Considering the fact that my father left me and abused me at a young age.. and how all of my past friends just abandoned me.. I always thought it was my fault.. I really really REALLY like my boyfriend.. I'm scared if I get too close to him he'll just leave me all of the other people who left me..
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I'm so sorry that happened to you, let me just take the time to say well done for doing so well to still be here and you must be a really strong person :)
My dad died at a young age and that caused me to have a lot of the same sorts of insecurities and fears you do, feeling like no one will be around for ever or that they'll abandon you. It's a horrible feeling but it's one that will go away when someone proves themselves to you and you become safe and secure in a relationship. If this guy you're with hasn't given you any reason to suggest he's going to leave give him the benefit of the doubt. Try to enjoy being together rather than worrying about a future that you can never be certain of no matter how much you try to control it.
The night before my dad died I was worried for some reason that he would leave, and I told him that, he said to me he was never going anywhere. If I've learnt anything from that it's that life is too short, it's too short to worry about what could or couldn't happen. Just enjoy the time you have with people and whatever will happen will happen but don't be afraid to love and be loved :) It's part of living and it's what you, of all people, deserve :)1