I've been on 3 dates with this guy and he hasn't kissed me? He doesn't come across as shy either. After the last date he didn't message me until a day after and it find that on the days he says he's going to be doing something, he doesn't text me. I'm confused also because I'm not 100% sure of how interested I am in him. He is a really nice guy but I don't know if I feel like I can be myself around him. I know it takes time to feel like you can be yourself but I've had dates before where even by the first date I feel like I can be myself. Do you think it's weird he hadn't kissed me yet? I've usually kissed the guy by the 3rd date lol if things are going well.
We have been on three dates, why hasn't he kissed me yet?
What Guys Said 5
Kiss him at the beginning of the 4th date. Maybe there is just this awkward barrier built up now that needs to be busted down!0
Give it some time. My GF and I didn't kiss until we knew eachother for a month (albeit it was our first official date when the first kiss happened). I do remember that there may have been opportunities that were presented to kiss, but it didn't happen until the right moment it seemed.0
I mean, me personally, I would have gone for it by the third date. But maybe he's just a little unsure about how he feels, or maybe he's shy for whatever reason? Or maybe a little bit of both?
If you like him and want to see him again, then just go along for the ride and see what happens.0
Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable around you yet and he wants to get to know you better before getting any types of intimacy, or he's not sure about how you feel about him and he was afraid of being rejected. By just reading your post, it's really hard to assume his personality. I'd say he's trying to take his time and wants to take things slowly.0
What Girls Said 1
He can probably sense your feelings, but 3 dates and no kiss? That is early still. You don't even know if you like him, maybe he feels the same way. Give it time.0
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