How does that work? I haven't been in a relationship for so long and I feel weird about not being able to...contribute, mainly because I'm in school with no job. He has the money to pay for shit but I feel like one day he's gonna be like "ok bitch, can you even buy yourself a can of soda?" - the answer would be probably not cause soda is expensive. But anyway! He's a great guy and has been my best friend since we were in our early teens, so he knows me and that I would never be with him just because he always picks up the tab. I bring over beer when I can, is that cool? or nah
Ok, we are together now but how long does he pay for everything?
What Guys Said 6
I pay for everything when it comes to girlfriends, girls I'm dating, and even close friends who happen to be females. With that being said, when a female fights me for the check, it means the world to me. One of my best friends (girl) put it best, "I want to pay for us too". Currently I'm dating a girl who always takes out her clutch AND credit card/cash when the check arrives; the act in itself shows she's willing and cares enough to offer0
He won't even care about paying for everything when you go out. If you really wanna, pay back in stuff like beer like you are, or save up for a while and plan a surprise holiday or something for you both1
yes it is but if you two get married then it does not matter who pays cause the money to pay for things comes from both of you and that is a great team to be on1
What Girls Said 7
In my relationship, it was a gradual process but he's still a gentleman and occasionally pays for things. I've offered to pay for my own food, cinema tickets etc from day one so you could just offer to buy your own stuff once in a while.0
Personally, I think that a guy should pay for dates and stuff most of the time. But when you feel like its something you can handle paying by yourself and as a treat to him, then you should pay for it.
After marriage, its 'your' money as well as 'his' money.0
go places where you don't have to spend money!1
well first you need a way to get monry then once you have some, offer to pay for him. me and my bf take turns buying cause we both have jobs0
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