What is a good amount and what is too much? We spoke on phone earlier in the day and it went well and set a date for a few days later. He said he likes talking to me and wants to talk more before the date too. He said he will text me later so tonight he texted me asking how was my evening.
He seemed nice and normal nothing alarming or "weird" but is this too much contact or a good amount? Could he be desperate or am I being too critical? I feel like I am looking for faults on purpose.
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He likes you.
When I like a girl, I want to learn everything about her. I want to talk to her as much as I can. Some guys (like me) won't really go on a first date with someone that they don't already have a pretty major crush on. Once we start talking, we don't want to stop, regardless of when our first date is.
I would encourage you to go with it. Talking more before the first date gives you a better idea of who he is and it gives him a better idea of who you are. That will make the first date be all that much smoother and just better. Communication is key in any relationship. And it is arguably the most important during the early days.0