I'm a 24 year old business student and because of my career I find myself dressing very sophisticated, classy and elegant. I occassionally look like a tomboy.
Nobody that doesn't know me long enough would guess that I was a rocker in my teens.
I still listen to rock music, metal, indie, punk, ska, and so on.
I am attracted to these types of guys but when they see me on the streets they usually don't even glance a second time whereas when I was younger I was flooded with attention.
How do I become more approachable for these types of guys?
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Maybe dress more casually when you are in a casual setting? Break out the band shirts when you're just hanging out with friends. I'm kind of in the same boat...though I don't have a job yet, I'd like to get a job where you've got to dress up cause I need the money. But as for who I really am, I'm still very interested in the more creative side of life.
You could also make first contact with those guys. Make an icebreaker - if you see one of these guys wearing a shirt of a band you like, you could just say that it's nice and strike up a conversation about it. Perhaps they'd enjoy the fact that you're a rocker in disguise!2