There's this girl I have a crush on... I guess she just isn't into me... Everybody I asked is saying that, I just don't seem to want to believe it... I'm a pretty sensitive type, it's hard for me to get attached and have feelings for someone, but once I do it's harder to let go... What should I do?
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I'm sorry to hear that you're kind of hurting, Uraniu. The answer, "I don't want a boyfriend right now," isn't as vague as you think. She has spoken and she's not into you.
I think time is your greatest ally, but you can have another ally which will help you. It's called distance. Since prolonged contact tends to prolong the recovery, you might want to consider limiting your contact with her. This doesn't mean that you become rude or nasty to her. You just stop hanging out. You stop texting. You stop calling. If she wants an explanation, tell her.
Now, you are free to pursue the next Ms. Awesome. The question remains; what are you doing to make yourself become more attractive to women?2
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