Ok so me and my housemate get along really well and we have been sleeping together since February.We where spending a lot of time together at one point and acting all coupley.Things have slowed down a bit but we are still sleeping together, he told me he doesn't have feelings for me that way..there is another girl he has been seeing and he spends a lot of time together.i found out that he introduced her to his mum and dad.he told me that he doesn't want a relationship with her..if he doesn't want to be with her then why did he introduce her to the parents and not me? he tells me I'm pretty, sexy and have a good personality.why do guys never want to take things further with me.i am inlove with him and it hurts so much being in this situation and knowing he wants to spend all his time with her and not me as much anymore.why does he spend less time with me now?
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From what you've presented here, it appears that you're the side girl and she's the girl he's pursuing. It really is a dangerous game to casually sleep with someone. It starts off fun, easy and harmless, then someone gets attached and the other person isn't. The other hard part with that is. . . had you NOT slept with him casually, he may have considered you datable, you'll never know now. So, he gets his physical needs met by you, while he courts her. She didn't meet the folks for no reason. . . he's told you he's romantically interested in another woman. I think you've hit the end of the road here, time to quit sleeping with him and start meeting other people.4