long story short I lived in a different part of the country, and came back to my hometown and looking for a job now. I dont want to buy a flat here, as the town is sleepy and I would consider spending my whole life here. Could this girl be a good one, or just after for a guy with car, house, good job kind of thing. As there is a saying, when a guy is in a bad condition a real woman would stay with him, and when a man is rich, a good guy would stay with his woman. What is your opinion?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't blame her for her hesitation.
I am divorced and my ex husband had lived at home up until we married which was 25.
I wish I'd been able to see for myself that he could live without "mummy and daddy" because it would have stopped me from marrying him. He couldn't ever separate from them, as in, he never totally moved out.
Of course, financially it's best for you to live at home. But right off the bat there's NO way for the girl to see you're financially independent, have a good work ethic to back that, and generally know how to live on your own.
Sadly this will turn girls off. I won't ever date a guy still living at home until I really got to know him and could see for myself how he functions as an independent adult. I really would have to see it for real, I can't just assume again.
That's not to say NO girl out there would date you, but you must understand the caution at your age.
Being on your own shows how you are as an individual in the world and this can't be imagined or assumed.0