The two guys I know that have been single for a while have some serious issues. They both happen to be just difficult people to deal with, long story short.
I know another guy who I don't know very well and I'm wondering if he's got something up with him too.
I mean single for 3-4 years. I'm going on 2, I'm quite socially withdrawn and depressed! But want to be single, for a bit longer.
I just wonder about this guy, I wonder if being single for several years most likely means they've got something negative about them.
What's your experience with this?
I just wonder but wouldn't know until I get to know them anyway. But I'm cautious, I admit.
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There are a lot of reasons people are single for extended periods. Sometimes people want to take time to focus on school or their career. Sometimes there are things going on in their personal life they are working through before they feel comfortable being in a relationship. Sometimes people are getting over someone else and don't want to rush back into things. Could it mean there is something wrong with the? I guess so. But I think it is just as likely a sign of maturity and security that they don't feel the need to be in a relationship all the time to feel fulfilled, and that they aren't rushing into relationships when they aren't in a place in their life where they're ready to do so.1