I have a bit of a thing for a guy in my class, a friend of mine in our class already has him on Facebook. I've talked to him a few times in class but wondering would it look creepy if I all the sudden added him? My friend has her friends hidden so it's not as if I can see him that way, but he has come up under "People you may know". I just want to add him without him thinking it's creepy or thinking why the hell is she adding me lol. I don't feel like I can straight up ask him for his Facebook either.. I get really nervous when I'm around him too. I remember someone from my class who I never talked too randomly added me on Facebook and I thought why are they adding me? How did they get my Facebook? I just don't want him to think the same, I at least talk to him sometimes though. And not only that he is friends with the girl that randomly added me, so I feel a bit weird about adding him, all I know she just like him too. She also deleted me a few days after adding me.
How can I add him without looking creepy?
What Guys Said 8
Its not the creepy, most people take Facebook pretty casual. Starting a convo there really is no different then real life. It would only be creepy if you had no connection besides and friend and you had never met.0
Just. Do. It.0
You're overthinking this. He's a guy, he won't find it creepy at all.
I added a girl on Facebook that I had 0 mutual friends with because she was my crush. Turns out I was her crush too. If a girl didn't find it creepy, there's no way a guy would find it creepy.0
Just add him, nothing bad will happen from it.0
Funnily enough if I got a random add from a girl I wouldn't find it creepy at all.1
Just do it. I accept peoples friend requests all the time without a second though. If I don't recognize them I'll ask where I know them from and if they don't respond I simply delete them. If I recognize them I might say hey what's up and all that jazz just to acknowledge them.
Don't make a big deal out of it, it isn't one.0
What Girls Said 5
it won't be creepy - its not like you found him from searching him anyway Facebook suggested you may know him lol and he says something be like ohh you came up on my fb people i might know , say it as it was no big deal for you and as if you almost forgot about it but i doubt it will be a big deal and he'll either strike a convo or just think its normal you're adding him.1
Add him it won't be creepy. The only time that comes off creepy is if you never spoke a word to him in your life lol don't be scared!0
I doubt he'll think you're creepy just go ahead and add hi,.0
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