No you're not racist. My boyfriend thinks white women are disgusting! and i see why they are totally unattractive, YUCK. He prefers to stay to his own kind, he's totally not racist tho, he has white girls as friends and so do i.
UMMMM feel any type of what when i wrote that? You should have.
I agree with the comment that said your wording makes you racist. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but you come across as very narrow-minded. When you get older and have children, you will pass this on to them and that is very scary. For example, I'm a tall woman, I think if i were to date a short guy that would bother me because of the hight difference. If I don't think people who are with people shorter or taller than them are digesting or gross. That would be absurd! And that is exactly how you sound when you say interracial dating is "gross."
Your response to another commentator is that "interracial dating just doesn't feel natural. . ." How can two human beings who like/love each other not feel natural? You know what is un-natural? -Beastiality.
Also, Let's be clear, NO ONE is 100 percent anything. Yes, you are white, but you may have a black relative somewhere down in your family line. So your very make up might be the "gross" byproducts of the type of relationships you think is disgusting. SO in that case, who would want to date YOU because your "GROSS"?
No, I do not think interracial dating is 'Gross' by any means. If you aren't attracted to other races, that's fine, that's personal preference and you shouldn't date someone you aren't attracted to; HOWEVER it's kind of ignorant to think it's 'gross'. That's like saying you're above other races because you're white and to date someone from another race is dating down, which is a completely skewed close minded way of thinking. I'm not in an interracial relationship but I think I can go ahead and assume that just by you saying you mean no offense to those who are in one, means that is an offensive statement to make. As for the guy who asked you out, that wasn't a very eloquent way to word it for you not wanting to date him, that's hurtful. He has a heart and feelings and to say strictly that you won't date him because of the color of his skin is going to leave him feeling pretty crappy afterwards. You should be more open-minded and kind when turning others down. I also hope interracial friendships aren't out of the question for you too, because by the wording of this question you sound pretty racist all around, not just "not attracted to other races".
I think interracial dating is fine, and dating within your own race is fine too. You should only date people you're attracted to, and if that means you draw lines between races simply because you don't feel any attraction to them, that's okay. Date whomever YOU like within YOUR own parameters and not what your friends say you should try. Being only attracted to white guys does not make you racist.
That being said, I do think your thinking (or maybe phrasing) is somewhat flawed: just because you don't want to date interracially doesn't make other peoples' interracial relationships "gross." If anything, I think it's great that people can and will cross that divide to get to know more about their partner's different cultural background.
I think your allowed to make your own decision
but why hurt the black guys feelings? You know
that guy has a heart just like me and you
shame on you for doing this, God made us all
equal in his own eyes, God didn't tell me not
to sit by the black woman cause she is black
you know this is all wrong, I support you don't
date interracial but why hurt some black guys
feelings , why not plain come out and say sorry
I'm dating a guy or make some other excuse up
there are ways to go about without hurting people
i can't say i would never date interracial cause
i would be lying to myself , we all Gods children
So many things I've heard today have made me want to crawl into a hole and die and this question and some of its answers are no exception. I guess I just don't understand it.. I've never really differentiated beauty by race so when I see people not just doing that but actively condemning those who think differently it just makes me want to jump out my window head first (I'm on the second floor).
Every time I'm feeling particularly good about human acceptance and respect somebody has to tear it down again.. Ah humanity.. We're a special breed of animal aren't we?
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I think it takes a certain kind of person to be able to handle the cultural differences (as well as physical, in your case) and to actually find them interesting and a part of what makes them attractive. I'm a product of an interracial marriage and I can proudly say that I love both sides of my racial mix.
So no, I don't find it gross, and I do find it weird that anyone can see interracial dating as gross, but I can understand where you're coming from when it comes to what you're attracted to. But if it's really just that, you're "only attracted to white guys", then saying that it's gross is probably not the best way to phrase it.
I don't think its gross at all, pretty much every girl I've dated has belonged to a different race and culture. Sharing and learning about each other's differences makes for a hell of a conversation topic. At the end of the day an interracial couple is just two human beings who are both satisfying the human need to be loved with one another.
As for only being attracted to white guys, well... we can't help who we find attractive. But I would never go as far as to turn down someone just because of their race, and I certainly wouldn't tell them that's the reason either. I can completely understand why he got offended.
I'm just curious, what specifically makes you think interracial dating is gross? I'm not trying to change your mind about anything, but I would like to know why some people have this point of view.
No. I am currently in an interracial relationship. Being in a relationship with another human being is not gross. Then again, I don't give a shit about race. I don't want to limit myself to just one race of men. There are a lot of great guys out there of ALL races. You're entitled to your opinion but I disagree.
you like what you like. However taking it as far as you did, now you sound like a racist. Which maybe you are.
Personally you can't choose who you fall for. Then again love is blind and color doesn't matter.
Im not saying you should date people of other races, but dont judge because you dont like it.
Ill bet you will even say something like: I have friends of all races and colors. Ill give you a dollar if you tell them what you said here.
I don't pay attention to skin color really, if he has good features i'm all for it. I've dated two black guys and two white guys so my indifference is pretty clear. Also, I've got this weird thing for Asian guys... I literally cannot justify my preference for them, but I think they're insanely pleasant to look at.
