I have met this guy online. There seemed to be good communication, so we decided to meet.
The first date was OK but I didn't feel attracted to him enough. He was fun so I said maybe I have to wait and see.
He seemed interested and at the other date I just felt uncomfortable. He was also getting physically closer like touching my back or hand and whispering etc.
Later I noticed that the person in the online profile must be his brother because he looks close but with differences.
I did not like him but I didn't want to cut him off at once. He is not attractive enough for me.
I was shocked when he-in the middle of a friendly conversation about salons- said I don't take care of myself ! I asked him what he meant and he said he doesn't mean anything bad. I just told him that I am confident in who I am and asked if he would like to be told he is overweight or unattractive- which he is.He apologized but I cut him off.
I am not going to praise myself but I believe I am much more attractive than him and suited by hot men frequently. I just decided not to be shallow and give him a chance but the ugly guy who posted someone else's picture is telling me this! I would accept it from a bf who is close but not from someone like this.
Have you ever been told something rude on a date?
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Sounds to me like you should keep trying!
I'd never say to a girl she didn't take care of herself... especially not when I'm just getting to know them! that's just rude! If I thought that, what I'd do is surprise her with a spa day and make up some story about how I thought she deserved some pampering!1