Okay, it been about two year since i've been with my ex boyfriend. We were together for two years and i take my relationship seriously. Anyways he was cheating and we were having an off an on type of relationship. He hated when i talk, hug, and play around with my guy friends, and yes they were just friends. But i would always see him walking with other girls, talking with other girls, and hugging them, yet he was always mad when one of my guy friend did that with and when he also saw them holding my stuff when walking. by the way this is at school. Anyways it been two year since the last time i broke up with him. But my heart is still hurting from being with out him, yeah i love him, i gave him every part of me. My problem know though is moving on and trying to be with other guys. Im trying so hard to trust again, but how can i trust people, guys and girls, when they are always hurting me. Can someone please help?
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Ok im had a semi same problem, but I talked to someone else not leading them on like that and he broke up with me calling it "cheating" a week later..btw my bday week he is with this other girl now. Im belittled myself to try in win his heart back and he would take it in and reel it back out and played me so hard in the process. For that I have and will NEVER BEG FOR A BOY AGAIN. Months later I met this boy needless to say he was fine!!! But I just couldn't have any emotion to him because of the gate I had for my ex boyfriend.but as we got closer so my walls I put up began to fall. I sometimes still think about my ex and we even try to talk from time to time but the moral of this story is when you find the right one he will break those defensive walls you've put up and make it even more enjoyable. My advice never treat the next like your ex.