When you phrase it like that - specifically citing his race as the reason you rejected him...that sounds incredibly racist.
If you only like white guys, then date only white guys but for the sake of society never cite someone's race as the reason you don't date them. >.<
Does anyone else think interracial dating is gross?
-From what you are saying, I would say yes.
It's funny... Umm... if it's racist for you not to date black guys, then why isn't it racist for him to not date black girls? He maybe black, but that doesn't matter. The fact that he doesn't want to date a girl of his own race makes him the racist, not you.
-I find it more annoying than gross. As white guy, I'm soo un-attracted to black girls I can't even put it into words.
Thinking it's gross in general does make you a racist. You don't have to be attracted to all races. Preferences are a thing. But to say all interracial relationships are gross makes you GROSS.
Everybody have there on preference and there on opinions when it comes to dating which is fine but always be cautious of your on words especially when you get approach (and also how you think about it). According to genetics, scientists has proven that were all (meaning all people) mixed race and interracial dating is the norm now. If your getting approach by different races (especially black men) that is a major complement meaning your very attractive like that. Until you give it try, your opinion can get worst (meaning many people will call you a racist and it will not only be black people calling you that) because everybody is created equal and one thing that I learn about are opinions (coming from 16yrs of experience of a current patrol officer) is if we don't think twice or your going base on your own morals we can limit are selves from many opportunities because are own opinion can be proven wrong especially if you don't have a open mind with this topic.
Any race is a human and should be treated the same. If I did fall in love with a dark skinned guy, so be it. If I did fall in love with an Asian guy, so be it! They are guys after all and races have their own personal attractive quality.
I do not have a problem with interracial dating or marrying. I really do not see why people should even give it a name. It's two humans in love, that's it.
Just because you don't prefer nonwhite men, how does that make interracial dating gross?
That's harsh. But anyway I don't find it gross at all. Personally I'm rarely attracted to black guys anyway, but if I were to be, I'd date them. I'm white and attracted to whites, Asians, etc.
No. Although, I'm ashamed to admit I had an Asian fetish when I was in High School, but then I realized how narrow-minded I was being; not only to other races, but to the Asian women I desired. Not that preferences are inherently wrong, but I was basically sexually objectifying Asian women in my mind. The only thing that matters now to me is the person. Looks are somewhat important, but a good looking girl is a good looking girl, regardless of race. So I never discriminated in the sense that I excluded myself from dating other women, but I definitely preferred Asians at one point.
I don't think what you're saying is necessarily racist unless you think you are superior to another human being simply by virtue of being born white; which is what racism implies. I think your line of thought is definitely prejudiced, though.
I'm the product of a interracial marriage and I'm totally fine with interracial dating. Even though I could date Hispanic or white guys and still be dating within my own race, I'm usually really attracted to Asian guys, but I've been attracted to guys of many different races.
I do not think interracial dating is gross. That's like saying people who are more than 1 race are gross also. And why only use black guys as an example? There is more than just black & white in this world. You should do you, and not be so grossed out on other races dating.. you aren't the one in the relationship nor is It your business.
I'm in an interracial relationship and don't think anything of it.
I can't imagine why you think looking beyond something as silly as skin colour is "gross".
This is the easiest topic to answer. White women that would ever consider sex with a black are white trash skanks and will never live down the shame and embarrassment of that reputation. Most white people will never relate to being attracted to charcoal black genitals. Take a look around at the class of women you see with black men.. all of them are disgusting losers who never get attention from any other men. Once you sink that low, no descent white man will ever consider touch you again.. you girls keep finding new ways to degrade yourselfs and humiliate your families. The next thing white trash skanks will be into will be sex with dogs, goats, etc. What a life:)
Honestly I agree with the statement that interratial relationships is gross , black guys should stick with black girls and stop trying to act all offended over things that aren't really racist , and to be honest most people I know are Racist and there's a lot of black people in my are and thank god there's no interracial relationships cos I think I would puke , Black people think they can do whatever because if anything happens to them theyll just say someone or something was either racist or discriminated against them. Basically I feel that black guys should stick with black girls and I feel that Asian girls can be in a relationship with a white guy but an Asian guy can be with a white girl cos it doesn't really work out.
In my opinion, it depends on the race and looks of the people. For example, I can see hispanic and whte as long as their physical features are similar, I can see Asian and white or Asian and hispanic. What I can't stand is seeing black and white couples, especially when the man is black. I just get a stomach ache and feel sorry for the girl. The feeling is worse when I have seen sex scenes on movies or series that involve a black guy and a white girl.
The main problem in today's stupidly sensitive world is that a person can't defend their race, country, personal tastes in terms of people or even mention the word "black" without bothering someone else. It's stupid, ridiculous and disgusting. What is everybody supposed to do? Dating a black person or never say anything bad about them?
Care to list the reasons why you won't date black guys? Perhaps that may shed some light on the whole "you're a racist" remark.
If you don't like the idea of dating outside of your race, then that's your prerogative, that's your preference. You're not a racist for not wanting to date outside of your race.
What do I think of Interracial dating? I don't really think much of it, I like women of all races and will happily date outside of my race.
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