How do I just be ME when I meet a guy?

So I'm 20 and I've never had a legit boyfriend. There have been a few guys but they never ended up turning into something more. I'm kind of shy at first but when you get to know me I'm not shy at all. I feel like 90 % of the time I meet a guy and he never even gives me a chance to show him the real me. That happens even on a good date. How do I stop being nervous and just be me when I meet guys? I'm not shy every's just sometimes. It's literally driving me insane. I'm too picky about guys to begin with and that also prevents me from meeting someone.


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  • Honestly, most guys can get past a girl being shy and nervous. Unless you're not talking to them at all, of course. There is, more than likely, another reason why guys are not taking things further.


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