially if you meet them on dating sites, are seeing/talking to multiple guys at one time. If they ignore you, you're not on their radar currently. However, they don't cut ties with you completely because they want the option of picking up where they left off if whatever they're pursuing currently doesn't work out. In other words, you're their stand-by.0