So I'm 6'2 220 lbs, but I'm not really "fat" I've just got a little bit of a gut. I do a lot of weight lifting and work on a farm, so I'm very active. I have never had a girlfriend and never had a girl tell me im hot or good looking so thats kind of a damper on what I think of my self.
Anyways, I've got this (girl) friend, she really beautiful and I like her a lot, but were just friends for now because we can't date until were 18. I have told her that I like her but she only said we should become better friends first because like I said before neither of us can date until were 18. so my question is.. did she put me in the friend zone by saying we should become better friends, or not? and if she did, is it because I'm a bigger guy?
Her: She's does basketball, softball track and all that stuff so she is very in shape and very good looking. and I think that because she is that way she could get about any guy out there, so that kind of makes me nervous.
by the way I'm 16 and she's 15.
If your a girl reading this, and you like bigger guys please leave what you look like plz!
and if you have any questions about anything to do with this please ask.
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I think she cares about you and likes you, she also sounds like she has her head screwed on. It's good for you guys to take the time where you can't date to get to know eachother, take the time to work our your compatibility.
Just because she's small doesn't mean she will not like you because you're much bigger. Girls, on the whole, like bigger guys. You sound like a big guy judging by your statistics but if you work out them I'm guessing that muscle mass is where the weight is coming in. In which case...also good! ;)
I'm 5'1 and 98 pounds and I like bigger, taller guys and I'm sure a lot of other women do so don't worry. Becoming friends with a girl you're interested in and who seems interested in you isn't friendzoning, it's just getting to know eachother first (again, another thing a lot of girls like to do before dating) :)2